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Re: Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?

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Ak123 wrote:
Adali wrote:to be honest my experience with Somali girls have always been positive, they are supportive of us lads and even when we don't deserve it they put us on a pedestal. However lately I see our women being taken by ajnabis and it does leave a bad taste, but we must remember Somali guys started and now the girls are doing it more than the guys, too bad they are more desired by ajnabis then we are. They are known as cheap and clean, actively hunted by both niggas and sand niggas, even the cadaan getting a taste of that Horn afrik puntang.
Inshallah we will win our womens hearts back, be gentlemen to them and treat them like your sister.
Speak for yourself, from my experince of being a somali guy & pretty much most somali guys I know it's crazy dead easy getting white,caribbean,asian,eastern asian ,hispanic, eritrean and north african(moroccan,algerian) girls.the one that tend don't like somali guys from my experience are somali girls,nigerian girls and some ghanaian girls(from what little I've encounterd).

I don't understand why but irish girls tend to go ga ga for somali guys, I've met plenty of weird ajanbi girls that go exclusively for somali guys, that tends to be because there previous ex was somali.

But still most somali guys would never take a ajanabi girls serious.
First of all this is not a generalization. From my own experience this is very very true. its sad outside of my moms generation. the girls who grew up in the qurbaha have severe cuqdaad.

i agree its strange how girls from other ethnicities (except for Nigerian,Ghanian girls) love us. Like some have straight fetish for Somali guys.

Yet The somali girls raised in the qurbaha hate our gutts. You can see clear as day when you go to Twitter and facebook. Constantly bashing us.

One Xalimo wrote a whole essay called Somali boys aint shit. :lol: :lol:

Very embarassing especially when ajanabis see this and comes to our defense. :eat:

its not suprising this the most self loathing generation youth in the world.
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Re: Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?

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Who cares? Just live your life. If their parents never cared enough to raise them with dignity and self esteem - then why should you?
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Caruurta dibadaha ku koray oo single mother korisay ayaa sidaad sheegtay u dhaqmo. siiba teenage girls. It ain't nothing but identity crisis brought about by the lack of father figures in their lives, hormonal changes like someone above said among many other things. Most of them grow out of it.
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:lol: I love how a question of why both genders hate each other turned into xaliimo hate.

U preach something long enough and u r bound to start believing it.Self fulfilling prophesies.
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This is true and very weird. I dont understand where the hate comes from tbh
somali girls dont fuck with somali guys AT ALL over here unless ur stunting, its crazy cause let my arab friends speak to her she starts jumping on there ceeb. let a somali guy speak to her its bye brother
somali girls can kick rocks for all i care go. I dont fuk with them in the slightest especially if they are somewhat pretty . no love for them they wasted they chance. let them hit 25 and no Faraax give them second look, used goods expired milk status!
if your in the west leave them somalis alone, dont even bother talking to them or giving them attention
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My good friend married a half white/morrocan i was talking to him about somali girls he told me i you want a somali girl
NEVER tell them ur somali, thats it. his abit older so he has experience. he also said he never been with a somali girl in the west they think his too fresh.

Funny story he told me when he was in uganada he said the first girl he ever smashed was a somali girl by telling her he was ugandan (his dark).

another story my aunt used to chase white guys most her teens, Young adult till she reached late 20's and couldnt find a single somali guy to take alook at her, she had to go back home fetch a freshie who doesnt even know how to use a oven, Funny thing she was pretty as hell, her guy is a qaxooti looking farah. hey he doesnt know her past so its all good.

I see more guys with ajnabi then full somali guy/girl couples in my age group 20-24, and most somali girls my age are single. i wonder why. Faraaxs have moved on they dont fuck with somali girls cause of the attitude towards them. I Salute them


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Ak123 wrote:
Adali wrote:to be honest my experience with Somali girls have always been positive, they are supportive of us lads and even when we don't deserve it they put us on a pedestal. However lately I see our women being taken by ajnabis and it does leave a bad taste, but we must remember Somali guys started and now the girls are doing it more than the guys, too bad they are more desired by ajnabis then we are. They are known as cheap and clean, actively hunted by both niggas and sand niggas, even the cadaan getting a taste of that Horn afrik puntang.
Inshallah we will win our womens hearts back, be gentlemen to them and treat them like your sister.
Speak for yourself, from my experince of being a somali guy & pretty much most somali guys I know it's crazy dead easy getting white,caribbean,asian,eastern asian ,hispanic, eritrean and north african(moroccan,algerian) girls.the one that tend don't like somali guys from my experience are somali girls,nigerian girls and some ghanaian girls(from what little I've encounterd).

I don't understand why but irish girls tend to go ga ga for somali guys, I've met plenty of weird ajanbi girls that go exclusively for somali guys, that tends to be because there previous ex was somali.

But still most somali guys would never take a ajanabi girls serious.
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Somali girls are sweet and very kind, I get nice treatment in Shepherd bush. :up: 8-)

PM me if you need tips on getting a date with a Somali girl.

I agree, all the girls you mentioned are cheap and easy, Eastern Euro girls in particular, Arab and Jareer girls too, and White girls are just sluts !!! :lol:

Our women are more desired because they are clean and good girls, so we gotta keep them to our selves and prevent aids getting into the community. ;)
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TheMightyNomad wrote:
Ak123 wrote:
Adali wrote:to be honest my experience with Somali girls have always been positive, they are supportive of us lads and even when we don't deserve it they put us on a pedestal. However lately I see our women being taken by ajnabis and it does leave a bad taste, but we must remember Somali guys started and now the girls are doing it more than the guys, too bad they are more desired by ajnabis then we are. They are known as cheap and clean, actively hunted by both niggas and sand niggas, even the cadaan getting a taste of that Horn afrik puntang.
Inshallah we will win our womens hearts back, be gentlemen to them and treat them like your sister.
Speak for yourself, from my experince of being a somali guy & pretty much most somali guys I know it's crazy dead easy getting white,caribbean,asian,eastern asian ,hispanic, eritrean and north african(moroccan,algerian) girls.the one that tend don't like somali guys from my experience are somali girls,nigerian girls and some ghanaian girls(from what little I've encounterd).

I don't understand why but irish girls tend to go ga ga for somali guys, I've met plenty of weird ajanbi girls that go exclusively for somali guys, that tends to be because there previous ex was somali.

But still most somali guys would never take a ajanabi girls serious.
First of all this is not a generalization. From my own experience this is very very true. its sad outside of my moms generation. the girls who grew up in the qurbaha have severe cuqdaad.

i agree its strange how girls from other ethnicities (except for Nigerian,Ghanian girls) love us. Like some have straight fetish for Somali guys.

Yet The somali girls raised in the qurbaha hate our gutts. You can see clear as day when you go to Twitter and facebook. Constantly bashing us.

One Xalimo wrote a whole essay called Somali boys aint shit. :lol: :lol:

Very embarassing especially when ajanabis see this and comes to our defense. :eat:

its not suprising this the most self loathing generation youth in the world.
Bro PM me their details, I will track her down, and chat her up I got mad game and I will make her embrace Somalinimo ! but only if she is a hardcore hater ! to me I see them as a challenge, like a lesbian LOL.
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Tuushi wrote::lol: I love how a question of why both genders hate each other turned into xaliimo hate.

U preach something long enough and u r bound to start believing it.Self fulfilling prophesies.
Tell me how this is xalimo hate? i never said anything negative about my sisters i love em.. Im just reporting from my experience that qurba somali girls. The generation that grew up in the west hate somali men from old to young. They just cant stand them for some reason.

You can disagree if you want feel free. We only spoke from our own experience.

i wish nothing else but to see both men and women get along.
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Adali wrote: Bro PM me their details, I will track her down, and chat her up I got mad game and I will make her embrace Somalinimo ! but only if she is a hardcore hater ! to me I see them as a challenge, like a lesbian LOL.
maybe later, just dislike twitter now everyday you find xalimo bashing faraxs left and right on my Timeline.

i know the reason but its getting pretty Silly and Annoying i wish they would just stop.
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Western Somali girls are usually either:

1) Overly religious nutcases.
2) Overly westernized sluts.

Why is there no middle ground? :?
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I think you are being unfair. There are plenty of proud xalimos who are moderate. It's just the airheads are a loud and vocal minority. Thanks to social media they are even louder and more obnoxious than before.
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LiquidHYDROGEN wrote:I think you are being unfair. There are plenty of proud xalimos who are moderate. It's just the airheads are a loud and vocal minority. Thanks to social media they are even louder and more obnoxious than before.
That is very true!
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LiquidHYDROGEN wrote:Who cares? Just live your life. If their parents never cared enough to raise them with dignity and self esteem - then why should you?
That is true, and it goes with both gender. As I always tell teenagers who ask these questions , please understand good men are for good women and good women are for good man. To the question of why some young people have shame in the unfortunate politics situation in Geeska Africa that I is very understanding and there where parents need to explain the truth that those criminals who bomb and kill have nothing to do with somali people who are like everybody else some great others just plain boring average Joes and Janes. Do not give these people any kind of importance yes waxan ka hadlalya kuwa markasta ka shaqeeya naag la gursano iyo rag iyo dumar ajinahah. Unfortunately a small group of hardcore crazy heads of dad xum have destroyed magaci dumar somaliyed but we are already seeing young generation proud of their roots say no to selfhate.
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This is not exclusive to somali's, I've notice moroccan,algerian & (western)malaysian girls hate there own men, I can understand arabs since there men are synonyms with knocking out there wives like it's the final round of street fighter, but at least there aren't so vocal in trashing there men in public, online and any other outlet they can find to non-somali's.

I've notice a lot of the successful somali guys I've seen who earn over £30k marry non-somali's, I have cousins who became doctors & they married white women just like how successful african american do, that makes me feel like they sold out.Hell just look at all the famous somali guys like rageh omaar, mo farah and knaan who went for non-somali after becoming successful.
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