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^ Do you still wanna keep yours when you get married though

PO:

Access to your txts--I'd let him see my phone.
Your whereabouts--Given
Your emails--Don't really mind
Your credit history--Sure
Your fiends numbers--For what purposes doe If he wants a # to get a hold of me when out w/ friends..sure.
Your car--Yeah
Would you work at the same job-- Hell no
Give him now kids you want--What?
Your bank accounts--We can have a shared account
Let him write everything in his name, houses, cars, etc---Anything he buys is his
A prenuptial--UnIslamic

^ All this goes both ways. I wouldn't appreciate my spouse purposely snooping around, on some Sherlock Holmes type of shid, but I wouldn't go out of my way to hide my cell, delete emails, lock the glove department in my whip, etc.

Keep the old social networking accounts after marriage?....she'll divorce me on the spot

I wouldn't mind exchanging passwords after I create new accounts

Lillaahiya wrote: Let him write everything in his name, houses, cars, etc---Anything he buys is his
A prenuptial--UnIslamic

Your a reasonable woman Lilaahiya

What if you catch him "emotionally cheating"?

Also, do you have any good guy friends? Would you keep them after getting married?

^ Emotional cheating..via? I think it's a lot more common online than it has been ever before.

Guy friends that I chill w/ and ish? Naw.

Can you stay on topic

Via online, but you sense it is progressing? Also, this is ontop of him not giving you his passwords?

Why did I put up with it to begin with?

You just find out, and from reading it you see through a series of messages it is going toward meeting secretly. You also have one kid.

What is the max number of divorces you would go through before giving up on marriage given that you have non ending failed marriages for whatever reason.

What the fuck man Waxaan maxay tahay? How did you expand my initial question about social media to me, hypothetically, having a kid w/ a trifling ass dude?

It would be nice if you could answer the questions. Aren't they interesting?

What if you didn't make him "happy" but you didn't make him "sad" or "unhappy"? And you knew he wouldn't cheat on you or leave you for that reason?

All I know is emotional tends to lead to physical. If he couldn't communicate what was bothering him with me, his wife, and would rather secretly link up with the next chick, the relationship is pretty much over. Don't think it's worth or can be salvaged at that point.

Would you like an easy fun marriage where you are both happy and you love eachother? or one where both of you will deal with something hard and tough and life changing experience and you get through it together because of love and supporting eachother and you come out knowing you guys can get through anything?

Easy love or tribulations love?

LOL Bye PO.

that's my last question I promise.

I've said it before the more a girl is popular on Facebook or instagram the more likely she's been around. Why would any self-respecting chick add random dudes from nairobi, yemen she doesn't even know? It leads to one thing and it's cyber hoe-ism followed by real events. That should answer your question!!!.

If her Facebook is only friends, co-workers and handful of normal guys then I don't mind her to keep her Facebook . I trust her judgment from there on

^ The whole point of social media is connecting with people from around the world--people you'd never get the chance to prior to the internet.

Also how could you confirm who's a co-worker, who's a friend, what exactly is a normal guy?