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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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BlackVelvet wrote:
Brobaganda wrote:Most ppl get married because they don't wanna die alone.

Some marry just to reproduce

Others for anytime intercourse

Some for a better quality of life. Two incomes are better than one

And others for all of the above
What about love
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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That too

But some are in loveless marriages. Many immigrants are in arranged marriages. Some are married just for dependency.

Love fades away for 50% of couples though. Ends in divorce. You have to question if there was really love to begin with
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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BlackVelvet wrote:Colonel ma kula yaabayi, Ilaahey aa u maqan xaskaaga iyo ilmahaaga


Tuushi that is a fear I've heard people share. Get married and then meet your Mr.Right after...
Legit fear. Lakiin,one has to knw they are making the best possible decision at that moment and commit to it.There is no take backs and refund policies.

Then again,it would suck to live a miserable life coz of a bad decision.
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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:mindblown:


Hang on, you guys are agreeing with this statement?
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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BlackVelvet wrote::mindblown:


Hang on, you guys are agreeing with this statement?
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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Don't you think it's yucky to be with someone when you don't feel that way about them? Especially when you are not being forced into it Image
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I thought u didnt believe in love,what the hell happened? :lol:
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BlackVelvet wrote:Don't you think it's yucky to be with someone when you don't feel that way about them? Especially when you are not being forced into it Image
all that money, the money is the motif
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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Ok now I see what people were talking about.......that DJ smiley is indeed annoying.
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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Tuushi wrote:I thought u didnt believe in love,what the hell happened? :lol:

I was being hard innit :lol:

But when it comes down to it I don't even buy a bag unless I feel that way about it. Can't imagine buying a husband because he's practical wth :lol:
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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BlackVelvet wrote:Can't imagine buying a husband because he's practical wth :lol:
Then stop going to the huudheedhka. :umad:
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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I'm guessing most people especially in developing countries get married more because of other things than feelings. Feelings is there for most but not the most important reason

Look at last generation Somalis. Almost all married in their late teens, early 20s. Are we supposed to believe they all married at that same time because they all fell in love at that age bracket? Nonsense. They married mostly because of culture and that's just how things were. In this case love was maybe secondar or maybe not even in existence. I know most Somalis are in loving marriages but there were other more important factors
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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BlackVelvet wrote:
Tuushi wrote:I thought u didnt believe in love,what the hell happened? :lol:

I was being hard innit :lol:

But when it comes down to it I don't even buy a bag unless I feel that way about it. Can't imagine buying a husband because he's practical wth :lol:
Hard mise mushy like mashed potatoes. :lol:

Lols@ buying a husband.

Make the selection well,it is a final sale and faulty product stays with u .
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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Brobaganda wrote:I'm guessing most people especially in developing countries get married more because of other things than feelings. Feelings is there for most but not the most important reason

Look at last generation Somalis. Almost all married in their late teens, early 20s. Are we supposed to believe they all married at that same time because they all fell in love at that age bracket? Nonsense. They married mostly because of culture and that's just how things were. In this case love was maybe secondar or maybe not even in existence. I know most Somalis are in loving marriages but there were other more important factors
My parents married for love :|

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BlackVelvet wrote:Can't imagine buying a husband because he's practical wth :lol:
Then stop going to the huudheedhka. :umad:
What is huudheedhka?
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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BlackVelvet wrote:They get married because they don't think they'll find anything better



Would you agree with that statement?
there will always be someone or something to one up what you got... "something better" shouldn't be the basis for looking for a suitable partner - it will lead to an endless search. have a checklist(be realistic) and when u find someone who meets your expectation. nab em'
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