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Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 9:14 am
by Adali
It's well written. thanks Do you post regularly on your blog ?

Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 9:15 am
by Murax
lol LiquidHYDROGEN ,


A lot of marriage man at the end of the day comes to family.Parents, Grandparents, Uncles, Aunts can destroy a marriage. There were 2 girls, one of them just married another Madhibaan and the other one is gonna just marry a Arab Guy soon. As for Me, I was already in a relationship with My current Wife When I met Her, but truth be told I could care less what She was, and My Parents have been in the US for 35 years, they wouldn't care either.


Hyperactive,


The Guy I have in mind is a Doctor, I will def pm You next time I talk to Him and I'll ask Him straight up what His situation is. But could You believe a friggin Medical Doctor?! If He was from a standard Zoomali waxaa la dhihi lahaa this is the best bachleor to ever walk the earth!

Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 9:19 am
by Hyperactive
murax, how his deen?

i learned over years, person who is good with his taqwa, dunya comes to him easier.

ive my own cousin, who ran with palastinian guy, cause his deen. the only problem we had wasnt musali. one cannot commit with Allah cannot commit anything else, if he was muslim.

Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 9:32 am
by Murax
hyperactive wrote:murax, how his deen?

i learned over years, person who is good with his taqwa, dunya comes to him easier.

ive my own cousin, who ran with palastinian guy, cause his deen. the only problem we had wasnt musali. one cannot commit with Allah cannot commit anything else, if he was muslim.


Hyperactive,

He prays, fasts Ramadan from the little I know His Deen is good MashaAllah.

Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 9:39 am
by Hyperactive
then, shouldnt have problem marrying somali girl, unless he has high standard and want another doctor or high profile somali girl.

Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 10:21 am
by StormShadow
I don't see a lot of tribalism in Somalis these days went to Madhiban and isaaq wedding last year, everyone had a good time. Good story tho.

Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 10:35 am
by 0sman
The young man then addressed him by saying, I'm held accountable for a past I had no part in making and hampered by a history blanketed in superstition. I am forced to make penitence for crimes never committed where the nature of the offense is not known. However, I must serve out the length of multiple life sentences that I inherited from my ancestors and will pass on to future generations if this cycle is not broken. Let me set the record – I am not a tyrannical king that terrorized people, nor do I find dead meat palatable. Any thinking person would know that is no reason to relegate my clan to subordinate status. We are tantamount to you. I cannot wrap my head around why my hands are still stained with deeds that I have not done and I do not know why my ancestors are sullied with a reputation grounded in fiction.
Damn! That part is just painful and hits home hard! The issue of madhibaan/midgo first became known to me in the late 90's (it really wasn't that common & acted upon in the South. Well, at least not in Xamar back in the days) when that famous program 'Quursigu qiil ma leeyahay?' was made by the BBC Somali and realized how damaging & destructive the discrimination of the madhibaan tribes by other Somalis was and how nonsensical & stupid it was to believe in such bollocks while claiming to be people of God.

This story reminded me of a "religious" member here who wanted to criticize another member's bad behavior awhile ago and chose the word "midgaan" for the other person's questionable act. I was like :|. And then there's this MailMan (or something like that) who is the new "holier-than-thou' monk on the forum lately and this person doesn't miss a beat to be racist against anything "Bantu" and "black" African (I thought for a believer everyone was created by God and that no one was above another except their piety etc).

M point is, we Somalis are retarded and the lowest of all lows when it comes to how we discriminate & hate one another while in the grand scheme of things we're actually nothing, a bunch of camel-herding, tribalistic, backward nomads who can't help themselves let alone add any value to humanity.

Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 11:07 am
by GeoSeven
The young man then addressed him by saying, I'm held accountable for a past I had no part in making and hampered by a history blanketed in superstition. I am forced to make penitence for crimes never committed where the nature of the offense is not known. However, I must serve out the length of multiple life sentences that I inherited from my ancestors and will pass on to future generations if this cycle is not broken. Let me set the record – I am not a tyrannical king that terrorized people, nor do I find dead meat palatable. Any thinking person would know that is no reason to relegate my clan to subordinate status. We are tantamount to you. I cannot wrap my head around why my hands are still stained with deeds that I have not done and I do not know why my ancestors are sullied with a reputation grounded in fiction.
Harrowing :wow:

Sophi, you have an interesting blog. I enjoyed Shishacapades.

Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 11:30 am
by BlackRain
Well written! have you though about writing for newspapers and magazines.? Get paid while writing from the comfort of your home and while you still on your baati. :wow:

Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 11:34 am
by Hyperactive
i forgot to say ; good writting sophi.

Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 12:12 pm
by ciddhartha
0sman wrote: Damn! That part is just painful and hits home hard! The issue of madhibaan/midgo first became known to me in the late 90's (it really wasn't that common & acted upon in the South. Well, at least not in Xamar back in the days) when that famous program 'Quursigu qiil ma leeyahay?' was made by the BBC Somali and realized how damaging & destructive the discrimination of the madhibaan tribes by other Somalis was and how nonsensical & stupid it was to believe in such bollocks while claiming to be people of God.

This story reminded me of a "religious" member here who wanted to criticize another member's bad behavior awhile ago and chose the word "midgaan" for the other person's questionable act. I was like :|. And then there's this MailMan (or something like that) who is the new "holier-than-thou' monk on the forum lately and this person doesn't miss a beat to be racist against anything "Bantu" and "black" African (I thought for a believer everyone was created by God and that no one was above another except their piety etc).

M point is, we Somalis are retarded and the lowest of all lows when it comes to how we discriminate & hate one another while in the grand scheme of things we're actually nothing, a bunch of camel-herding, tribalistic, backward nomads who can't help themselves let alone add any value to humanity.
http://www.madhibaan.org/news/break-pr- ... ouncil.htm

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Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 12:44 pm
by Niya
:up: :up: Excellent piece Sophi!

Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 12:50 pm
by TheGrumpyGeeljire
Thanks Sophi! I thoroughly enjoyed reading this thought-provoking peace. :clap:

Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 2:40 pm
by FarhanYare
Masterclass writing!

Re: Guess Who’s Coming to Qado

Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 3:11 pm
by STARKAST
You know som society is broken when its more acceptable to marry a ajnabis (jareer/caadan) than MD's et al..