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Marques wrote:

AgentOfChaos wrote:Wixii laqariyo qurunbaa ku jira.

jidha*

Sxb ha inigu bilaabin sheekadii "balaayo waa Jidhaa iyo ma Jidho waad isku qaban jidheene."

ManD333q wrote:Lol this is confusing ..men jeg tror jeg forstå det, selvom det ikke giver mening.

Skal du ikke sove?

Ismail87 wrote:all Somalis do it.

I do not know a single man in my extended family members, friends and their friends who has done it. Maybe it's something you and your folks do it, so don't generalize it.

Only habraha mileage badan saran yahah ama kuwa lafa jabsaday go that low. I don't see how a girl would allow in qarsoodi lugu waso

Arabman wrote:

Ismail87 wrote:all Somalis do it.

I do not know a single man in my extended family members, friends and their friends who has done it. Maybe it's something you and your folks do it, so don't generalize it.

See this is what happens when you try to act too clever... read what Rightwing said then you will understand what I meant by "all Somalis do it".

Done it? Now kindly

Qudbo Siro is something, I've only ever heard on SomaliNet. Would those men that marry a second wife secretly be considered as Qudbo Siro, seeing as it eventually becomes known?

Ismail87 wrote:Lol war baadan ogayn walee, all Somalis do it.

i dont know what i barely do things means this terminology and how extend of secrecy. i know cause of my job, people come to legalize/ register , marriage already took place none officially. normally the guy is already married with kids and the second wife or even the third one in some cases. and they just meet twice a year, in Egypt or Dubai etc! what is the point i dont know! once i forgot myself and asked nephew, why she accepted this? he said, she loves him!

Also heard some others that she doesnt want her young adult kids who live with her know, she needs sex. barqadi merkey schoolka iyo shaqo adan, bo so gala, done and so iska baha! her brother knows, sisters know , daughters know, but doesnt want her adult sons to know!!!!

ismail, the marriage/ family court opened my eyes in many things why human do certain things! some times not financial, or love or companionship. just pure sex. when we alone at work, those old wadadas joke around. belive me older they get , ma hishoodan, one of them made joke and said, "she needs a ....".

BlackRain wrote:Only habraha mileage badan saran yahah ama kuwa lafa jabsaday go that low. I don't see how a girl would allow in qarsoodi lugu waso

Gabdhaha dhan owliyooyin maaha there are plenty of girls who are ok with qudbo siro. The world is not as it used to be.

The shift one waaba heer sare....cunta iyo waxba toona inaad oo samaysid uma baahnid.Waa uun jirkaaga so diyaari ninyahow oo waxooga yar isiso nadiifi..shiir qadhmuun niyad uma hayne.Xooga yar waqtiga uun baa yar..10-2 waa inaa lagu badlo..10-5 si si wanaagsan la isaga so go'o

Waa fikrad fiican laakiin saacadaha Hadii laguu badiyo waa inaad cunto sameysaa si awood Iyo nafaqo loo abuura.

^ Gabadha shiftiga hore leh ba cuntadiisa ka masuul ah dee...anigo waxaan qaabilsana ahy uun hawlaha 10ka bilaabaneya....kuwaas cunto karis kuma jirto.

Lol The girl that agrees to Qudbo Siro must be very desperate.

salool wrote:^ Gabadha shiftiga hore leh ba cuntadiisa ka masuul ah dee...anigo waxaan qaabilsana ahy uun hawlaha 10ka bilaabaneya....kuwaas cunto karis kuma jirto.

What about the other responsibilities required of a husband...what if she gets pregnant?

salool wrote:^ Gabadha shiftiga hore leh ba cuntadiisa ka masuul ah dee...anigo waxaan qaabilsana ahy uun hawlaha 10ka bilaabaneya....kuwaas cunto karis kuma jirto.

Maxaa kugu kalifaya qudbo siro adigoo wadada xalaasha ah oo eey sharaf kuugu jirto Mari Karo. Ninka naagta uu dhab u rabo qoyskeeda uu Ka doonanaya even if he is broke.

Self, Most women who agree with this arrangment are either garoob amba naag wali la guursan oo 30+ ah.The garoobs once hardly want fulltime husband, atleast the once i know.Naag ilaa jaar ihi waxay rabta weekend husband...ma rabo bay tidhi nin buuqisa wiiga ayaamaha kale.I guess these women had enough of their exes and dont want repeat the same mistake again.Any woman with brain cells would never bring kids into the pic.



Jam

What makes you think inaan qudbo siro ku jiro? that sort of arrangment is great for divorced pple who doesnt want cummit zinah or bring onther man into their children livs.Xaaladana anigo kuma jiro.