A Nation of Raped Boys: Chris Brown & Rape Culture Among Men

[SavySallySupersedes]

17 years older..Why so curious? I wrote that shit so I could make Sally understand human psyche is not the same everywhere. Lots of things come in to play and form ones personality. Born in a war, seen family members die, does that make me want to become a murderer?

I'm sorry if you think that's what I was trying to do. I was merely trying to talk about an issue like this without the stigma. I am in no position to tell you how you should feel or what your experiences were really like. I hope you're living your life just the way you intend to.

[DisplacedDiraac]

This explains his strange behaviour..

Many guys claim they lost their virginity at a very young age.. They even brag about it like it's something cool.. They don't even realise they were molested..

It's weird because most abused male children do not understand that they were abused unless the abuser tells them not to tell anyone or physically threatenes them..

I always wonder where the parents were when these children were viewing pornography and engaging in adult acts..

[CushiticReflections]

Very, very interesting topic.

I've always found it odd how differently people react towards male victims of domestic abuse or rape. Your post explained it well but, when reading that interview a few days ago, I didn't realize how societal attitudes towards male victims of molestation may have influenced his situation. It's sad, really.

[Zizzz]

I'm sorry if you think that's what I was trying to do. I was merely trying to talk about an issue like this without the stigma. I am in no position to tell you how you should feel or what your experiences were really like. I hope you're living your life just the way you intend to.

No need to be sorry. What I was trying to say is if we functioned like those in the west there would be no sane Somali left on this earth. We are all traumatized one way or another.

No. It makes you a cigar smoking hardboiled man, who takes long walks in the rain while wearing a brown overcoat. You usually murmur "I've seen some things man," under your breath.

[jamal9]

Mod, pls move this x-rated topic to Extreme section.

[TheAnswer2]

Patriarchy encourages him to act out his sexual aggression; violently if need be. Patriarchy assumes women are worthless after rape. However, tells men, they have worth after the fact.

lol what?

i've seen your threads, every second one is about rape or sex. you really need to relax.

[Casanova25]

[SecretAgent]

Don't twist chris words he said he lived in da country side where he wasn't shy to talk 2 girls n his girlfriend was 14 years old n he use to luv talkin to girls it wasn't rape

[GeoSeven]

This explains his strange behaviour..

Many guys claim they lost their virginity at a very young age.. They even brag about it like it's something cool.. They don't even realise they were molested..

It's weird because most abused male children do not understand that they were abused unless the abuser tells them not to tell anyone or physically threatenes them..

I always wonder where the parents were when these children were viewing pornography and engaging in adult acts..

The scenario where older female touches/does whatever with an underage boy is different. It's not that they don't realize they were molested, it's just that they don't define it as a molestation since the overwhelming probably loved it.

Parents cannot do anything about protecting their children from porn. If you have a smart phone, you have access to porn. Even if you don't, when you go to school...you can access porn on a friend phone.

[DisplacedDiraac]

Parents cannot do anything about protecting their children from porn. If you have a smart phone, you have access to porn. Even if you don't, when you go to school...you can access porn on a friend phone.

At the tender age of 8?..

[GeoSeven]

Parents cannot do anything about protecting their children from porn. If you have a smart phone, you have access to porn. Even if you don't, when you go to school...you can access porn on a friend phone.

At the tender age of 8?..

It's very possible. Think about it! You have an 8 year old boy, he has an ipod touch which is designed for children his age. An older friend introduces him to online porn at school which he could access on his ipod touch. If the 8 year old me had an ipod touch which I was able to access porn from...chances are I probably would have indulged. Most 8 year old boys would too.

[Marques]

That's impossible, before puberty you can't even get an erection

[BigRedBook]

That's impossible, before puberty you can't even get an erection

[Murax]

I honestly remember getting my first boner at like 7 or 8/ saw a sex scene on tv.

[Peroxide]

The environment have to do a lot with the way things turn up later in life. Shit that happens in the west where a person can blame all their faults for one incident in their childhood doesn't apply to us. I have been "traumatised" by a teenage girl when I was around 6 and I didn't turn up a rapist nor am I violent. As a child I probably didn't know better/had no idea what to say. But if I am completely honest, I wouldn't have said no if I knew better either. C'mon! That was raaxo without danbi

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