Some pregnant women...

[MujahidAishah]

Waa baa yaab ilmahaga naa waa iska tuurta waa bila dhaqan

BV u can function without kol koolis with my second pregnancy no one knew till I was 7 months and the belly was showing until I use to do my thing till my back gave out

[BlackVelvet]

till my back gave out

See, my point exactly. It's like a ticking bomb. You have to keep an eye on them

[SummerRain]

Xishood ma laha. Where's her husband in all this, aren't they the ones who are supposed to be tortured?

Well he works 10 hours a day and come home to empty plate..ma qof maanta oo dhan so shaqayneyey ba wax karin kara, wa miskiin naagta inu feedhaha ka tumo bey aheyd.I'm not a violent person but this one deserve one hell of a karbaash.I hate lazy pple.



Ismahan, xitaa hadaad sakaraad tahay dhareerka la iska duwa, gabadhan xita matag ma hayo baan ku leeyahy, xita cunto uma so urto.Waa uun kibir.

Bisinka that is really bad for her not to take care of her husband, pregnancy shouldn't stop her from that even if she has bad morning sickness/health. Judging by what you say, I doubt she was any good prior to the pregnancy even. She should try and do what she can, atleast cook the foods that are simple.

[salool]

Doesnt matter which side of the family i'm Bv:lol: , xita hooyaded ba la yaaban.I doubt they will have anymore kids haday sheekadan si socoto.

waxa ila jaar naag afar ciyaala leh o ka weyni yahy 4sano...walaahi markay keega yar uurkisa laheyd inta sadexda is dabo jiido bey ta ugu weyn daycareka gayn jirtay.Iyado caloosho cirka mareyso.yacni kartida naagta ku jirta waan yaabiy jiray..ilaahyo hooyeynka oo gargaar.



Ismaha and Aisha, so tan iin sheegayo naagto caadi maaha.Familigi oo dhan baa yaaban oo cidiyaha iska guray.

[BlackVelvet]

Bisinka that is really bad for her not to take care of her husband, pregnancy shouldn't stop her from that even if she has bad morning sickness/health.

Is she his mother?

[BlackVelvet]

Salool does she call you guys to come to her house or is that whenever you go wey jiifta?

[SummerRain]

Bisinka that is really bad for her not to take care of her husband, pregnancy shouldn't stop her from that even if she has bad morning sickness/health.

Is she his mother?

No, but she is a wife. If the man is out working for his family 10hrs, I don't see the issue with putting together a hot plate of food (might take less than 20mins) for him to eat after a long day. She is home, even if it's hard, she can take rests while cooking. She ain't in africa where she is cooking with charcoal. I can understand with she had difficulty scrubbing bathrooms or floors but for god sake she can fix some food for the poor man.

[BlackVelvet]

What if she can't stand the smell of wax la dalacayo and such. He was working for 10hrs he can find half a half hour to buy some food and bring her ice cream on his way back maxaa jiro? Qasab kuma aha in ey wax u kariso, he needs to be a grown man about it

[DisplacedDiraac]

Bisinka that is really bad for her not to take care of her husband, pregnancy shouldn't stop her from that even if she has bad morning sickness/health.

Is she his mother?

She is his wife.. And as her husband that's one of his rights..

[BlackVelvet]

West when you get married, you marry a grown adult who is fully functioning, hopefully. Why does he become a sac sac who can't do anything for himself when he gets a wife?

[salool]

Salool does she call you guys to come to her house or is that whenever you go wey jiifta?

She ask her husband to drop the kid at our house in his way to work and 10 hours later when he finish he takes the kid with him+ food for the entire evening and the morning after...so her highness dont starv while his is at work.She doesnt want be bothered those 10 hours, dont even answer the phone because she's sleeping.During weekends he do the laundry and some hours we help him with the cleaning.Everyday after work he take care of his child, wash the dishes, and do all arends..adeegi, dhaktarki ilmaha etc etc.

[SummerRain]

Cuunto kasto lama dalaco, so I'm sure she can fix him something that is easy to put together. When I was pregnant, I hated wax ladalacayo too, so I baked alot and made alot of salads. You wouldnt even know if there was something cooking in the house most times. I also closed all doors to the rooms if I cooked something with strong odor that way it didnt get inside. Also, If he ate outside all the time, can you see how financially straining that can be on their budget?

[Enlightened~Sista]

She is not obligated to cook, believe it or not that's not one of her Islamic duties. In some madhabs she should get paid for housework too.

[BlackVelvet]

Ismahan you chose to do that, you didn't have to. Maybe she doesn't know how to bake and since she's already pregnant this is not the time to start learning.


ps finances waa his responsibility

Salool does she call you guys to come to her house or is that whenever you go wey jiifta?

She ask her husband to drop the kid at our house in his way to work and 10 hours later when he finish he takes the kid with him+ food for the entire evening and the morning after...so her highness dont starv while his is at work.She doesnt want be bothered those 10 hours, dont even answer the phone because she's sleeping.During weekends he do the laundry and some hours we help him with the cleaning.Everyday after work he take care of his child, wash the dishes, and do all arends..adeegi, dhaktarki ilmaha etc etc.

Mashallah is he looking for wife no.2? This man knows how to do his job properly

[DisplacedDiraac]

West when you get married, you marry a grown adult who is fully functioning, hopefully. Why does he become a sac sac who can't do anything for himself when he gets a wife?

He's a grown man who's working his socks of *10 hours per day* providing for his family.. The very least the wife could do is slap up a simple meal for him at least once a day.. Assuming she doesn't work.
Being pregnant doesn't make one physically handicapped.. If she can get herself dressed and feed surely she can do a little work around the house and make him a little something to eat..
People need to put themselves in other people's shoes marmar..
Plus marriage is a partnership.. It isn't a one way thing!