Diary of An Angry Xalimo

[STARKAST]

Are there really more female somali msc/phd holders than men ?Nonetheless i know tonnes of phd female holders that have married/relationships with men with just degrees. so this isnt a problem...i think as a woman increases in age so does her apsiraitions and ambitions - it makes them more bitter and cycnial with what they can't get ! no offence.

[EvolSyawla]

@Beyond...What??

Again, pretending to be less of who you are to attract a man? Let him find out afterwards? No. lol @ Hot headed feminist xalimo. Weak men like to belittle women who are more qualified than themselves!

Anyways, You're missing the point of the thread. It is not complaining that she is single, its that we are pushed through school only to be expected to be a stay at home mom with no actual achievements in your career. Inevitable scenario: Mashallah, She is so smart, she got a masters, landed a great job and got married soon after and had kids and lala the end.

If you want a personal chef and baby maker, then please go find one. Leave the real men to the educated ladies.

[MujahidAishah]

jow im on the cuurta kala koori vibe.. Eedo maa sanad wal ba dhashaa.. The same islaan tells her daughter to have more kids

[FarhanYare]

waxaa dhiib ha uqaadan. waxeey kula rabtaa inaad reer yeelatiid and experience the joy of being a mother if god permits. Naagta aan waxba baran oo reer leh mid baad dheertahay bariito ka maliin markoo ilahey caruur ku siiyo homeworkgooda waad kala caawin kartaa and go on to become educated

[Lillaahiya]

^ You don't need a degree or Masters to help your kids with homework.

[MissFiora]

Are there really more female somali msc/phd holders than men ?Nonetheless i know tonnes of phd female holders that have married/relationships with men with just degrees. so this isnt a problem...i think as a woman increases in age so does her apsiraitions and ambitions - it makes them more bitter and cycnial with what they can't get ! no offence.

I am not quite sure I follow.

[MissFiora]

^ You don't need a degree or Masters to help your kids with homework.

Lilaahiya and Love : Nobody knows the trouble I've seen nobody knows it but meeeeee *sing it with me ladies* Seriously seems like there is a disconnect here, guess the struggle is my own.

[zulaika]

I don't know why u are angry, your mother probably wants what she regards to be the best for u..and this includes all your education and professional achievements so far.. If she only thinks marraige and children measure a woman's sucess, she wouldn't encourage you to pursue school, work etc.

Don't get caught up with polorizing views of what is "female success" ..

[MissFiora]

I know my mother wants what's best for me. But the issue is that nobody takes into consideration my achievements rather they are focused on what I don't have, which at the moment is a husband and children.

[Hyperactive]

meanwhile, boys will be boys...How unfair is life?

It's the truth, day in and day out I say I don't want marry no kids. My parents dodnt even give courtesy of why? Habiby rauf, lol.

Haweenku having it hard! Allaho edin sahlo.

[Hyperactive]

Miss Bonita, it's human nature to focus what they do not have rather what they have. I would go haj/umra every year, with a group and enjoy life under God.

Marriage and kids is just too much work....loool

[MissFiora]

Huuno I am content with my current situation ALHAMDULILAH! However, the constant pressure to get married is what makes me unhappy it makes me question my whole existence ..u know? Even though I have achieved a lot ..I feel like I haven't done anything just because I am not married. You're a man so you can probably ignore the constant nagging about getting married for sometime but for me it's different. Insha'Allah kheyr tho waxaan waa iska aduunyo.

[blizzard90]

girls in Somalia don't suffer from these type of problems. I love how western culture confuses halimos

[Hyperactive]

Mashallah Allah ko zeyadiyo the blessing. Life is short for this nagging from hooyo.lol take her to trips and haj , she won't remember you not married!

I always bribe them with, ma rabo wah mama ma'an ika mashqooliyo. Always works with" Allah ka farhiyo" lol

[Tuushi]

I dont think what Miss Bonita expressed anger.more like frustration.

It is very hard to shift ur focus on something that has never been in the books.

Somalida in general have skewed sense of what some consider success.

How most parents treat between genders is astonishing to say the least.