1nemansquad wrote:I'm having an amazing time alhamdulilah, I feel like never returning to qurbo but circumstances don't permit me as yet; that is not why I started this thread. I'm trying to pick your brains on a certain issue.
If given the opportunity and Allah has given you a second chance to be involved with someone would you go ahead and try, if so how on earth would you go about it.
Please allow me to explain.
I've only truly cared about two women (in terms of man and woman relations) in my life, one May Allah swt place her among the best muslims in Jannah. The other, Friday after Jumma prayer I ran into her at the most unlikeliest places without no expectations whatsoever, in a Mombasa mall. It was a shock surprise, all kinds of mixed emotions. I was with my brother and a friend and she was with family and friends. Tongue tied I blubbered some random greetings, luckily my big bro who knew about our history came to rescue me out of the predicament I was in. It felt like seeing an ex-wife you haven't seen for a long time ago, Its awkward seeing someone you were close to which you haven't spoke in 6 years for the first time, its even more awkward when its a public place and bunch of random people standing around.
Throughout the entire ordeal or at least at the end of it I was telling myself, you only need a 16 seconds of courage to either pull her away from the group or get her number, I couldn't do either I had zero courage. I walked away hesitantly after saying 'it was good to see you'. My brother who is shameless got her number of her and gave it to me and he also has been on my case about the whole thing. I've the number, I called and said hi, asked general questions and hanged up after few minutes (retared).
Well since then I been staring at the number and I don't know what to do with it. She is not married, I have no clue if she is linked to anybody but my brother reckons she is not and bushing me to get involved, even threatening to go to her himself on my behalf. What the hell to do good people of Som'net.???
Hopefully no silly negative comments..
I dont think she wants you
sorry walaal but you will die alone
