Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl

[Vivacious]

Jasmine is surely doing a weird kind of survey, yey faraha kaa daalinin

[BlackVelvet]

Like Shirib, I would compromise. Ideally there should be a good balance between his 'potential abo of my kids' trait and our 'chemistry'.

If he has good foundation/knowledge of deen, practices, educated, good fam, principled, dignified (plus all that good stuff) and we get along albeit without the 'spark', then its all good.

And anyway, people grow on each other... If you think about it, you didn't pick your family, you were born into them and learnt to adapt/work around their character.

Well it seems like the grown up and logical thing to do. The spark might be a hollywood creation

[BlackVelvet]

Jasmine is surely doing a weird kind of survey, yey faraha kaa daalinin

Adiga horta yareey keeping the cards too close to your chest waa suspect mays tiri

[Alshabaibe]

I feel free, liberated, if you may, for contributing to this topic. Try it deeqa. Its therapeutic.

[Shirib]

Do you get along with them? Will they respect you and treat you well? Be a good spouse and parent? If all those answers are yes, go for it, the rest will come.

Really? As a guy I would have thought you'd be less willing to settle on the chemistry aspect.

Chemistry isn't always instant, it can develop

i'm just trynna get laid

[BlackVelvet]

Relationship topics shall set you free

[BlackVelvet]

Do you get along with them? Will they respect you and treat you well? Be a good spouse and parent? If all those answers are yes, go for it, the rest will come.

Really? As a guy I would have thought you'd be less willing to settle on the chemistry aspect.

Chemistry isn't always instant, it can develop

i'm just trynna get laid

Ala ba'ayey!


Shirib you ruined the "perfect father of my children" image

[Shirib]

^^ How does that ruin it?

now that i said it, should i delete that comment?

[MujahidAishah]

Is this the watchman or mid kale jas

[BlackVelvet]

^^ How does that ruin it?

now that i said it, should i delete that comment?

Isn't it creepy to get it on with someone you don't have chemistry with...then I remember you are a guy, never mind

[BlackVelvet]

Is this the watchman or mid kale jas

The watchman was the opposite innit. Beautiful man with little promise otherwise starting with his cadaannimo


Horta if I may, do you think it's true or an exaggeration when people say you never know a person until you live with them? Some people then go to the extreme and get married within a few months of knowing each other. Is that wise in your opinion?

[Marques]

[Shirib]

^^ How does that ruin it?

now that i said it, should i delete that comment?

Isn't it creepy to get it on with someone you don't have chemistry with...then I remember you are a guy, never mind

lol, you don't need chemistry for that

So do I still have the "perfect father of my children" image

[Keyblade]

Like Shirib, I would compromise. Ideally there should be a good balance between his 'potential abo of my kids' trait and our 'chemistry'.

If he has good foundation/knowledge of deen, practices, educated, good fam, principled, dignified (plus all that good stuff) and we get along albeit without the 'spark', then its all good.

And anyway, people grow on each other... If you think about it, you didn't pick your family, you were born into them and learnt to adapt/work around their character.

Well it seems like the grown up and logical thing to do. The spark might be a hollywood creation

You're starting to catch on

[Vivacious]

Relationship topics shall set you free

Haahey