Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 5:47 am
75% of all the couples i know the women run everything walahi. LOL some niggas need to ask their wifes if they are allowed to visit friends and stuff. LOOOOOOOOOOOL
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Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 5:53 am
its kinda sexy and turns me on naag ooyeysa.
Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 6:02 am
The only way I will abuse my wife is in the bedroom
Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 6:06 am
nagaha halkaan qurbaha ayaga oo yar yimid waa la gartay sanka haka hadlaan. lakiin hada waxaan layaabe kuwa africa laga soo gursanayo ayaaba ka sii daray dabeecad qalifan beey lasoo baxaan xogaa markeey dibada imadaan oo ilbaxaanWarsheekh wrote:75% of all the couples i know the women run everything walahi. LOL some niggas need to ask their wifes if they are allowed to visit friends and stuff. LOOOOOOOOOOOL
Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 9:08 am
This most certainly is swept under the rug. It's evident that its becoming an epidemic. Lately, they've been holding Domestic Abuse lectures (Islamic) in my area.
There are plenty of women who abuse their men as well. Especially, the miskiin men who are good to their wives.
There are plenty of women who abuse their men as well. Especially, the miskiin men who are good to their wives.
Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 9:50 am
The old generation domestic abuse waa caadi naf baa lugu qaali jiray.. But im shocked about out generation putting up with domestoc abuse rag iyo dumar ba
My neighbour was beaten up by her husband during the middle of the day. she ran out on to the street with her two kids holding on to her 6 months old child with a broken arm while he was chasing her dwn the rd with a knife.. Somaliyeed baa ka riday.. 3months dwn the line she gets bck with him..ceebta aduunka
My neighbour was beaten up by her husband during the middle of the day. she ran out on to the street with her two kids holding on to her 6 months old child with a broken arm while he was chasing her dwn the rd with a knife.. Somaliyeed baa ka riday.. 3months dwn the line she gets bck with him..ceebta aduunka
Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 10:00 am
there is a saying about somali women "naag somaliyeed il xishoota malaha laakiin il baqata ey leedahay"
Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 10:13 am
The first time I hear this saying and it seems there is some truth to it.blizzard90 wrote:there is a saying about somali women "naag somaliyeed il xishoota malaha laakiin il baqata ey leedahay"
Ladies, come at me; I dare you!
Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 1:43 pm
Aisha that is horrible. I believe it has to do with the fact that she would be a single mother trying to raise all her children without a father. Some women can't bear the thought. So once they have recovered and he tells her to come home, she does.
The older generation knows it's wrong (Usually), it's just frowned upon to "interfere with a spousal dispute"....no excuse from younger gen though.
I wonder how these boys laughing would handle it if they knew their sister or cousin was put in a hospital by her husband. I am praying that this is just your internet jokes, though this is no laughing matter.
Seems like this issue is more prominent than I thought.
The older generation knows it's wrong (Usually), it's just frowned upon to "interfere with a spousal dispute"....no excuse from younger gen though.
I wonder how these boys laughing would handle it if they knew their sister or cousin was put in a hospital by her husband. I am praying that this is just your internet jokes, though this is no laughing matter.
Seems like this issue is more prominent than I thought.
Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 1:48 pm
Ogadens are the biggest offenders of this type of behavior, it's very well known fact that Ogaden men (because of their dhaqan) to go smash their women the first night of marriage to let em know who the man of the house is.
Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 1:53 pm
Divorce and abuse both definitely exist in the Somali community. A lot of the latter is behind closed doors and knowing Somali pride, those big jilbabs are probably used to hide the bruises and scars.
Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 10:38 pm
EvolSyawla wrote:I grew up thinking divorce didn't exist in our community, because I only ever saw married couples. Never heard of divorce with Somalis, and infact thought it was so taboo that, well, you'd be ostracised if you did. Growing up and meeting more Somalis changed my perspective completely - Especially after going to Djibouti! (No offense Djiboutians)
Now....I am very sad to hear that my belief that Somali men didn't have it in their nature to physically beat their wives has been changed as well - broken front teeth, broken bones.... I am hearing many stories of women who are either dealing with a husband who beats them, or have divorced because of it. I thought that was an arab problem?
Is this a new problem, or has this always just been kept under the rug?
Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 10:46 pm
Someone admitted here not too long ago that he hid the phone from his mother when she was being assaulted by his father.
Domestic violence exists and I'm sure if most Somalinetters here were to witness it, they'd be on their abusive father's side
I am,
Abdi "They are taught at a young age to hate women" Johnson
Domestic violence exists and I'm sure if most Somalinetters here were to witness it, they'd be on their abusive father's side
I am,
Abdi "They are taught at a young age to hate women" Johnson
Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 10:50 pm
Re: Abusive Somali Men
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 10:50 pm
GAMER wrote:Ogadens are the biggest offenders of this type of behavior, it's very well known fact that Ogaden men (because of their dhaqan) to go smash their women the first night of marriage to let em know who the man of the house is.
I am surprised this wasn't the first reply. War xageed waxaa kala imaatay sxb?