chelsea,
you welcome bro, didnt do anything. we just brain stormed together.
there was this somali guy, his car quited, he wanted to take car loan with intrest. honest, without car life here very hard, there is no good bus lines, other than poor workers one, heat etc.
he brought up that topic and said, he wont be able to go work without car, the taxi is expensive etc. i wanted to show him other side and take off his mind, i cannot survive with out car mentality.
told him, i have good poor taxi driver, can take you and bring you from work, its $200 a month, i can pay it for you. he came back what about shopping grocery? i told him , there is free delivery in xz place . he says, what about if i want take kids out, cannot prison them in this small appartment. then i gave up
wayeel,
thank you bro. i know what you mean that is why i quote : بَلِ الْإِنْسَانُ عَلَىٰ نَفْسِهِ بَصِيرَةٌ
Nay, man will be evidence against himself,
وَلَوْ أَلْقَىٰ مَعَاذِيرَهُ
Even though he were to put up his excuses.
they are their best sheikhs. no one know best than themselves.