How long will you stay married to the same person?

[BlackVelvet]

the idea is forever/till death, one really shouldn't be entering into marriage with any intention short of that

Back when I was young, I remember some of the ladies on here throwing around the number 50, like once you get there, you just hand him over to someone else and get on with the rest of your life

No but new culture has to form, we r not yet there.

What about you? Have you resigned yourself to a short marriage?

[AgentOfChaos]

How long will you stay married to the same person?

Eternity

Boys: yaa bariis maalin walba cunikaro

I could eat bariis everyday, but never cambuulo

Only a certain type of man can handle cambuulo, not every Farax has what it takes

More like boy, cause no man likes qumayo with penis envy, but I hope you find your boy toy of a bitch boy soon. Good luck.

[AgentOfChaos]

the idea is forever/till death, one really shouldn't be entering into marriage with any intention short of that

Well said walaal.

[BlackVelvet]

relationships lasting for decades is a new phenomenon with the increase in life expectancy. People got married to have children, and eventually someone would die sooner rather than later. Most relationships don't last after the kids as that is the essential function of marriage.

Women after she hits menopause just didn't care anymore.

Men, if they lived long enough would just marry a young girl to start producing kids again.

I find it difficult to believe you when you play cynic


In Islam don't we believe that people used to live for hundreds of years or is that strictly a Christian thing?


Either way, how other people choose to live is irrelevant. The question is about your intention and what you're working towards

[metamorphosis]

I think forever if you love the person.

[BlackVelvet]

More like boy, cause no man likes qumayo with penis envy, but I hope you find your boy toy of a bitch boy soon. Good luck.

You could just say "hey BV, how've you been, I've missed you". I won't have you castrated, you get 1 free pass a year


As for a boy toy of a bitch boy, what do I need him for when I've got you to slap around

[gegiroor]

relationships lasting for decades is a new phenomenon with the increase in life expectancy. People got married to have children, and eventually someone would die sooner rather than later. Most relationships don't last after the kids as that is the essential function of marriage.

Women after she hits menopause just didn't care anymore.

Men, if they lived long enough would just marry a young girl to start producing kids again.

Way to go bro! Keep marrying up to four and producing kids as long as we (men) are capable! Good stuff. In Somalia tough, and not in the diaspora.

On a serious note, times have changed and one wife is more than enough.

[SultanOrder]

Reasons why people stay together:

1. Children
2. Social pressure
3. Economic pressure
4. Just don't care
50. Love

This is why where states provide a safety net for single mothers, society isn't so rigid, and economic pressures are relieved, you have high amounts of divorce. Just look at the successful west, over 50% divorce compared to other parts of the world. Can't fight reality.

[AgentOfChaos]

Reasons why people stay together:

1. Children
2. Social pressure
3. Economic pressure
4. Just don't care
50. Love

Holy shit that's some fucked up view you got there, you need to go watch bollywood movie ASAP.

[AgentOfChaos]

More like boy, cause no man likes qumayo with penis envy, but I hope you find your boy toy of a bitch boy soon. Good luck.

You could just say "hey BV, how've you been, I've missed you". I won't have you castrated, you get 1 free pass a year


As for a boy toy of a bitch boy, what do I need him for when I've got you to slap around

[BlackVelvet]

Reasons why people stay together:

1. Children
2. Social pressure
3. Economic pressure
4. Just don't care
50. Love

This is why where states provide a safety net for single mothers, society isn't so rigid, and economic pressures are relieved, you have high amounts of divorce. Just look at the successful west, over 50% divorce compared to other parts of the world. Can't fight reality.

2 points I can see you've raised however:


Firstly there is no way of knowing what goes on in people's relationships, what role love plays in the marriage and where it falls


Secondly in the west the culture differs greatly from the rest of the world. It's not that once you love someone life becomes rainbows and daisies, there is still work involved. People in the West don't have that social pressure, that sense of community encouraging them to make it work and reminding them all the reasons why they should stay married. Once the word divorce comes up everyone around them rallies in to support their decision whereas in most other contexts that would be the cue to intervene and help them solve the problem and save their marriage

[Bella18]

BV relationshipki sanuunad bad ka dhigtay oo lugta ku walaaqaysid

Mar aad leedahay "probation" iyo "how long"?
Wax maalmo ku sugan mahee waa lifetime contract.

[BlackVelvet]

BV relationshipki sanuunad bad ka dhigtay oo lugta ku walaaqaysid

Mar aad leedahay "probation" iyo "how long"?
Wax maalmo ku sugan mahee waa lifetime contract.

Probation doesn't count taas intii laga baxayo weli guurka si fiican ma bilaawanin. So it doesn't count

[SultanOrder]

People get bored of each and most people stay married because they got used to it or that's what they should be doing.


Me, I'm going to get a pretty little thing and see how long that ride that ride lasts. What ever calaf has in store for me.

[BlackVelvet]

People get bored of each and most people stay married because they got used to it or that's what they should be doing.


Me, I'm going to get a pretty little thing and see how long that ride that ride lasts. What ever calaf has in store for me.

Did someone close to you recently get divorced? That is a rhetorical question


I am putting it out there only because unless you have had an experience that has put this thought in you, you have no reason to be so negative. Except maybe unless you are also trolling


Even Meta, Gegiroor and AOC believe in at least believing. The world has turned on its axis!