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PrinceDaadi wrote:Arranged marriage has more successful rate than lust based marriage.

Not by virtue but because of pressures from family and the overall expectations of the society you live in.

For someone like me who is afraid of broken homes, I believe I would settle for an arranged marriage. I think I'm actually in the process of getting married to my cousin now. Wallahi it wasn't arranged lol but I'm sure that is what people will think. I just got sick and tired of the same old routine of dating....ijiid aan ku jiidee waa wax laga tagay. Lol

Cousin babies lol. Technically, you'll both be your own children's uncle and aunt right?

OliveOil wrote:For someone like me who is afraid of broken homes, I believe I would settle for an arranged marriage. I think I'm actually in the process of getting married to my cousin now. Wallahi it wasn't arranged lol but I'm sure that is what people will think. I just got sick and tired of the same old routine of dating....ijiid aan ku jiidee waa wax laga tagay. Lol

you think you are in the process of getting married, you are funny...thanks for the smile.


Its none of my business but I hope that cousin is not a first degree or second degree relative.

OliveOil wrote:For someone like me who is afraid of broken homes, I believe I would settle for an arranged marriage. I think I'm actually in the process of getting married to my cousin now. Wallahi it wasn't arranged lol but I'm sure that is what people will think. I just got sick and tired of the same old routine of dating....ijiid aan ku jiidee waa wax laga tagay. Lol

You decided to address this fear by willingly engaging in official incest.

Lord, please intervene before the second coming of Quasimodo

Neg,

Well historically we are the product of brothers and sisters marrying each other, annoying thought...

Navy,

I thought that sort of thing was only popular with the royals.

well they are copycatting a certain era in human history, I will let your mind find out which era it was?

He is a third and I think it is perfectly fine.

horta why is marriages between cousins (not only 1st, but even 2nd) considered incest - ileen it is permissible in Islam.

As for this topic I agree that arranged (and not forced) marriages are the most successful.

Arranged marriages in this day and age is only for losers nolosha ka dhacay.

arranged marriages

salool wrote:Arranged marriages in this day and age is only for losers nolosha ka dhacay.

Arranged and forced are different.Why do u think being set up is for losers?

Arranged but willing to be aranged...this is fine

Whats a girl to do when she's only seen the guy once and barely exchange words and the next time she sees him, she's supposed to sleep with him....

Cumar, it may have worked for our parents but it would nevr work now.Qof aanad garanayn wax aad ka wada hadashaanba, wuxu qofku jecelyahy amba xiisayo, if you guys are on the same level and have the same goals in life.A complete stranger halka ha ku so fadhiisto, acuudubilah



Tuushi, because i've seen many who are criminals and mental get innocent xalimoos from back home o waxba kala ogayn.Ninka tacliin iyo lacag iyo adaab iyo akhlaaq wanaagsan lehi, uma baahna ina naag lagu rakibo isagaaba naago dabo ordayan.Fahanto