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Sophisticate wrote:No one wants to know about a long-term boyfriend it looks bad, but a husband/fiancé seems legit. I would advise you to tell your aabo to calm down, I'm sure this matrimonial excitement is making him gabby enough to tell the world, but it's too soon and rather taboo at the moment. So don't tell em' until the mehr is close upon you. Mum is the word until then and if they ask any questions laugh it off and keep it moving. It's either that or set a date pronto and get the mehr over and done with. The choice is yours. Congrats mon ami. :win:
I just don't use that smiley as good as you :meles:

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SolidCamel wrote:
Sophisticate wrote:No one wants to know about a long-term boyfriend it looks bad, but a husband/fiancé seems legit. I would advise you to tell your aabo to calm down, I'm sure this matrimonial excitement is making him gabby enough to tell the world, but it's too soon and rather taboo at the moment. So don't tell em' until the mehr is close upon you. Mum is the word until then and if they ask any questions laugh it off and keep it moving. It's either that or set a date pronto and get the mehr over and done with. The choice is yours. Congrats mon ami. :win:
I just don't use that smiley as good as you :meles:

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You just have to say something with confidence and drop the emoji, that's how it works.
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Totally agree, she sounds doubtful about the future with the guy regardless if it's in a couple months or years time lol I don't think I have the guts to bring different faraxs to my dad.. Only one shall make it!
How Macaan is your shaax? Does it have Hail? Sanjabiil qurfe ? With caano niido :lawd:
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I find it funny when I hear a Somali/Muslim girl say "I'm engaged" and they usually use that line in Sienna's sort of scenario.

Like no, ama waa lagu qaba (legit meherki ba dhacay) ama laguma qabo. Waxba uma dhaxayso inta.

OP, I'm not going to congratulate you as nothing is offical yet. Better yet, you might even find a better package. :dj:
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In Somali culture, if the man and his family come to see your father, than its semi official. Thats how things worked in the old days.

Congratulations.

Btw, if u answered this before disregard it. But is he Somali or Arab? Just curious.
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I said in a YEAR time not in years time. It does take a while to organise a wedding you know. No one in my family got married fast. Usually a guy would ask for your hand and they will agree on a mehr and the wedding is set for 6 months after they ask for your hand, in my case a year, so basically next summer if all goes according to plan insha'Allah.
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Inaayah wrote:I find it funny when I hear a Somali/Muslim girl say "I'm engaged" and they usually use that line in Sienna's sort of scenario.

Like no, ama waa lagu qaba (legit meherki ba dhacay) ama laguma qabo. Waxba uma dhaxayso inta.

OP, I'm not going to congratulate you as nothing is offical yet. Better yet, you might even find a better package. :dj:
Exactly that's my mentality too. So I find it awkward that my dad is assuming this is it! I'm sold! Lol smh.
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Sophisticate wrote:No one wants to know about a long-term boyfriend it looks bad, but a husband/fiancé seems legit. I would advise you to tell your aabo to calm down, I'm sure this matrimonial excitement is making him gabby enough to tell the world, but it's too soon and rather taboo at the moment. So don't tell em' until the mehr is close upon you. Mum is the word until then and if they ask any questions laugh it off and keep it moving. It's either that or set a date pronto and get the mehr over and done with. The choice is yours. Congrats mon ami. :win:
Lol my dad wuxuba taaganyahay gabarta waa la so dhoontay, niinkana waa siiney, waa ugu duceyney, summerka sosocda waa la guursanaya, hadana arooska aa sii diyarineyna.

And I'm just sitting back thinking what have I done. I think they already sealed the deal for me and here I am thinking don't panick everything is going to slowly get there and trying to convince myself I'm not rushing.
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Re: Awkward situation

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Mabruuk T :)
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Masha allah, tii yarayd ee hawiye waa la isku qarxiyay Lol . How cute! Mabruuk in advance.
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SiennaEarth wrote:
Inaayah wrote:I find it funny when I hear a Somali/Muslim girl say "I'm engaged" and they usually use that line in Sienna's sort of scenario.

Like no, ama waa lagu qaba (legit meherki ba dhacay) ama laguma qabo. Waxba uma dhaxayso inta.

OP, I'm not going to congratulate you as nothing is offical yet. Better yet, you might even find a better package. :dj:
Exactly that's my mentality too. So I find it awkward that my dad is assuming this is it! I'm sold! Lol smh.
Saylada lagu geeyay oo waa lagu iibiyey. Lol
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Marques wrote:Mabruuk T :)
Thank you :clap:

Btw Bandit haven't you got some trannies to perv on. From time you like bxtches with dicks you shouldn't be chatting xaar about me. Know your place. :umad:
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SiennaEarth wrote:
Marques wrote:Mabruuk T :)
Thank you :clap:

Btw Bandit haven't you got some trannies to perv on. From time you like bxtches with dicks you shouldn't be chatting xaar about me. Know your place. :umad:
You can pretend to be a good girl all you want I know you :umad:
I have a feeling I will see you on this site 2 years later being a divorced single mother :umad:
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Don't you have shxt to do like watch E and perv on Caitlyn Jenner. :umad: I feel sorry for your cousin tranniga oo minisota inta so dhameysay aa rabta ina oo tagtid.
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