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Being second wife in the bed is sexy ! let our future husband's reach the highest level of satisfaction

qoraxeey wrote:i have to face reality ......... there are not alot of good single men in my age out there anymore



why is it so shameful to be second wife

a married man does not make him a better man. Most of the time, i noticed the ones that are quick to jump to a 2nd wife aren't good husbands to their first...oh well to each their own.

DonCorleone wrote:There's tons of men in Somalia who would like to marry an educated woman, yall could team up and open a hospital.

Since Somalis have like 7 kids and half or maybe sometimes more then half are boys

I'm tired of ladies saying theres no good somali men

believe it or not that rumour is started by Somali men so they can get all the ladies

There's tons of us.

lol...i've always thought so. They're hidden...just like some good girls.

you dont need to be second wife either you need to die along there are plenty skinny singel faarax out there waiting you you all girls ...
i advice you as nin naag qaba. waligiin gabdho waligiiin nin naag qaba ha aroosina... he will just use you....iska ilaaliya qaasatan salafis beenaayaaasha naagaha gumeysta ee maskaxda ka dhaqa.. aroos waa inuu ahaadaaa one women one xaliimo and one faarax only

DR-YALAXOOW wrote:you dont need to be second wife either you need to die along there are plenty skinny singel faarax out there waiting you you all girls ...
i advice you as nin naag qaba. waligiin gabdho waligiiin nin naag qaba ha aroosina... he will just use you....iska ilaaliya qaasatan salafis beenaayaaasha naagaha gumeysta ee maskaxda ka dhaqa.. aroos waa inuu ahaadaaa one women one xaliimo and one faarax only

how is that any different?

SelfDiscovery wrote:

DonCorleone wrote:There's tons of men in Somalia who would like to marry an educated woman, yall could team up and open a hospital.

Since Somalis have like 7 kids and half or maybe sometimes more then half are boys

I'm tired of ladies saying theres no good somali men

believe it or not that rumour is started by Somali men so they can get all the ladies

There's tons of us.

lol...i've always thought so. They're hidden...just like some good girls.

yup just hidden, the normal ones are quiet, b ut the crazy fucked up ones are loud and shit, you can catch them on facebook lol

So yeah equal amount of Somali boys and girls, just look in the right places, but you can use your own mind to judge a normal from a crazy

so..ladies marry the good the guys, guys marry the good girls and let the suckas(jaan)

go with eachother.

I'm sorry brothers I had to let the secret out. my sister was becoming brainwashed with the lies so I had to cut it right there.

My sister was saying 'there's no good somali men...etc... i'll marry a white muslim or somsething'

No!

So i told her the truth
then I said what about abdi x? and farah y? and adam q? plus there's tons of cool somali dudes back home yo, smart ones, don't say that halimo.

then she was like 'oh yeah just playing'



almost had a heartattack

but inshallah i will find my sister's husband, a good family man that will treat her right, if she likes him etc

why settle for less....naa orod nin raadso....confidence yeelo...mesha ka kac..masakin baa tahaye

She's trolling lol

Stop taking qoraxeey serious

Listen if it was good enough for the likes of Aa'isha Radiyallahu canhu then why not u?
Just make sure the man is known to be god-fearing and just. Pray Salat al-istikhara and place your trust in the most wise.

Girls, being a 2nd(or 3rd or 4th) wife could be more virtuous for you then being a lone wife even though you might not perceive it that way now.If your husband tries his best to look after your rights in this type of marriage and you stick to your side of the deal and be an obedient wife, you will live honourably in this life and inshallah you will enter Paradise in the next one. On the other hand, you could be in a monogamous marriage and not receive your rights.Polygamy in itself should not be an issue because it is permitted by our deen. The question is about rights.

Also remember all men where single once so the fact the that you married him first does not prevent him marrying again along with you.So remember if you marrying a single man, make sure you have come to terms with the fact that he could decide to marry again. And finally, if or when that happens "buuqa ka yaree". Kaftan.

i didnt know arintu sidan o huntahay!

if you really looking to sattle. do not limit your self , by qabil, nationality or race or money. just deen and so e obe who can take care of family, fiancially and responsibility wise. and you find so many of them.

no one is perfect in every way, so list what is important to you and see what you can compromise.

or

just keep doing what you love, ie, education, better yourself, gaining new skils , knowledge, and if tht guy comes, good if not you are not wasting your time thinking of it or waiting him! life shorter than wasting thinking of things that isnot even important.

Enlightened~Sista wrote:Oh Good Heavens.

Qoraxeey.... you're still in your twenties, you have plenty of time! Chillax, read a love story, hug a good friend and share a pot of ice cream. You have nothing to worry about.

One other thing. If the man is young and wants a second wife he is a sexual deviant. The older ones do so because their first wife is too old to bear children. You only have to options of you want to become a second wife...get used to **** sex or become a broodmare.

Qoraxey, Murax is single. Come here to DC.

gedo_gurl wrote:One other thing. If the man is young and wants a second wife he is a sexual deviant. The older ones do so because their first wife is too old to bear children. You only have to options of you want to become a second wife...get used to **** sex or become a broodmare.

that's true sister

let's be honest i will never allow my sister to be a second wife ever, not in this day and age i listed my reasons

as her bro i gotta protect her from liars, there wasn't a war, or a shortage of guys, so no reason to be a second wife AND

if so, why don't the guys marry poor old girls who need a home with their kids ? instead of pretty young single girls from rich backgrounds

loooooooool ladies see the truth.

Don't settle

You're eyeballing a married man, eh?



Go for it.