Bless your heart.BlackVelvet wrote:What about loveBrobaganda wrote:Most ppl get married because they don't wanna die alone.
Some marry just to reproduce
Others for anytime intercourse
Some for a better quality of life. Two incomes are better than one
And others for all of the above
SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
That too
But some are in loveless marriages. Many immigrants are in arranged marriages. Some are married just for dependency.
Love fades away for 50% of couples though. Ends in divorce. You have to question if there was really love to begin with
But some are in loveless marriages. Many immigrants are in arranged marriages. Some are married just for dependency.
Love fades away for 50% of couples though. Ends in divorce. You have to question if there was really love to begin with
Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
Legit fear. Lakiin,one has to knw they are making the best possible decision at that moment and commit to it.There is no take backs and refund policies.BlackVelvet wrote:Colonel ma kula yaabayi, Ilaahey aa u maqan xaskaaga iyo ilmahaaga
Tuushi that is a fear I've heard people share. Get married and then meet your Mr.Right after...
Then again,it would suck to live a miserable life coz of a bad decision.
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

Hang on, you guys are agreeing with this statement?
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
Welcome to Snet.BlackVelvet wrote:![]()
Hang on, you guys are agreeing with this statement?

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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
Don't you think it's yucky to be with someone when you don't feel that way about them? Especially when you are not being forced into it 

Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
I thought u didnt believe in love,what the hell happened? 

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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
all that money, the money is the motifBlackVelvet wrote:Don't you think it's yucky to be with someone when you don't feel that way about them? Especially when you are not being forced into it

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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
Ok now I see what people were talking about.......that DJ smiley is indeed annoying.
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
Tuushi wrote:I thought u didnt believe in love,what the hell happened?
I was being hard innit

But when it comes down to it I don't even buy a bag unless I feel that way about it. Can't imagine buying a husband because he's practical wth

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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
Then stop going to the huudheedhka.BlackVelvet wrote:Can't imagine buying a husband because he's practical wth

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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
I'm guessing most people especially in developing countries get married more because of other things than feelings. Feelings is there for most but not the most important reason
Look at last generation Somalis. Almost all married in their late teens, early 20s. Are we supposed to believe they all married at that same time because they all fell in love at that age bracket? Nonsense. They married mostly because of culture and that's just how things were. In this case love was maybe secondar or maybe not even in existence. I know most Somalis are in loving marriages but there were other more important factors
Look at last generation Somalis. Almost all married in their late teens, early 20s. Are we supposed to believe they all married at that same time because they all fell in love at that age bracket? Nonsense. They married mostly because of culture and that's just how things were. In this case love was maybe secondar or maybe not even in existence. I know most Somalis are in loving marriages but there were other more important factors
Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
Hard mise mushy like mashed potatoes.BlackVelvet wrote:Tuushi wrote:I thought u didnt believe in love,what the hell happened?
I was being hard innit![]()
But when it comes down to it I don't even buy a bag unless I feel that way about it. Can't imagine buying a husband because he's practical wth

Lols@ buying a husband.
Make the selection well,it is a final sale and faulty product stays with u .
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
My parents married for loveBrobaganda wrote:I'm guessing most people especially in developing countries get married more because of other things than feelings. Feelings is there for most but not the most important reason
Look at last generation Somalis. Almost all married in their late teens, early 20s. Are we supposed to believe they all married at that same time because they all fell in love at that age bracket? Nonsense. They married mostly because of culture and that's just how things were. In this case love was maybe secondar or maybe not even in existence. I know most Somalis are in loving marriages but there were other more important factors

What is huudheedhka?AgentOfChaos wrote:Then stop going to the huudheedhka.BlackVelvet wrote:Can't imagine buying a husband because he's practical wth
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings
there will always be someone or something to one up what you got... "something better" shouldn't be the basis for looking for a suitable partner - it will lead to an endless search. have a checklist(be realistic) and when u find someone who meets your expectation. nab em'BlackVelvet wrote:They get married because they don't think they'll find anything better
Would you agree with that statement?
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