somali guy in love with a white girl

[LobsterUnit]

Abti siigada faraha badan iska kala daa.catholic kulaha.

[Tiburon]

To the OP, we have all been there and still do it but when it really comes to to marriage, most somali men will stick to their own given the cultural and religious differences. Heck I am not even a religious dude and indulge in my fair share of debauchery but l still do not see myself having to fight for a relationship where everyone will judge you in the long run, from somalis, to other blacks, muslims, whites, pretty much everyone. It is way too taxing and that kind of energy can be well spent on other things. Or maybe I am just a weak dude who cannot stand up for his interracial half. This is a fucked up world dude. Anyway good luck....

Remembering college with this topic...

[Basra-]

Hello everyone! This is my first post on here and I wanted to ask you guys a question. I met this white girl at my med school about a year ago and we've been dating ever since. I really do love her and I honestly cannot imagine a single day without her. So I was planing to pop the question. Only problem is that she isnt religious but her parents are catholic. I really do want an ordinary somali wedding, and I think getting maried at a church is haram and very corny. Are any of you married to none somalis or the product of an interacial? any advice is appreciated

Waryaa

Don't make a mistake of marrying her. I would have approved your wedding with her but when u said u want ' I really do want an ordinary Somali wedding', i knew your heart was not with this white woman. U r just suffering from horniness. That's all. U r obviously stressed in your academic homework pursuits, it is understandable that u get horny for the closest female by proximity--which is a white woman. I would recommend u to seek a hooker, get the sex out of the way--the safest way of course,(I mean, use a condom), finish your studies and go marry a nice xalimo!

[Adali]

How will the wedding be ordinary when the bride is not Somali ? You're clearly not religious, but you seem like the type who will turn a new page for the better later in life, but if you end up marrying this girl you will regret it. The worst a Somali wife can do to you is take your money and your children, but this white girl can turn your children gaalo, then who will pray for you when you're dead ?

It is not worth it, even a convert is a gamble, marry a Somali girl from a good family.

[Somaliman%]

A wedding will be the least of your worries if you don't think this through. U will regret this.

[AvidThinkerr101]

@yousef that is very rude, only serious responses please

@tiburen thank you so much brother, i don't really mind people judging and staring as growing up with somalis you tend to get used to that. but I'm glad someone else knows how i feel about this.

@basra that isn't true but i understand why you would think that. when i said i want ordinary somali wedding i meant i wanted a wedding where my mom and dad would feel comfortable. my mom (like every somali) goes to weddings all the time, and as her first born i didn't want to take that away from her. although with wedding its always the bride and her families job to plan and create so idk.

@adali im not religious but neither is she. she is more of a radical anti christian, she would burn crosses in the backyard if she could. so now i wouldn't have catholic children.

@somaliman% how so?

[GAMES]

Stick with Somalis. You would appreciate this later on in life. I know a guy who is married, and has 2 kids with a cadaan chick. His 2 teenage sons, for all intends and purposes, identify with American cadaan culture. He regrets his decision, but he sticks with his wife and kids.

[Sophisticate]

Hello everyone! This is my first post on here and I wanted to ask you guys a question. I met this white girl at my med school about a year ago and we've been dating ever since. I really do love her and I honestly cannot imagine a single day without her. So I was planing to pop the question. Only problem is that she isnt religious but her parents are catholic. I really do want an ordinary somali wedding, and I think getting maried at a church is haram and very corny. Are any of you married to none somalis or the product of an interacial? any advice is appreciated

Waryaa

Don't make a mistake of marrying her. I would have approved your wedding with her but when u said u want ' I really do want an ordinary Somali wedding', i knew your heart was not with this white woman. U r just suffering from horniness. That's all. U r obviously stressed in your academic homework pursuits, it is understandable that u get horny for the closest female by proximity--which is a white woman. I would recommend u to seek a hooker, get the sex out of the way--the safest way of course,(I mean, use a condom), finish your studies and go marry a nice xalimo!

Horrible advice. You outdid yourself. To be honest, that was actually a hilarious read.

[AvidThinkerr101]

Hello everyone! This is my first post on here and I wanted to ask you guys a question. I met this white girl at my med school about a year ago and we've been dating ever since. I really do love her and I honestly cannot imagine a single day without her. So I was planing to pop the question. Only problem is that she isnt religious but her parents are catholic. I really do want an ordinary somali wedding, and I think getting maried at a church is haram and very corny. Are any of you married to none somalis or the product of an interacial? any advice is appreciated

Waryaa

Don't make a mistake of marrying her. I would have approved your wedding with her but when u said u want ' I really do want an ordinary Somali wedding', i knew your heart was not with this white woman. U r just suffering from horniness. That's all. U r obviously stressed in your academic homework pursuits, it is understandable that u get horny for the closest female by proximity--which is a white woman. I would recommend u to seek a hooker, get the sex out of the way--the safest way of course,(I mean, use a condom), finish your studies and go marry a nice xalimo!

Horrible advice. You outdid yourself. To be honest, that was actually a hilarious read.

honestly I've never been that into somali women, and the very few I've dated were not marriage material. i also dated them in my early undergrad years. i don't see myself with a somali woman so thats kind of out of the question.

[Sophisticate]

AvidThinkerr101 you remind me of someone I know. No one can force you to like Somali women. Nor is it a mandate for you to marry them. Walaal its your life, and although people are encouraging social endogamy on here because the odds fair better with regard to marital success compared to outmarriage (I'm not sure by how much), but there are no guarantees. I suppose as long as you have similar values it'll work. Good luck.

[AvidThinkerr101]

AvidThinkerr101 you remind me of someone I know. No one can force you to like Somali women. Nor is it a mandate for you to marry them. Walaal its your life, and although people are encouraging social endogamy on here because the odds fair better with regard to marital success compared to outmarriage (I'm not sure by how much), but there are no guarantees. I suppose as long as you have similar values it'll work. Good luck.

thank you!!

[Tiburon]

To the OP, dude now I think you're being a bit tad self hating somali with your not attracted to somali women comment. If there is thing experience has thought me is all women are the same, so this notion of being attracted to one particular ethnicity or color is mere bull. Like sophisticated said if you can bear the excessive taxing of the public and want to end up with this white girl of yours good luck. I honestly do not see the appeal anymore other than a short fling in white girls, heck even mulattoes are better than them. Let me ask you a question dude, have you ever taken this girl to a college dive bar and see how people look at you, even at liberal bastion schools. What about introducing her to your friends. Do you discuss politics with her?
Even though I am seeing oriental, I think I am gonna call it quits this weekend and go back to my roots. Good luck dude.

[FieldMarshalMenace]

Why am I me mentioned here, I folks know dam well Cadaan chicks dnt tickle my fancy

[zumaale]

OP

Dude, they age disgracefully. The barbie that you fell for will have transformed into an ogre by the time she hits 35. Particularly, the face.

Get a xalimo that is well proportioned and on the petite side that way you will not wake up next to a walrus when she pops a few.

[AvidThinkerr101]

@Tiburan i said I've dated somalis before, their just not my type. i don't exclusive like white girls, she's literally only 1 of 2 white girls I've dated over the years. its just that this girl is a lot more then just looks, she's smart, funny, compassionate, athletic, we share all the same interests and she's very cultured like most Canadian people are. nobody looks at our colour when where out, i don't look like your ordinary somali, far from it, so as you can imagine it really doesn't look that odd. we have the same friends for the most part and they all get along just fine (even the somali ones). and i don't discuss somali politics so no lol. good for you bro! i think if your really into somali girls exclusively then you should go for it.

@Zumaale its not all about looks bro. I've seen plenty of fine somali chicks age disgracefully. at 30 they all turn into a typical fat suugo smelling hooyo. every race is that way.

ps. her mom is in her late 40s and she doesn't look a day over 30. fingers crossed that, that gene carries over lol