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Re: question for the ladies
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 2:12 pm
by zulaika
Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE wrote:How long bay is qabeen...sounds like the idiot xaakisa si fican uma yaqaan

lol,
Sounds like she is 2nd wife in Africa and he lives far away with another wife..so he wants to make sure he can maximize his time with wife #2 while he's in Africa and clear his schedule from red week.
is the question wrong? under certian cercumstances yes, but i dont see anything wrong with a husband wanting to know about his wife cycles...truth is most men r uninterested in a woman's menstral cycles, some r deathly afraid of discussing red week.. Which is stupid really, specially for a man who lives with and is intimate with her; he should know her cycles... Write it down, keep a schedule or something...maybe there's an app for this

Re: question for the ladies
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 2:31 pm
by DisplacedDiraac
zulaika wrote: he should know her cycles... Write it down, keep a schedule or something...maybe there's an app for this

This..
Don't know whether to be mad he didn't know what time of the month it fall on.. or that he told you..
Re: question for the ladies
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 2:34 pm
by Lillaahiya
Xaawoley wrote:Meesha ma diyaarad bu bariis u soo raacay.
Get married only for sex folks

Re: question for the ladies
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 2:39 pm
by BlackVelvet
Re: question for the ladies
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 2:51 pm
by Kabriid
Xaawoley wrote:...
Adigoo mudh iyo gacan ah.

Re: question for the ladies
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 2:53 pm
by Lillaahiya
^ marka laydhka la bakhtiyo
Re: question for the ladies
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 2:57 pm
by XALIMOZ
Oh no he didn't

Re: question for the ladies
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 2:59 pm
by Adali
DisplacedDiraac wrote:zulaika wrote: he should know her cycles... Write it down, keep a schedule or something...maybe there's an app for this

This..
Don't know whether to be mad he didn't know what time of the month it fall on.. or that he told you..
was waiting for someone to say this, everyone seems to focus on the question rather than the fact that he just told another guy about his wife's personal affairs, it is tasteless and extremely childish imo, this man child clearly doesn't know how to be an adult.
Re: question for the ladies
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 3:01 pm
by zulaika
Jas & Dirac,
How well do u know your cycle?
I find that many girls don't get really in tuned and keep track until itimacy(in marriage hopefully) regimented routines like birth control or ovulation tracking when TTC.
Re: question for the ladies
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 3:06 pm
by XALIMOZ
Adali wrote:DisplacedDiraac wrote:zulaika wrote: he should know her cycles... Write it down, keep a schedule or something...maybe there's an app for this

This..
Don't know whether to be mad he didn't know what time of the month it fall on.. or that he told you..
was waiting for someone to say this, everyone seems to focus on the question rather than the fact that he just told another guy about his wife's personal affairs, it is tasteless and extremely childish imo, this man child clearly doesn't know how to be an adult.
Classic, a friend told "me"....= the topic writer is probably talking about himself

Re: question for the ladies
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 3:16 pm
by BlackVelvet
This husband in the story is an arse, he's just told her that the whole purpose of their marriage is for his sexual fulfilment so it's up to her what she does with the info. Lakin 2 people living together he would have to have zero common sense not to know and to have to ask/be told. Now if you are counting days/weeks and it's a TTC thing then fair enough....that would be so strange though

Re: question for the ladies
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 3:19 pm
by Murax
greenday wrote:If it came up iyagoo kaftamayo moogi, :
The guys a fool, thats how I woulda played it. It would be very easy

Re: question for the ladies
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 3:26 pm
by Kabriid
Lillaahiya wrote:^ marka laydhka la bakhtiyo
Laydh iyo laydh la'aan.

Re: question for the ladies
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 9:32 pm
by barakaboy10
Xaawoley wrote:Uz lot are over dramatic wallah.
They've shared intimate moments together yet he can't ask his wife such a simple question, if she was some side chick yes let her get offended laakin this is his WIFE, he has rights upon her and vise versa.
Somalidu wax walba wax wayn umbay ka dhigan.
He asked her if she was on her period, not if she would have a threesome with him and his friend.
Good luck to uz lot when you get married, I don't know what kinda minor shid u would be arguing about
i definitely agree with you 100%. they slept together and there's nothing bigger than that. he had seen her nude and a simple question like that shouldn't be a big deal; she should have welcomed his honest question.
some people make such small things seem so big and wouldn't let it go. i hope i won't be married to such person.