Machiavelli2 wrote:gerigoor
Ina Adeer, humans will prefer to congregate areas where their fellow country men reside. Secondly, you will see second Somali generation hosting expensive weddings only to settle in places like Cedar-Riverside. Having said that, people need to adjust to how they raise their kids in the Western diaspora, but as long as our kids attend the malcamad, school, have a roof over their head, three meals a day and decent clothes, that is where our parenting ends, other influences, such as school friends, TV and father Social Media become their mentors. We always find out very late when they are in trouble, even then, if a family has the means to ship them out, we will export them to the institution of Dhaqan Cellis as if it could correct the flaws of their characters. As someone mentioned above, everyone should educate their relatives about this issue and the need to invest and sacrifice for the future of their children by abandoning cheap housing in the ghetto and actively be involved in the lives of their children.
We are fighting over which tribe should manage our mosques that most donated to build wonderful Islamic Centres, do you think there will have the mindset of building an honest "community" that speaks, lobbies, advocates for Somali issues?
Even if these new arrivals are settled far away from the ghetto areas, most will seek the company of their relatives and move to the ghetto areas. I see it as a cultural shortcoming from our side than a procedural deficit by the refugee resettlement program.
Machiavelli2,
I agree with all of the points that you have raised. My issue with the refugee resettlement agencies stems from the fact that they only place Somalis in inner cities. There are other refugees from Nepal and Iraq they brought into the US, and they never resettle them in these failing neighborhoods. So, I questioned myself why Somalis only? I did a little bit of more digging and found out the other groups have established community leaders on their behalf and therefore can put the refugee resettlement agencies on the spot; however, Somalis don't have it. Basically, Somalis are voiceless.
I understand in our culture, once the parents provide food, shelter, clothing, and send the kids to school, to them that is done. It is true that, as you put it, "school friends, TV and father Social Media become their mentors." One thing we should also look at is the influences of the environment where these children are being raised. In inner cities, any male who is between 15 - 18 is a prey to drug dealers. This is where the recruiting takes place. They provide more money available to them, so the underage kids can sell the drugs. If we can at least influence their initial settlement in these failing communities, we may able to reduce the number of young males who are being recruited into the gangs.
If you remember when the banks shut down Somali Money Remittance (Hawala) accounts in the US, the community effort was huge. We did it because it is a lifeline for Somalis backhome. I think we can do the same in this situation. We need a community-wide effort to put pressure on the US Refugee Resettlement agencies to ensure they stop placing only Somalis in inner cities. It is a double-standard that they only place the Somalis in these failing neighborhoods. They have been doing this since the beginning of 1990s. My issue with the refugee resettlement agencies is, why do you place only Somalis in the ghettos?
If we, at minimum, make enough noises, we can at least get them to stop the discriminatory policies that they're only applying to Somalis. We can also at least reduce the number of young males growing up in an environment where the only thing that is available is drugs.
Thanks!
Thank you Kaafiye and Jalaaludiin for your comments.
@Basra, when are you gonna grow up and at least understand the topic

@PrInce, our effort here should be prevention. There was a study conducted by the DHUD during the Clinton administration, and they have concluded that the best option for minorities communities to get out of failing neighborhoods is to get them out of these inner cities neighborhoods where the only thing available is drugs. This is how Section-8 program was instituted. On this situation, what you have is refugee resettlement agencies placing one particular refugee group - Somalis - in these neighborhoods that the US Government study recommended that the minority communities should move out of those same neighborhoods. It is really very shocking.
Additionally, in this Westwood Apartments in Columbus, Ohio, the Somalis who settled there are new refugees who came to the US within the last 5 years. The trend of young males joining the gangs have already started, and we already have victims from this violence and some of the young males in the prison system.