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Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 5:52 pm
by BlackVelvet
Weeellll....he never promised in sickness and in health.....
Shuqul gaalo waaye waxas
Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 5:53 pm
by AbdiJohnson
I am not surprised. Most Somali men look down on females. Also Arabs and the Pakis/Afg/Bengali/etc. They look down on females because they have been told they are allowed multiple wives and are allowed to hit them so naturally you will start to see women as property rather than human beings. This Somali man got rid of his property. His property has become a nuisance.
I hope that women beats cancer and is able to live a normal life
I am,
Abdi "Somali men also neglect their kids" Johnson
Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 5:56 pm
by AbdiJohnson
Even123 wrote:The man is foolish, but his action is understandable, I myself would have done the same thing but with timing.
The man is only weighing his option's, bear in mind the children will need a mother one way or the other.
Exhibit A
Lol @ with timing. Divorce her when she's on her death bed?
I am,
Abdi "I am waiting fot Exhibit B" Johnson
Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 6:42 pm
by saacJabshee
Whats he supposed to do marka? stay with her forever? Cancer is one of those illness that can last years. Unless she wants to compromise and let him have a second wife.
Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 6:45 pm
by AbdiJohnson
saacJabshee wrote:Whats he supposed to do marka? stay with her forever? Cancer is one of those illness that can last years. Unless she wants to compromise and let him have a second wife.
Exhibit B
Most Somali men are sick
I am,
Abdi "I told y'all most Somalis are in loveless marriages" Johnson
Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 6:49 pm
by saacJabshee
AbdiJohnson wrote:saacJabshee wrote:Whats he supposed to do marka? stay with her forever? Cancer is one of those illness that can last years. Unless she wants to compromise and let him have a second wife.
Exhibit B
I am,
Abdi "I told y'all most Somalis are in loveless marriages" Johnson
It could just be that he needs a healthy wife.
Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 6:50 pm
by GeoSeven
saacJabshee wrote:Whats he supposed to do marka? stay with her forever? Cancer is one of those illness that can last years. Unless she wants to compromise and let him have a second wife.
What's he supposed to do?
Dude, re-marrying and flying off on a honeymoon weeks after your spouse and mother of your children was diagnosed with cancer isn't exactly the most humane exhibition of concern...
Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 6:52 pm
by saacJabshee
GeoSeven wrote:saacJabshee wrote:Whats he supposed to do marka? stay with her forever? Cancer is one of those illness that can last years. Unless she wants to compromise and let him have a second wife.
What's he supposed to do?
Dude, re-marrying and flying off on a honeymoon weeks after your spouse and mother of your children was diagnosed with cancer isn't exactly the most humane exhibition of concern...
Okay then would you prefer he did a year later?
BTW I'm not taking the mick.
Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 6:57 pm
by AbdiJohnson
saacJabshee wrote:AbdiJohnson wrote:saacJabshee wrote:Whats he supposed to do marka? stay with her forever? Cancer is one of those illness that can last years. Unless she wants to compromise and let him have a second wife.
Exhibit B
I am,
Abdi "I told y'all most Somalis are in loveless marriages" Johnson
It could just be that he needs a healthy wife.
Marriage is not something you should take lightly. How would you feel if this was your mom and your dad did this?
People who think this way learn from their surroundings
What kind of sicko divorces his wife because she got cancer? That is when she needs her husband the most.
You know whats ironic. People who believe its OK to divorce your wife because she got ill are the same ones who are against interracial marriages and gay marriage.
I am,
Abdi "It's insanity" Johnson
Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 7:04 pm
by Leftist
blizzard90 wrote:Life goes on, and we all have to make tough dissions and prioritise on our next move. I would probably have done the same if I was in his shoes.
lol@ basic trolling attempt
Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 7:05 pm
by saacJabshee
Don't derail the subject by injecting gay marriage into this.
Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 7:08 pm
by AbdiJohnson
Don't change the discussion. It was a small point to show the absursity of some but the whole message flew over your head
You and Even123 are sick
I am,
Abdi "I hope you don't have children" Johnson
Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 7:08 pm
by Leftist
saacJabshee wrote:GeoSeven wrote:saacJabshee wrote:Whats he supposed to do marka? stay with her forever? Cancer is one of those illness that can last years. Unless she wants to compromise and let him have a second wife.
What's he supposed to do?
Dude, re-marrying and flying off on a honeymoon weeks after your spouse and mother of your children was diagnosed with cancer isn't exactly the most humane exhibition of concern...
Okay then would you prefer he did a year later?
BTW I'm not taking the mick.
Would you have the same "understanding" attitude if your pops did that to your moms?
Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 7:15 pm
by freelance62
original dervish wrote:Without giving away the identities of the persons concerned....the situation is thus.
Wife receives the terrible news that she has breast cancer.
Understandably, she is devastated and is in emotional turmoil.
Arguments abound...as husband regularly chats up local Somali's.
Husband divorces wife...a few weeks later he announces marriage.
wife has breakdown can't manage kids, social get involved... former husband on honeymoon.
This is more or less a true situation..My question is, " Why are we Somali's so callous"?
I'm not just referring to these deplorable events...but generally....Somali's act with total disregard to anybody around them, family, friends or otherwise.
Surely a clue to our lamentable position in the world can be traced back to such apathy.
I thought Somali men were more kind to their women,but i think religion and culture led to his cruel and heartless dissition.
Re: Somali divorces wife suffering cancer & remarries.
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 7:29 pm
by mohnig23
Ouch wallahi that's certainly one fucked up ""man""
Horta do some Somalis understand you have to be by your spouse's side even during the hardest times and not call it quits