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I don’t care what race or ethnicity Somalis marry. You can’t except Somalis to live in some sort of Dome and never marry non-somalis. It’s ridiculous. Just do what your comfortable with and lets others do the same as long as it’s not harming anyone.
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Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE wrote:Lol at they start fire
Thick girls (fat in the right places )=hot..even aniga oo naag ah ba indhaha la raaca :lol: But cadaan and Mexican women gain weight in the wrong places ...kelyo balaqsan, calool weyn ..dabo malaasan :lol:


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SimplySerene wrote:I don’t care what race or ethnicity Somalis marry. You can’t except Somalis to live in some sort of Dome and never marry non-somalis. It’s ridiculous. Just do what your comfortable with and lets others do the same as long as it’s not harming anyone.

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I have noticed Somali guys who marry outside, they marry creme de la creme.
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Basra- wrote:
qoraxeey wrote:How come they are so weird


they act that they are better then other somalis just because they landed naag cadaan ah :? :lol:




Qora,

I think its all in your head. U r mad at the men for not choosing u, a Somali woman. :lol:

why would I be mad .... buurtooy :|


to be honest Im really happy for them


but they should just act normal :up:
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Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE wrote:
qoraxeey wrote:How come they are so weird


they act that they are better then other somalis just because they landed naag cadaan ah ::
They are simps...yesterday at the mall, I saw this fat Somali dude carrying his overweight white girl's bag. :lol:
Horta how do fat people do the deed..don't the rolls get in the way laba buur oo isa saran..come to mind :lol:

:lol: :lol:

I wonder that too
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blizzard90 wrote:because white people are more superior to us, so when you get a white woman its like you get a slice of heaven :up:
Speak for yourself house nigger!!!
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It's pretty obvious there is a double standard. On SomaliNet they they try to shame sisters but the men get a free pass. I think these topics are a non-issue. First off the rate of out-marriage is too low to have a felt impact. If we must be honest men marry out more than women. I rarely see Somali gabar with ajnabis, compared to Somali guys. This is sensationalized. In fact all of my close personal friends have never dated out. So, it makes me wonder who you people are talking about. Also, it wasn't until I joined snet or viewed topix that I noticed a staggering number of self-hating Somalis. :lol:
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It doesn't matter if Somali men marry out they are the dominant partner and there kids will be Muslim, and ethnic Somali. Also, we are given the ability to marry Christian and Jewish women though I wouldn't advise it. There's much less risk and more lee way and if that's a double standard than I guess you have to swallow that bitter pill.
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We don't care who they marry. Inter-Faith marriage isn't the matter to be discussed. It's about the greater scrutiny attributed to the women that marry out. Realistically speaking the only mixed people I have met are the ones who's fathers are Somali. Most of the time the lady would not convert and if it ended in divorce the kids would take the faith of the hooyo. In cases where the lady converted if the marriage fell apart the children would resent Somalis. Most if not all would not identity with a qabil, or would have an identity crisis. I speak for the cases I have seen, these are only the worst case scenarios. I'm sure there are exemplary cases abound.
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sophisticate wrote:We don't care who they marry. Inter-Faith marriage isn't the matter to be discussed. It's about the greater scrutiny attributed to the women that marry out. Realistically speaking the only mixed people I have met are the ones who's fathers are Somali. Most of the time the lady would not convert and if it ended in divorce the kids would take the faith of the hooyo. In cases where the lady converted if the marriage fell apart the children would resent Somalis. Most if not all would not identity with a qabil, or would have an identity crisis. I speak for the cases I have seen, these are only the worst case scenarios. I'm sure there are exemplary cases abound.
I know, that's why I recommended not marrying outside in the West because of the points you highlighted.
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In my humble opinion, we should refuse to marry our womenfolk to Arabs, Pakistanis and North Africans simply because they think we are beneath them as exemplified by how they abhor the thought of us marrying their daughters. Furthermore, the negative stereotypes that ajnabis in general have about us Somalis in the West makes me want us to adopt a siege mentality when it comes to mixing with others.

In regards to Somali men with ajnabi women, as long as the women reverts and is made to understand that the child is automatically a zoomali no matter his or her reer apti are, i am cool with that. Nonetheless, the chances of the children being raised as Somali is slim so EFF IT, stick to our lovely xalimos. Most of us can find common ground with other ethnic groups in the West laakin nothing beats the compatibility factor of hooking up with someone that you do not have to explain the the cultural quirks that come with being a Somali whenever they have to interact with your family.
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