is having a wife in africa financially easier than having

[theyuusuf143]

I give you honest advice DONT do it if you cant bring her here any time soon. all you will get is to pay more money and receive less sex all your life ! . You will end up cheating and hooking in the hood .

Duh! The whole idea for having a long distance marriage is to have 'less sex'!

what about the frequent money sending ? No body likes to have less sex unless he/she is old and tired like you.

[thehappyone]

I don't quite understand those who go and get married back home Then lead a signle-isn life only seeing their spouse twice a year. Balaayo.

It's not so much about the wife than it is the kids, having your kids grow up in Somalia they will be better more religious and love their parents more whereas in the west kids become ciyaal suuq

Where in the world is child ever better off without both parents in their life.

Just dont have them if u cant afford to.

Both parents? Somali marriages are temporary, they know a divorce will happen eventually, having your kids in back home the man can keep them, my bro is raising all his 6 children, I don't agree but it's still a boss move

[Basra-]

Marriage

this! you are officially one of my favored .

Go team fasting 365 days a year

hyper

its so so sad that u have not have the opportunity to let a Gu.s ravage you to absolute near death ecstasy. So sad. Not all the dua's in the world can replace that.

[Tuushi]

thehappyone.That must be the saddest piece of excuse i have read in a long time.

Hey,someone gotta keep the traditions alive i guess.

Theyusuf.U think sex is for the oldies and less for the young? U might be doing it wrong.

[zaki87]

yeah its sxb lol

[Amira143]

I don't quite understand those who go and get married back home Then lead a signle-isn life only seeing their spouse twice a year. Balaayo.

It's not so much about the wife than it is the kids, having your kids grow up in Somalia they will be better more religious and love their parents more whereas in the west kids become ciyaal suuq

Where in the world is child ever better off without both parents in their life.

Just dont have them if u cant afford to.

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This!

I have seen saqajaaniin or ah xaafid in Quran in somalia. A kid who is going to be mischievous will be just that regardless where they are brought up. Furthermore having two parents is certainly better than one.

[barbarossa]

Why not have a three home-based, fresh camel-milk fed, dhuuboow, dhexyareery, beautiful xaasis for the unbeatable price of one Western born and bred, fat ass, Shokolokobangosha type wify from hell?

[Amira143]

^^

[1nemansquad]

Whatever works for you individually mate. We all have different set of circumstances and plans for what we want out of life. If your ideals are set on a wife and 9-5 job then the next man might be completely different than you're and same goes for the women. Instead of you trying to adjust to someone else's plans, end up fighting it when you realize it isn't for you hence a divorce. Marry a like minded individual who you can tolerate and assimilate into your world.

[Bella18]

Marriage

this! you are officially one of my favored .

Go team fasting 365 days a year

Yep, say NO to obligations that cannot be fulfilled

[LoveandLight]

^^
This!

I have seen saqajaaniin or ah xaafid in Quran in somalia. A kid who is going to be mischievous will be just that regardless where they are brought up. Furthermore having two parents is certainly better than one.

I concur.

[FarhanYare]

Yes that is if you don't live in the far corner of the world (Australasia) as the ticket is expensive and comparable to the cost of a wedding in Africa.

[GAMES]

I know a guy who did that, but then he regretted it. Long distance relationship takes so much out of you and it's very exhausting.

The reason alot Somali men marry in Africa is because the women in Qurbaha aren't marriage material anymore.

[FarhanYare]

^^
kuwa africa joogana waa doof raadis. markeey isku hubsadhaan ineey dibaad imadeen oo aan laceelin kariin beey waji cusub la yimidhaan. I know someone who's wife was absolutely good girl rolekeeda ka adag while dawaacda usocotay, and then bam few months after she lands in dayuusbara Isbadashay oo qaatir uu kataganyahay the only reason they are together is the two families are closely related

[Hyperactive]

Farhan, hade wa la isku meelgaari adunkan! his attentions wasnt good to begin with. unless you are new to aboard, is better to marry close cultural person.

ive heard islamo their 50s coming middle east marrying doofdoons. they know ino doof rabo but she also wants nin.

personally, i was naive and said to this midage woman; mad hablahaga nin o radisay, kani hablahago o da'a dowyahay!! her reply was; nafley ban ahay (wallalo!, she is my mom's age) . nin ban o bahanahay. maherka de deji!