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Re: I don't feel sorry for Single Mothers

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salool wrote:Maxaa ninkan ciil haya iyo cadho.Ninyahow suuqaga gal oo xabad kale iska raadso.Ma fiicna adigu nin weyn inaad forumka ku dhex baroortid.Wax iskula hadh :snoop:
salool indr Maxad ugu cadaynaysa :lol: ninka Odayga ah wali grief stages ayuu ku jira ayaan filayaa marka ka dhagayso uun, he will get over it insha allah.
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Re: I don't feel sorry for Single Mothers

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chelseaforever wrote:
salool wrote:Maxaa ninkan ciil haya iyo cadho.Ninyahow suuqaga gal oo xabad kale iska raadso.Ma fiicna adigu nin weyn inaad forumka ku dhex baroortid.Wax iskula hadh :snoop:
salool indr Maxad ugu cadaynaysa :lol: ninka Odayga ah wali grief stages ayuu ku jira ayaan filayaa marka ka dhagayso uun, he will get over it insha allah.
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Nin weyno oo forum ku dhex ooyeya foolxumo ka weyni ma jirto.He should start journal and write down all his feelings without embrassing himself in a public forum.

Aqal burburay waa wax qoran, wixi dhacay iyo inu qofba ka kale danbiga saaro ma fiicna.

Horta, im not a garoob so i dont know what he is going through.laakin waxa fiican inu ilaahisa oo jeesto oo iska samro.Aduunkan wa iska imtixaan, inaynu ku raaxeysano la inooma keenin.Khayr baan oo rajenaya inshallah.
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salool wrote:Maxaa ninkan ciil haya iyo cadho.Ninyahow suuqaga gal oo xabad kale iska raadso.Ma fiicna adigu nin weyn inaad forumka ku dhex baroortid.Wax iskula hadh :snoop:
Salool,

Runtii I don't know your case and why you got single mothered but runtii Its women's faults that we are having single mothers. Hadii ay odaygeeda cuntada ukarsan leheed, gurigeeda iska dhaqaalaysan leheed wixii loodirana qaban leheed, majireen 300 single mother oo minneapolis caruur gaari kujiidaayo. Marka horena meel majoogaan marka danbena way baroortaan.

Adiga hadaan su'aal kuwaydiiyo, knowing what you know now, soo edeb mayeelateen oo odayga mamaqasheen? iswaalkii iyo gaalo hadalkood run moodkii soo madiideen? midwalbo waa sidaas. Marka hadii ay rafaadaan is there fault because ayakaa guryaha jooga laga waayay.

Hada adiga bal wax macno leh oo lugugu furay oo aan ka ahayn iswaal iyo kibir sheeg.
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Re: I don't feel sorry for Single Mothers

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Samburdi,

Boqolaal naagood oo la qabo ba nolol rafaad ah ku jira.Nimankoodi oo maqaaxi iska fadhiya bay 10 ciyaal ah intay kaxaystan ay so adeegayan, haday school meeting noqoto, hooyadi ba mesha carareysa, haday dhakhtar noqoto hooyadi ba ilmihi wada.Nimanka soomalida qaarkood wax ay naagaha oo qabtaan ba iska yar.

Waxaaba ka dhigtay inu ninka soomaliga ihi gurigiisa oo dadaalo oo cirka iyo dhulka oo kala hayo.Way jiraan aabo yaal mashallah ihi laakin aad bay oo yar yehiin.

Waa ramadan, ma fiicna ina la is aflagaadeyo.Gurigaagi hadu ka burburay iska samir walaal.Inshallah next time it will last.

As for ur su'aal garoob ma ihi walaal.
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It is not as black and white as that and women aren't always at fault. Sometimes the dude is at fault and other times she is at fault but majority of the times, issues that cause divorce in the Somali community are something that can be worked out and solved. As I've said in the past, Somalis lack the art of problem solving. Not every issue warrants a divorce just like not every dispute warrants a clan war out in the homeland.
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salool wrote:Samburdi,

Boqolaal naagood oo la qabo ba nolol rafaad ah ku jira.Nimankoodi oo maqaaxi iska fadhiya bay 10 ciyaal ah intay kaxaystan ay so adeegayan, haday school meeting noqoto, hooyadi ba mesha carareysa, haday dhakhtar noqoto hooyadi ba ilmihi wada.Nimanka soomalida qaarkood wax ay naagaha oo qabtaan ba iska yar.

Waxaaba ka dhigtay inu ninka soomaliga ihi gurigiisa oo dadaalo oo cirka iyo dhulka oo kala hayo.Way jiraan aabo yaal mashallah ihi laakin aad bay oo yar yehiin.

Waa ramadan, ma fiicna ina la is aflagaadeyo.Gurigaagi hadu ka burburay iska samir walaal.Inshallah next time it will last.

As for ur su'aal garoob ma ihi walaal.
It is better to have this kind of husband than to be a single mother. At least the kids will grow up with a father in the house.
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Sumubaridi wrote:They have themselves to blame herself for failing to listen to their husbands and doing what he asked her to do which led to the divorce? If she would have been that submissive and obedient Somali wife who just listen to her husband and do everything she could to make him happy, divorce would not have happen. She listent to gossips from other women and jeorpadized her own marriage and the future of her children. No man marries a women, spends $20,000 for aroos and gabati and just divorce her for no reason. Single Moms have themselves to blame for their plight and their Kid's ruined future. Yaa kudhahay Cadaan iska dhiga oo americanized noqda. Gaaladii ay TV ga ka arkeen dee hala koriyaan caruurta oo subixii barafka gaariga haw kululeeyaan oo Cub foodka cunto haka soo qaadaan in the middle of the night. Marka hore inta biqbiq leeyaan bay cabaadaan kadib. Naagaha nimcada iyo raaxada iyo kool koolinta way uga dartaa. Markii ninku cagaha udhoqo ayay qooqaan oo kor ukaadshaan ilaa uu katago. Hadhaw ayay oohin iyo balan bal bilaabaan markay ogaato in ay jano kujirtay marka aduunka kusoo fatoho. Adeer ama meel jooga marka hore halaydin maamulee ama adkaysta dadbaa la idinka dhigaye.
Could not have said it better myself. The thing with somali woman is you can't win. When a guy helps out alot in the house and loves her to bits she starts disrespecting him and see him as weak I have seen this and when your tough they complain. You can't win. . I believe that marriage is really hard and is test but if there is patience and compromises insha allah everything will work out. But these woman full of pride thinking they don't need a man only have themselves to blame for their kids ruined future. After all the man will just marry another woman and have other kids.
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Perma ban and delete worthy.
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AgentOfChaos wrote:Perma ban and delete worthy.
For once, I do agree with you. He doesn't deserve be permabanned yet though. Menace, on the other hand, did certainly deserve it.
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Sumubaridi, if you're going to blame all divorce issues within the Somali community on women, you're asking for trouble. First, women in this forum will not allow you to get away with that. Second, we all know many irresponsible men who mistreat their wives and walk away from their children. Third, you can't judge on things that you have no control of. Finally, my advice to you is, either get back together with your ex if she is not already married, or find a new wife and move on.

Fyi, divorce rate in the west is very common nowadays. I used to work with this Polish couple who have been married together for 17 years, and all these White Americans were always asking them the secret. To them, 17 years of marriage was far too long for a couple to stay together. Bottom line, high divorce is not only a Somali phenomena. It is a much larger issue in the West. The problem with the Somalis tough is, many couples are are still in the lower end of the socioeconomic status, so when they have 3 or more kids and divorce hits home, it is the wife who is struggling with the kids. Especially, if the man is not helping for whatever the reason, it becomes difficult for the woman to break that socioeconomic status.
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Re: I don't feel sorry for Single Mothers

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How you guys even responding to this thread is beyond me.
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Somalis need a revolution and that means replacing their women with others in the region. The Somali naag has been nothing but ceeb not only to the Warya but to the continent. Cheap, useless, naive and rebellious are their norm characters.

There should be Somali hawalas that import women from other ethnics such as the Oromo. Let's call it modern day marriages. Basically Somali men walk into Naagshiil office and describe their needs and wants, then agents on the field go on a mission.

For every successful marriage they should be royalties in which stable families pay % to the company. Anyone that ends up in divorce may request refund.

Nomads, if I was your leader, I would have re-engineered your society.


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You can't recruit us as your PR spokeswomen with a platform like that.... :? #jussayin
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Evol,

I think where Somalis went wrong is the naago. The naago do not motivate the Somali men enough. All around the world men was motivated by naag to achieve the greatest. They conquered and soar above the moon because they were pursuing naago that inspired them but Somali xalimo just want 12 babies and become fat in their diraac and gogaraado. This demoralized the warya and they turned to AK47 and khat as a relief from at home.

Had they had better and more beautiful women that maintain themselves and their families----the Warya would be a lion to be reckon with.

Thus its necessary we re-engineer the society from social and family levels rather than try to revive dead state and blame politics.

Thus Somalis need women from the region not anymore Xalimos.

Even Einstein came up with the e=mc^2 because he was fantasising a naag with endless energy.
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Re: I don't feel sorry for Single Mothers

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^then go marry elite habashi women that openly urinate in the streets.


God bless the Somali woman, our sisters and mothers :up:
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