Acudhka, warya menace joog ninyow. To declare that someone is beautiful or attractive ain't the same as lusting over them.FieldMarshalMenace wrote:That means you were attracted to her to begin with , you lusted over her while bro was alivezumaale wrote:Wax xalal eh mala yiso. If my bros wife was a good woman and I found her attractive, would not think twice to safeguard my nephews/nieces future on the condition that I would be financially able too meet that responsibility. Ideally, it works in the Mii not in a modern urban setting where is is ridiculously expensive to maintain 2 xalimos.
Never imagined this was permissible in Islam
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Re: Never imagined this was permissible in Islam
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Re: Never imagined this was permissible in Islam
no its not. if there is anyone who i'd want to fukk my wife after i die is my brother.Antijuli wrote:It's disgusting, sleeping with the widow of your brother
who would want some man with no blood relation raising your kids.
Re: Never imagined this was permissible in Islam
it is disgustingStuckon21 wrote:How can you describe something that Allah hasAntijuli wrote:It's disgusting, sleeping with the widow of your brother
made lawful for us as disgusting?
Say you'd rather marry qof shisheeya ah laakin don't say it's disgusting.
and what do you mean qof shisheeye, inbreeding is wrong
Re: Never imagined this was permissible in Islam
^^ By western definition?
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Just cuz its not halaal doesn't mean one should do it. It doesn't make sense for our social construct, like how marrying 4 wives.
Re: Never imagined this was permissible in Islam
wasabi wrote:it is disgustingStuckon21 wrote:How can you describe something that Allah hasAntijuli wrote:It's disgusting, sleeping with the widow of your brother
made lawful for us as disgusting?
Say you'd rather marry qof shisheeya ah laakin don't say it's disgusting.
and what do you mean qof shisheeye, inbreeding is wrong
There are few people who are worth explaining stuff to, and there are others, like yourself who have the same understanding as a mulqaacad markaa isxiijin maayo.
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Re: Never imagined this was permissible in Islam
You guys must understand that my future mistress Julkimi's looking at this through her Western lenses....if julkim had grown up back home she would've been understanding....it's more likely that she is more confident and tolerant of homosexual behavior around her then this practice that she considers "disgusting"
@MaliPrince...I'd rather have my brother Marty my wife then another man specially when one has a daughter...in our community we have a lot of single mothers marrying anything and ending up having their girl' s molested by nacaska ey u keentay
@MaliPrince...I'd rather have my brother Marty my wife then another man specially when one has a daughter...in our community we have a lot of single mothers marrying anything and ending up having their girl' s molested by nacaska ey u keentay
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Re: Never imagined this was permissible in Islam
Your akhlaaq maa shaa AllahStuckon21 wrote:
There are few people who are worth explaining stuff to, and there are others, like yourself who have the same understanding as a mulqaacad markaa isxiijin maayo.


Re: Never imagined this was permissible in Islam
YummyMummy wrote:Your akhlaaq maa shaa AllahStuckon21 wrote:
There are few people who are worth explaining stuff to, and there are others, like yourself who have the same understanding as a mulqaacad markaa isxiijin maayo.![]()
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Imagine a woman thought her husband was dead and her husbands brother married her and the husband made a return to see his brother with his wife and his brother being the new daddy to his kids?. 
On another note menace stop lying, you can't marry your dead uncles wife. What kinda messed up ish is that?

On another note menace stop lying, you can't marry your dead uncles wife. What kinda messed up ish is that?

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Re: Never imagined this was permissible in Islam
So now you dismiss the diinta just so you can call me a lunatic ...Euphoriia wrote:Imagine a woman thought her husband was dead and her husbands brother married her and the husband made a return to see his brother with his wife and his brother being the new daddy to his kids?.
On another note menace stop lying, you can't marry your dead uncles wife. What kinda messed up ish is that?
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I don't presume to know the exact passage of what you first brought up, but marrying your brother's widow...exactly what is wrong with that?
True, you don't live in a world where that is necessary, but think about it. A woman marries into your family, and is therefore the responsibility of them. Her husband dies and she's left feeding her children what your family provides them (if they do)...The amount of ajar you get for stepping up to take care of her and her needs, as well as the children's...I don't see how anyone can refute the beauty in that. There are places in this world that do not provide for single mothers...not everyone can get a support check from their governments.
This is not intended for pervs who were lusting after their brother's wives, or a man who does not have honest intentions towards his brothers family, obviously!
Even if you don't agree, questioning what Allah made xalaal (and as you can see, for wonderful reason) ...?
True, you don't live in a world where that is necessary, but think about it. A woman marries into your family, and is therefore the responsibility of them. Her husband dies and she's left feeding her children what your family provides them (if they do)...The amount of ajar you get for stepping up to take care of her and her needs, as well as the children's...I don't see how anyone can refute the beauty in that. There are places in this world that do not provide for single mothers...not everyone can get a support check from their governments.
This is not intended for pervs who were lusting after their brother's wives, or a man who does not have honest intentions towards his brothers family, obviously!
Even if you don't agree, questioning what Allah made xalaal (and as you can see, for wonderful reason) ...?
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Re: Never imagined this was permissible in Islam
EvolSyawla wrote:I don't presume to know the exact passage of what you first brought up, but marrying your brother's widow...exactly what is wrong with that?
True, you don't live in a world where that is necessary, but think about it. A woman marries into your family, and is therefore the responsibility of them. Her husband dies and she's left feeding her children what your family provides them (if they do)...The amount of ajar you get for stepping up to take care of her and her needs, as well as the children's...I don't see how anyone can refute the beauty in that. There are places in this world that do not provide for single mothers...not everyone can get a support check from their governments.
This is not intended for pervs who were lusting after their brother's wives, or a man who does not have honest intentions towards his brothers family, obviously!
Even if you don't agree, questioning what Allah made xalaal (and as you can see, for wonderful reason) ...?
The topic is abt nephew marrying dead uncle's wife

Re: Never imagined this was permissible in Islam
The Massai also have this "dumaal" tradition. 

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