What's somali way to ask for marriage?

[YummyMummy]

^ tbf you can know/be close to other families for decades and still have no inclination to marry into/from them.

[Firefly]

She has adopted cadaan culture too.

I see. You still haven't said what this cadaan culture entails?

[Xamud.]

^ tbf you can know/be close to other families for decades and still have no inclination to marry into/from them.

True, but qabiil won't be a barrier, unless her family are harcore qabilist and if this is the case, he better run.

[Rambie]

Challenge her father to a fist fight, of course the fight will never take place but it will show her father that you are a man worthy of his daughter.

Good luck

It would be hilarious!

"Give me your daughter or I'll punch you in the nose"

[RoobleAlWaliid]

25 cents meher , become an ex-convict and say you are a revert.

[TheCadaanGuy]

How is it worse if I have every intention to raise my children in Somali way?

It wasn't my fault that I wasn't raised in Somali way, nor is my parents fault. A set of unfortunate circumstances led me being raised in that way.

It's not about how you were raised or circumstances. It is about what you identify with, you chose to call yourself "TheCadaanGuy". That says a lot


But you are probably trolling. NoIdentity 2.0

Cadaan is what I get called by Somali peers around me.

I actually know her family for more than 15 years. I don't think there will be problems with her father accepting me.

Only one issue is we hail from different clans.

Surely tribe won't matter if you know her family that well, something tells me you're probably trolling.

Her immediate family are fine with me and my clan. It's her extended family that's problem. Looking at history, I don't think our clans ever had good relations with each other. Somewhere in her family, a hardcore clanist will kick up a fuss.

Also, our families were never that close. We just said hello and had short chitchat every time our paths cross which was once every few years. We only bonded together because we were only Somalis in a town. Thankfully, we now live in a city full with Somalis.

She has adopted cadaan culture too.

I see. You still haven't said what this cadaan culture entails?

Western culture. For a reference, look at white reverts.

[EvolSyawla]

Dude, wax isku fal. What the heck? lol


You must be trolling, because no self-respecting Somali/black guy will say Oh I'm the cadaan guy, because that's what people call me. I'm so perplexed?....No, you're trolling.

[QuantumSatis]

She has adopted cadaan culture too.

You two are perfect for each other Maashallah.

[TheCadaanGuy]

Dude, wax isku fal. What the heck? lol


You must be trolling, because no self-respecting Somali/black guy will say Oh I'm the cadaan guy, because that's what people call me. I'm so perplexed?....No, you're trolling.

You think I accept that? You're reading far too much into it. It is just an online moniker taken from few dodgy Somalis calling me the white guy.

[CaliQase]

Any chance you are lighter than the average Skinny?

[TheCadaanGuy]

No.

[CaliQase]

I suggest you ask FAH123 to change your name. This is disgrace to you.

[Venusta]

Somali culture is a bonus.Islamic way of life is more important. Our Somali way is rich in content but it does not always coincide with the Islamic way. Know your deen and learn the Somali culture on the side-it is a beautiful culture.

[Venusta]

Oops didn't answer the question. Well you bet they will ask about your five a day i.e your salah and other basic Islamic knowledge. Know them-better be acting on them

[QuantumSatis]

D/P