Love is doing the dishes

[Insomniac]

@Inasamaale
I wish I didn't read it.

Oh boy, where do I begin? So this idiot married a smarter woman, whether he loved her, loves her now, etc, is all debatable. What is certain is that, this smart woman has psychologically conditioned him. Like a monkey that gets an electric shock when he does bad or the lab rat that presses a button to receive food, she reinforced a particular behaviour by rewarding it with a behaviour that the subject thinks is love and discouraging whatever she perceives as a bad behaviour by punishing the subject, in this instance, she was not reciprocating his advances and ignoring him. Don't get me wrong, she is not a monster. This happens everywhere and every time around us. Mothers do it to their kids, scientists do it to their lab rats, etc. In fact, I have nothing against her and I don't condemn such actions as I believe might makes right. But for the idiot to come out and write to home about his ridiculous bullying that he conflates with love and calling for other people to actively allow themselves to be treated like lab rats is laughable, if not down right offensive. He should be ashamed of himself.

Trust BV to love these kinds of articles.

[BlackVelvet]

A friend sent this to me y'day. I agree that as a society we should redefine what love is and not rely on literature (used loosely), shows, movies or other forms of communication to teach us how we should act in relationships

True

Lakin in general do you perceive love when someone does something for you and is that how you show love to the people already in your life? It seems like if we were like that already as a society, then it wouldn't be such a stretch to extend the same to a spouse. Are we really so clueless or is it just selfishness?

[BlackVelvet]

@Inasamaale
I wish I didn't read it.

Oh boy, where do I begin? So this idiot married a smarter woman, whether he loved her, loves her now, etc, is all debatable. What is certain is that, this smart woman has psychologically conditioned him. Like a monkey that gets an electric shock when he does bad or the lab rat that presses a button to receive food, she reinforced a particular behaviour by rewarding it with a behaviour that the subject thinks is love and discouraging whatever she perceives as a bad behaviour by punishing the subject, in this instance, she was not reciprocating his advances and ignoring him. Don't get me wrong, she is not a monster. This happens everywhere and every time around us. Mothers do it to their kids, scientists do it to their lab rats, etc. In fact, I have nothing against her and I don't condemn such actions as I believe might makes right. But for the idiot to come out and write to home about his ridiculous bullying that he conflates with love and calling for other people to actively allow themselves to be treated like lab rats is laughable, if not down right offensive. He should be ashamed of himself.

Trust BV to love these kinds of articles.

I did catch on to the conditioning which was brilliantly done but still that's not the point of it.

How would you show your wife that you love her?

[Lillaahiya]

A friend sent this to me y'day. I agree that as a society we should redefine what love is and not rely on literature (used loosely), shows, movies or other forms of communication to teach us how we should act in relationships

True

Lakin in general do you perceive love when someone does something for you and is that how you show love to the people already in your life? It seems like if we were like that already as a society, then it wouldn't be such a stretch to extend the same to a spouse. Are we really so clueless or is it just selfishness?

Yeah man. I don't do things for someone I don't care about unless it's common courtesy (i.e. holding out the door for someone behind me, telling someone they dropped/forgot something, returning a smile, etc). For people I do care for, I'll do things for them w/o asking. Not out of obligation or respect but because I want to.

p.s. Sometimes, I have a burning desire to domesticate Insomniac

[Insomniac]

@Jasmine
I don't know. I am a loner and I don't like to be around people for too long. Maybe by disappearing every now and then, since absence makes the heart grow fonder.

I like how you did not mention anything about the conditioning, while promoting the weak writer's bullshit as a cardinal truth. I see your agenda, man hater. How insulting. You should find someone who isn't a complete retard and ask them for their opinion. It is clear that the author is retarded.

@Lillaahiya
Domesticate me? I don't follow. Do elaborate.

[Lillaahiya]

Have you hand wash my scarves and abaayas, make my bed, feed me, etc. You know, domestic stuff.

[Insomniac]

Have you hand wash my scarves and abaayas, make my bed, feed me, etc. You know, domestic stuff.

Oh my. You would have to reclean everything after I clean them.

[Lillaahiya]

[Insomniac]

I suggest you buy new clothes, dishes, bed sheets, socks, shoes, perfumes, creams. In fact, rent a new apartment and get everything new.

[Hyperactive]

loool. i mean, actually, he is right. love as emotion , who feels except you? love as action, do things for who you love, put them before you and your interest, that makes more sense to me, if i ever start to. believe in love to go crazy and decide to marry.


please that time, lock me in mental hospital !

marriage can't be that bad. It's funny horta Hyper you went from back in the day saying you want 4 wives and now you want no wife. Being around women on SNet has put you off miyaa?

not snet, in my second year university, i did internship in the family courts, and since had part time job there. that really not turn me off, scared hell out of me.

blayo ha goursato. my cats do not sue me if i forgot to feed them or forgot to clean their litter box or just for being mean to them!

[Lillaahiya]

Then I realize who I'm tryna domesticate. Iga fuq.

[Insomniac]

Then I realize who I'm tryna domesticate. Iga fuq.

If I ever met you, I would make you my raincoat.

[SultanOrder]

@Inasamaale
I wish I didn't read it.

Oh boy, where do I begin? So this idiot married a smarter woman, whether he loved her, loves her now, etc, is all debatable. What is certain is that, this smart woman has psychologically conditioned him. Like a monkey that gets an electric shock when he does bad or the lab rat that presses a button to receive food, she reinforced a particular behaviour by rewarding it with a behaviour that the subject thinks is love and discouraging whatever she perceives as a bad behaviour by punishing the subject, in this instance, she was not reciprocating his advances and ignoring him. Don't get me wrong, she is not a monster. This happens everywhere and every time around us. Mothers do it to their kids, scientists do it to their lab rats, etc. In fact, I have nothing against her and I don't condemn such actions as I believe might makes right. But for the idiot to come out and write to home about his ridiculous bullying that he conflates with love and calling for other people to actively allow themselves to be treated like lab rats is laughable, if not down right offensive. He should be ashamed of himself.

Trust BV to love these kinds of articles.

10/10

[Jax]

I only love hural cayn women in jannah, ilaahiyo kuwaas e guurso.

kuwa aduunka waxbo kuma tarayo

[CilmiDoone]

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