Should insulting Somali women be accepted on SomaliNet?

[TheblueNwhite]

No, it should not be tolerated at all.

[EvolSyawla]

As you love to say, there's no smoke without a fire. One thread of support doesn't make up for polluting other threads with "you women make me ashamed of being Somali".

Some of the males on here follow your lead, that insulting Somali women is okay because hey, its not all Somali women. Why do I need to come on here reading between the rudeness? That is not fair.

The women on here don't come at you guys, because we have more respect than that. TRUST ME when I say that Somali guys have a lot of work to do.

I made threads about this before, somalinimo and raganimo is gone. There are a few gems on here, but the rest of you goats run for the tufax jokes. The cheap and clean, the______________________ (insert every other so-called 'kaftan').

Very boring!

BV some mods are very good about it. Just make sure to let them know

[djibsomali]

over moderating kill forums!

apple+20 pences society should be a fair game!

[Bandit]

I retract what I said earlier after reading that steal yo girl thread we should continue bashing them

[BlackVelvet]

LoveAlways

I will report them all! lol Hadda kadib I am on a mission to flush out all this nonsense. However we as the SNet community should draw a line, yes we insult each other in every way imaginable so it's easy to say what's the big deal in adding one more. The Mods took a public stand against insulting religion (another disturbing trend that was emerging), similarly there should be a united stand against insulting Somali women

over moderating kill forums!

apple+20 pences society should be a fair game!

No it shouldn't. Imagine if we kept saying that about Djibouti women, eventually a shisheeye lurking on here will see it and you will read about Djibouti women lagu mehersado 20 pence on nairrarland

[BlackVelvet]

Reported!

[djibsomali]

even my sister!
We should self discipline our society.
You have here some girl admiting like black shisheyee!
well those are the apple girls and 20 pence among that should be ostracize from our society!

nb: i never understand why they come to somali forum and even to somali weeding or gathering those girls!
after all they are not somalis after they have been consumated by madow and now indians/chinese

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

I hope you are as diligent when Somali guys get thrown under bus by xalimos as well.

I've noticed only Somalis and indhayar shit on their men.

@Hawdian have some shame you ethio-twerking imbecile.

[Lancer]

Damn we have turned into the African American community. Now we have to tell Somali men not to constantly degrade the girls. Somalidii way u damaatay. As for the question no it shouldn't be accepted.

[BlackVelvet]

LiquidH If I haven't been diligent before I shall start now

even my sister!
We should self discipline our society.
You have here some girl admiting like black shisheyee!
well those are the apple girls and 20 pence among that should be ostracize from our society!

nb: i never understand why they come to somali forum and even to somali weeding or gathering those girls!
after all they are not somalis after they have been consumated by madow and now indians/chinese

Sounds like you itch at the fingers to rip off their garba sars when you see them at the weddings

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

Damn we have turned into the African American community. Now we have to tell Somali men not to constantly degrade the girls. Somalidii way u damaatay. As for the question no it shouldn't be accepted.

That's an exaggeration bro. It's only online that this shit happens. Trolls have taken over. Outside of Somalinet, I have never seen another group of males put their females on a pedestal more than Somalis.

[BlackVelvet]

Reported!

[zumaale]

Sometimes I wonder how many male Somalinetters socially interact with non Somali males or have male banter with them in the real world. I have had countless encounters whereby our women have been 'innocently' complimented for their beauty (FUUTO) and consequently been sampled by the respective men who complimented them. Mostly, Bidas and Fufus as they are the main predators of our xalimos. Fair play to them, I do not blame them because if a Xalimo sells herself short, hala Cuuno.

Some of our women are not Madonnas like any other ethnic group as has already been established by one taking an extensive stroll through the debauchery hotspots of a cosmopolitan city like London on a Friday and Saturday night. What takes the biscuit is that many denigrate Somalis in the process by dissing Somali men.

What riled me up a few months ago was this Assyrian work colleague of mine was commenting in this Xalimo wu aase. The guy was defending Somali males actually because the Xalimo was dragging our name through the dirt whilst engaging in pillow talk with him. As a whole, our women score lowly on ethnic pride and to call them out is just. If a male Somalinetter, with evidence, rightly brings one to our attention, no skin off my nose. Especially, if it saves an unsuspecting Farax from falling for Ajnabi damaged goods.

[DANGIRL]

Sometimes I wonder how many male Somalinetters socially interact with non Somali males or have male banter with them in the real world. I have had countless encounters whereby our women have been 'innocently' complimented for their beauty (FUUTO) and consequently been sampled by the respective men who complimented them. Mostly, Bidas and Fufus as they are the main predators of our xalimos. Fair play to them, I do not blame them because if a Xalimo sells herself short, hala Cuuno.

Some of our women are not Madonnas like any other ethnic group as has already been established by one taking an extensive stroll through the debauchery hotspots of a cosmopolitan city like London on a Friday and Saturday night. What takes the biscuit is that many denigrate Somalis in the process by dissing Somali men.

What riled me up a few months ago was this Assyrian work colleague of mine was commenting in this Xalimo wu aase. The guy was defending Somali males actually because the Xalimo was dragging our name through the dirt whilst engaging in pillow talk with him. As a whole, our women score lowly on ethnic pride and to call them out is just. If a male Somalinetter, with evidence, rightly brings one to our attention, no skin off my nose. Especially, if it saves an unsuspecting Farax from falling for Ajnabi damaged goods.

[incognito1]

A lot of black women (AA) complain that their men never stand up for them. They join in when black women are insulted or possibly worse, show their consent through silence


This is the kind of thing that happens slowly and the changes are imperceptible. By the time you notice what's happened there is a new status quo. When would you have ever heard such phrases as the tufax and nadiif iyo cheap being said about Somali women on this Somali forum without it raising so much as an eyebrow?

A lot of Somali guys justify their actions by saying they've seen too much. It's not worth defending any more. Unless you live in a brothel with your female Somali relatives there is nothing to give up on. Those who misbehave and commit reprehensible acts have never represented us. They have always been disowned and we always distance ourselves from such people

Yes, in the age of instagram and dabadeeyda kussan aan ku tusa it may get disheartening. However if you as a Somali male use that as an excuse to create insults, join in or sit back and watch as dumarka Somaliyeed are insulted then you may as well have sat back while your sister got insulted. She may not be the one on instagram posing with her butt but her and I and every Somali female out there share the same name. You don't have to be militant honour defenders. You just have to not spew cay on SomaliNet of all places

We need to nip this at the bud. Pay attention because if we're not careful we will become desensitized to yet another thing that we found abominable. Before you know it they will propagate through discourse and those shisheeyes from all sorts of ethnicities will be calling dumarkeena "nadiif iyo cheap", tufax an ku mehersada iyo wax aan lo joogin

Simply because a few frustrated Somalis thought it would be funny/stress relief to malign Somali women for a while

well said, i have come to the conclusion that somali men, who constantly diss somali women,have really lose relatives and its their only way to vent the pain they live through.alxamdullilah we never had that problem with our female relatives, so somali women to me are queens for the most part, there are lost sheeps and actually feel sorry for them wallahi. cause when they have been used and abused,they will have no where to belong to.