How do your relationships end?

zulaika · Post by **zulaika** » Mon Oct 27, 2014 6:09 pm

Yummy, tell me about it, who has time for all that drama? it's over, then be done with it and keep it moving.

Marques · Post by **Marques** » Mon Oct 27, 2014 7:53 pm

Yumz he is super emotional...he once tagged me in 30+ Fb grauduation pics, some of which had me slipping so i untagged myself after 8/9 weeks and then he immediately texted me within 10 minute I thought Wtf

he wouldn't have even got a notification about it, he could only notice if he stalked that picture or stalked me sheeesh..

YummyMummy · Post by **YummyMummy** » Mon Oct 27, 2014 7:57 pm

^ LOL waxa kuma dhibayo if you cut him off walal, what's the worse that could happen? FB frape? Prank calls? He'll get over it.

Marques · Post by **Marques** » Mon Oct 27, 2014 8:04 pm

LOL its complicated...he's part of my Uni circle of friends and we stayed in touch, we have Whatsapp groups, plus he lives near me...I'm just gonna frustrate him with the 'busy' excuse and see him less and less

Post by **Julkimi** » Mon Oct 27, 2014 8:10 pm

Marques wrote:LOL its complicated...he's part of my Uni circle of friends and we stayed in touch, we have Whatsapp groups, plus he lives near me...I'm just gonna frustrate him with the 'busy' excuse and see him less and less

What does your heart tell you? Do you want to be friends with him? You shouldn't be friends with someone you don't want, don't be fake marqueee. I know you're better than that. Cut him loose. He doesn't have respect for you, Be straight forward with him.

Bella18 · Post by **Bella18** » Mon Oct 27, 2014 8:16 pm

Simply drift apart if there is no interest.

Marques · Post by **Marques** » Mon Oct 27, 2014 8:19 pm

Julz I can't hurt his feelings walalo...I might not like him much but he genuinely considers me one of his closest friends...funny thing is he is paranoid about his ethnic community and cut them off so he could rather 'chill' with us instead. The young gentleman always tells me of these evil eye aunties he comes across and shit Lmao, tries telling me to watch my back from haters, walahi until I met him I always thought having haters was a Black American hiphop thing, like gtfo my people ain't insecure like that we help each other more than any other ethnicity

YummyMummy · Post by **YummyMummy** » Mon Oct 27, 2014 8:25 pm

^ it will happen naturally, and you'll drift apart. Not something to furry your pretty eyebrows about sxb. You'll get a job & grow old and forget his name.

zumaale · Post by **zumaale** » Mon Oct 27, 2014 8:45 pm

Darling, its not you, its me.

eliteSomali · Post by **eliteSomali** » Mon Oct 27, 2014 8:59 pm

Jasmine: Aniga iyo adiga kawaran?

Post by **EvolSyawla** » Tue Oct 28, 2014 1:43 am

If I see someone as being toxic to my life - not bringing love, positivity or knowledge into my life - I cut them off. Life is stressful enough lol, so called friends are not allowed to add to that.

BeyondQabil · Post by **BeyondQabil** » Tue Oct 28, 2014 1:54 am

Marques wrote:Julz I can't hurt his feelings walalo...I might not like him much but he genuinely considers me one of his closest friends...funny thing is he is paranoid about his ethnic community and cut them off so he could rather 'chill' with us instead. The young gentleman always tells me of these evil eye aunties he comes across and shit Lmao, tries telling me to watch my back from haters, walahi until I met him I always thought having haters was a Black American hiphop thing, like gtfo my people ain't insecure like that we help each other more than any other ethnicity

I think i get what you say; today's friednships are very shallow. There are people who don't have 1 person that they consider a TRUE friend. Having a person think of you as his closest friend is refreshingly childlike. Recently, i was teaching a class of about 7 girls aged between 9-12, and can you imagine, NONE of them said that she had a best friend. Worse still, is one girl who wasn't sure whether her best friend was a traitor or a best friend. And these are GIRLS who are supposed to be full of BFF and whatnot. The surprising thing is that boys had tighter friendships -(Another person was dealing with them.)

ZubeirAwal · Post by **ZubeirAwal** » Tue Oct 28, 2014 4:04 am

I only had one, it ended strangely, After a weird sequence of events, I began to panic and knew that I was on the road that would eventually leave me lying in bed with a non-mahrem woman, so I avoided her and avoided her until she told me to come straight.. I told her :

" My faith and my culture comes first , I'm sorry"

she gave me some jinn-like stare and since that day despite crossing paths I try my best to never catch a glimpse of her face, however she has moved on well, already in another relationship herself. Do I miss her? In a silly way no, but when I think of what lies ahead on the road, (namely a gashaanti who will eat baris isku dhex karis with the xabashi bis baas on one plate with me), I know she ain't worth it. :smugruss:

ZubeirAwal · Post by **ZubeirAwal** » Tue Oct 28, 2014 4:05 am

S!!! I just read the first post, lord forgive me for my hurrying ways, al cajilatul minal shaydaan :wow:

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Tue Oct 28, 2014 5:59 am

Elite what about them?

Zubeir saas aa la raba ayeeyo, well done

Evol, even sadder when that person is one you've known for such a long time. You win some you lose some I suppose

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