A brother needs your advice snet.

[YummyMummy]

Waxba ha iska jaro, problem solved!

Wht the fock, you don't make not sense at all. "Let him cut nothing" ?

She meant "waxaba ha iska jaro", as in "let him cut it (his privates) off". Not sure how that would solve the problem of his desire though?

[StormShadow]

Guys I think you have given good advice to the brother but he doesn't have a place of his own will 2 days at the hotel or some place work? After all you gotta get those deeds allah has given us.

[YummyMummy]

^ tell him to tell his parents to look for a decent girl for him ASAP, to be married by December 2014, and that this is a case of urgency. Should work fine in shaa Allah

[StormShadow]

It's a serious question though. What if you try a gaal ajnabi? I mean marry her xalaal is that bad?

[eliteSomali]

He is in no position to entertain such thoughts if he isn't financially prepared. There are millions of guys his age that go through the same dilemma. I'd advise him to be patient. Another three to four years won't be long.

[StormShadow]

He is in no position to entertain such thoughts if he isn't financially prepared. There are millions of guys his age that go through the same dilemma. I'd advise him to be patient. Another three to four years won't be long.

You might be right I wouldn't personally go after a xalimo if I was broke.

[eliteSomali]

He is in no position to entertain such thoughts if he isn't financially prepared. There are millions of guys his age that go through the same dilemma. I'd advise him to be patient. Another three to four years won't be long.

You might be right I wouldn't personally go after a xalimo if I was broke.

So you'd go after cadaan? lmao I see a lot of Somali niggas dating/married to cadaans and mexicans here for their money. It's embarrassing sxb.

[AbkoowDhiblaawe]

There are plenty of students married who can balance it all. Guurka yaan xujo laga dhigin brehs

[Basra-]

There are plenty of students married who can balance it all. Guurka yaan xujo laga dhigin brehs

[StormShadow]

Tell me Basra can you please give your input would marry a iskaabulo (still young) I know you old but just answer.

[Julkimi]

There are plenty of students married who can balance it all. Guurka yaan xujo laga dhigin brehs

How can they balance it all? Rent? Insurance? Food? and top it all of Somalis don't know what birth control pill is, so there will be kids. So how can they balance it all? Unless they're willing to live with family. And what kind of husband will do that? be realistic.

[StormShadow]

That's the hard part folks don't understand. Household bills are suicidal. I know this chick who is only in her 20's lives by herself ( no room mates) and looks depressed as fock from working two jobs with no sleep wlhi.

[Julkimi]

That's why she should live with family until she has a stable job. People think it's easy living without family. You need to pay the rent, car insurance, food, utilities, and then you have to feed the kids. Marriage is not easy.

[StormShadow]

Not everyone has family with them.

[SultanOrder]

as you know in this time and place in the west its very tough to get married before finishing school but as you know our noble Prophet (SAW) encouraged young men to get married as soon as possible. I want to know how come these days females are too shallow to marry a student even if she herself is a student kinda like gf bf but halal way. if you live in north america you will every day try to lower your gaze when you see all these extremely beautiful white dumaashi in booty shorts. i feel that if I don't get married soon that my d!ck will explode!!

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