Dodged a Bullet

[Lillaahiya]

Wixii Illahay ku qoray ma waayeysid

Have you thought of asking your parents to set up a candy bar (list of pre-approved suitors)?

[Expresso]

Look at the bright side, at least you don't have to endure drama. Some people live for it...

[Skippa]

a candy bar

[Lillaahiya]

^

[MissFiora]

I personally believe marriage is about two families coming together, more so than two people coming together. So I would definitely turn down a suitor if he comes from a dysfunctional family. #Teamnobuuq

[STARKAST]

If a guy is not crazy for you, or not very interested in marrying you, then does he really deserve you ? Probably not. However how long can one wait ? Time is ticking
True that, when you marry someone, your not marrying the person per se but also the family, so in that sense you may have dodged a bullet...

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

everything is calaf...it wasn't meant to be.

I wouldn't mind marrying from a crazy family...I am crazy myself. #teamdrama

[AhlulbaytSoldier]

everything is calaf...it wasn't meant to be.

I wouldn't mind marrying from a crazy family...I am crazy myself. #teamdrama

So its true. There was romance between u and menace

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Lol ur mistaking me with another member...I don't date weirdos

[AhlulbaytSoldier]

darn u right. It was gedo girl i think.

[Julkimi]

darn u right. It was gedo girl i think.

It was ______ never mind. Smile will ban me

[Octagon]

His loss my gain

[Sophisticate]

It's interesting to see that the majority of you agree. Viscous seems like it wouldn't bother him. I tell you what families have the capacity to influence decisions on marriage and could possibly lead to its dissolution. A problematic family coupled by a person with a martyr complex could spell trouble. It's your prerogative though.

On the real folks I should have put my eggs in more then one basket.

Julz high 5 hooyo didn't raise no fool, PO everyone has their threshold for crazy. We choose deal or no deal. I knew early on that marrying him would be detrimental to my plans since he took unquestionable orders from his fams on how he lived his life to the point of letting them call all the shots for his future. To me that was too heavy a burden to bare. For someone else that would be acceptable.

@ YummyMummy how young are we talking?
@ Geoseven I agree with you, I don't have the wherewithal to deal with that. You raise an interesting point when it's someone else you don't want to intercede in their affairs.
@ Jasmine I suppose you are right. I spent enough time in the past though, and this occupied a lot of mental real estate for a while. I'm content with the fact that things happen for a reason. I trusted my gut instincts back then. Even though he seemed like a catch, I factored in a lot of things.
@ Lillihiya God knows I've tried. She doesn't want to be blamed so no sugar rush unless I'm 30+. I have a 2-year window.