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A good girl deserves a nice wedding, as long as the guy can afford it and her expectations aren't unreasonably extravagant. But remember fellas, no hymen no diamond. Only a sucker pays for something thats been had for free.

BlackVelvet wrote:DanGirl seriously give it a rest

BV, imagine someone googling Somali girls and mehr, the results would prolly disproportionately feature dangirl and her infamous tuufax/apple.

I have married 3 times thus far. Each woman wouldn't accept my way except the first one (She and I wanted it ). My way was to have minimized aroos expenses. I wanted a mosque meher with bariis and hilib I didn't want anything else except maybe a little ladies night. However, I have offered these showboating ladies the opportunity to enjoy each other where we can go on 10 days vacation to Turkey or Puerto Rico or Domican Republic or Morocco or Dubai or Hargeisa/Berbera ...my offer was resolutely rejected. Hada if you add up the numbers then you would know that while taking this route I would've still have coughed up $20k including the furnishing of the home.

Furthermore, as I accepted defeat and went along with their dam aroos I was forced to spend $38k.

It's really awful to realize that after that aroos night that all that money went to waste. You don't enjoy at all, people pulling your arms to dance. People dictating to you to do this and that.

But you can never convince them to change their mind because Xaliimo wants to be on the spotlight

Jugjugwacwac wrote:A good girl deserves a nice wedding, as long as the guy can afford it and her expectations aren't unreasonably extravagant. But remember fellas, no hymen no diamond. Only a sucker pays for something thats been had for free.

lol waa runtaa. I always laugh at them dummies who pay for lavish weddings for town bicycles.

I do not even want to think about it. Been trying to convince a potential suitor that money can be better spent on each other or the house or a holiday....... Alas, princesses' and their childhood dreams.

p.s The battle is not lost yet, might get it reduced to a tusbax after nights of dacwa and sweet talking.

Zumaale, ninyahow bakhayl ha noqon. But at the same time don't splurge, especially if it entails going into lots of debt. Give the gal a nice wedding man. Waa ku sidee. That's if shes worth it of course, and only u can be the judge of that.

Amira143 wrote:20+ k

Amira143 wrote:Small and intimate

Amira143 wrote:Small and intimate

Amira143 wrote:Small and intimate

Amira143 wrote:Small and intimate:

Some delusional xaliimos in here. Have fun staying single.

You did and your on the thrid son

Most folks I've asked paid an average of 7-10k for the meher, I assumed that was an average.

GeoSeven wrote:Most folks I've asked paid an average of 7-10k for the meher, I assumed that was an average.

loool, where the hell u from?

Jugjugwacwac wrote:

GeoSeven wrote:Most folks I've asked paid an average of 7-10k for the meher, I assumed that was an average.

loool, where the hell u from?

In dollars not pounds...that a reasonably average sum?

Im from Toronto, and the average is like 5K, unless theres been a meher inflation that im not privy to.

Jugjugwacwac wrote:Im from Toronto, and the average is like 5K, unless theres been a meher inflation that im not privy to.

I bet this is how the market works

Hooyo: Fartun, gabadhi Shamso meherkeda wuxu aha 10,000 dollar, waxa ku tiradha inaanka ku so doonayo inu 15,000 dollar ka yar la imanin.

Fartun: Hooyo macaan, aniga iyo Ducaale waxan ku heshinay 5000 dollar.

Hooyo: Na maxad na modhe? Shamso inaanteda ma ka qimo badan? Wan ku habari hadad hadalkeyga maqlin!

Based wrote:

Amira143 wrote:20+ k

Amira143 wrote:Small and intimate

Amira143 wrote:Small and intimate

Amira143 wrote:Small and intimate

Amira143 wrote:Small and intimate:

what dee? She asked, Meher+wedding+home, That doesn't come cheap! lawd!! These broke ass faraxs