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BlackRain wrote:If she's sick to cook, buy food or let your sister or mom come and cook.

Slavery was abolished ages ago bro.

Somali guys are useless, cannot cook or lead country or look out for their kids....

Jam Street wrote:...because it would make them sissies who can't fock and I am sure that is not what women want.



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A study called “Egalitarianism, Housework and Sexual Frequency in Marriage,” which appeared in The American Sociological Review last year, surprised many, precisely because it went against the logical assumption that as marriages improve by becoming more equal, the sex in these marriages will improve, too. Instead, it found that when men did certain kinds of chores around the house, couples had less sex. Specifically, if men did all of what the researchers characterized as feminine chores like folding laundry, cooking or vacuuming — the kinds of things many women say they want their husbands to do — then couples had sex 1.5 fewer times per month than those with husbands who did what were considered masculine chores, like taking out the trash or fixing the car. It wasn’t just the frequency that was affected, either — at least for the wives. The more traditional the division of labor, meaning the greater the husband’s share of masculine chores compared with feminine ones, the greater his wife’s reported sexual satisfaction.

http://nyti.ms/1kdOzQR

Some studies are just fcuking useless yaaqee!! Can someone please USE my brains?????????? WTF!!! These fcuking sub-men are NOT having less sex because of the house chores. It is because they are NOT real men to begin with!!!!!!!! There are countless of men with very low testosterone levels out there. They lie to themselves. These sorts of men will not think twice to do the usual womanly chores. And sadly these are the type of men that make a good husband. A good husband for a woman--is he who can be controlled. But sadly the woman will miss one major thing in her marriage: Sex and to be controlled. I wont get into the control issue as it is PG 18 lol but the sex part is obvious. That is why American wives marry sissy men who they control at home and sleep with the macho man at work who treats them like women in the bedroom. (and the sissy man usually has a homo sex on the side usually--on the down low) I guess in the end--it works. U just have to know what u really really want. For the sissy man- he wants a wife at all cost. (rather than being alone, or God forbid explore homosexuality lol) and for the wife--she wants a stable man at home she can depend on, at the risk of not getting the nature order of sex by a macho man WHO WILL NOT EVEN THINK of doing any house chores. I know- harsh truth but truth nevertheless.

Basra, I'm guesssing your small gusband does the chores at home?

Trust Basra to interweave homosexuality into everything

Perfect_Order wrote:Basra, I'm guesssing your small gusband does the chores at home?

PO@LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL


PO, my husband is average. Not a sissy man and not a macho man. He likes to control, his sexual performance is averagely aggressively that would make him almost the arch macho type. But his small ceeb is a handi cap. He has the heart and hump of a lion, but the effect of a rabbit hump. So for him, I wont ever say he is a sissy man, he is more like a lion who has not reached his prime.


Cherine@looool


Cherine


Lets talk about homosexuality and how it affects your life. Why does it make u uncomfortable?

Ma aaminsani inay Basra nin leedahy, i refuse to believe a somali wife would insult her husband in a public forum like that..

salool wrote:Ma aaminsani inay Basra nin leedahy, i refuse to believe a somali wife would insult her husband in a public forum like that..

salool


do u know, that I adore u???? I like u MOST--- with your other 'g' forum user name.



I am not insulting my husband, I am actually stating truth, in an anonymous venue where privacy is assured and also I honor him by stating the fact. And the fact is not so bad. A lion not reaching his prime is a compliment.

Beenta naga daa naaya.Cid ku qabta ba iska yar.Small ceeb kulaha, no wife in her right mind would ever share such private info.I dont care if you're anonymous and nobody knows you...no wife would ever cross that line.

salool wrote:no wife in her right mind would ever share such private info

Maybe I am "NOT" in my right mind?

Basra- wrote:

Perfect_Order wrote:Basra, I'm guesssing your small gusband does the chores at home?

PO@LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL


He has the heart and hump of a lion, but the effect of a rabbit hump.

This is the funniest thing you have ever said basra

I don't trust a man in the kitchen anyways or to clean the house. It will never be done to my satisfaction, so why bother. This is a no issue for me.

A man is not suppose to work in the house the way a woman should but any man who doesn't have the compassion and mercy to help his wife when she really needs some help with the house chores is a dog.

In the same way, a woman does not belong in a leadership position unless she is managing a group of women, period!

We all need to respect and accept the division of labour. Be happy with your role in life and I am happy with mine. I am given more responsibility than you. I have to look after all of your financial needs as well as those of my children. House chores is nothing compared to my responsibility.

We need more sisters who think like Cherine & SummerRain.

Jam street what would u know about men responsibility? U come in to the forum with the name "Nabeela" !

Men should be equipped with every single skill possible and this includes cooking and cleaning these are absolute basics in life.

However i somewhat agree that women are naturally endowed with these 2 skills in homemaking and obviously primarily child-rearing which is biological endowed to women.