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Re: What is the acceptable age difference?

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For men 10 years

For women 5 years + no - I'm not babysitting out here :whoa:

The 30 -40 year old males is my target audience but finding one with a full head of hair is tough :snoop:
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Aishah wrote:The 30 -40 year old males is my target audience but finding one with a full head of hair is tough :snoop:
Bald men have more testosterone, if that is of any help. :lol:
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Aishah wrote:For men 10 years

For women 5 years + no - I'm not babysitting out here :whoa:

The 30 -40 year old males is my target audience but finding one with a full head of hair is tough :snoop:

:D there is this I know guy 12 years older than me - if I didn't meet my hubby to be - I would marry him without second thought - but he is not typical older guy- he works out- and naturally good looking. I was always attracted to older guys - who wants little kid - wanting you to mother him. Saying that my fiance is only 3 years older than me :oops:
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^^^ also for some reasoning I don't consider 30-40 men old. ... Maybe when they hit 45+ then yes.
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Xeno wrote:
TheMightyNomad wrote:doesnt marrying young ( age 18-25) reduce the risk of pregnancy and labor complications. Highly likely for you to have a healthy baby?
after the age of 35 increases the health risks for the mother and her baby.

but at the same time marrying young in the west has its short comings for instance , jobs,education sustanance etc. For some they may see it as a burden and problematic.

when you have a post feminist society where motherhood is looked down upon and rejected and marriage is seen as akin to slavery.
Where women aspire to be the servants of the state. That would also create an additional complication.
It only reduces the chances of fertilization slightly, but eventually it will happen.

As for the risk of unhealthy babies, it is still insignificant in the greater scheme. It goes up by a miniscule percentage, 99% still get healthy babies over 35 even.
Not according to WebMD.
Your ovaries have a life span. Making a baby requires a healthy egg, but eggs become more scarce as you age. You're born with about a million eggs, but most of them never mature. By the time you reach puberty, you're down to half your original supply, and the number continues to fall each year. And not every egg that survives can make a baby. Even in your prime, about half of all eggs have chromosomal abnormalities, and the proportion of eggs with genetic problems increases as you age, explains Dr. David Adamson, president of the American Society for Reproductive Medicine. Eventually, you simply run out of viable eggs. "As of today, we have no way of changing that," he says. "It's the natural course of human life."

Fertility peaks in your 20s. Most women hit their fertile peak between the ages of 23 and 31, though the rate at which women conceive begins to dip slightly in their late 20s. Around age 31, fertility starts to drop more quickly — by about 3 percent per year — until you hit 35 or so. From there, the decline accelerates. "The average 39-year-old woman has half the fertility she had at 31, and between 39 and 42, the chances of conceiving drop by half again," says Adamson. Approximately one in four women age 35 or older have trouble getting pregnant.

http://www.m.webmd.com/baby/features/fertility-101
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Theguardian wrote:
Aishah wrote:For men 10 years

For women 5 years + no - I'm not babysitting out here :whoa:

The 30 -40 year old males is my target audience but finding one with a full head of hair is tough :snoop:

:D there is this I know guy 12 years older than me - if I didn't meet my hubby to be - I would marry him without second thought - but he is not typical older guy- he works out- and naturally good looking. I was always attracted to older guys - who wants little kid - wanting you to mother him. Saying that my fiance is only 3 years older than me :oops:
Do we know the same person :lupe:
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Aishah wrote:For men 10 years

For women 5 years + no - I'm not babysitting out here :whoa:

The 30 -40 year old males is my target audience but finding one with a full head of hair is tough :snoop:
I amnt even 30 yet :meles:
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Theguardian wrote:
Aishah wrote:For men 10 years

For women 5 years + no - I'm not babysitting out here :whoa:

The 30 -40 year old males is my target audience but finding one with a full head of hair is tough :snoop:

:D there is this I know guy 12 years older than me - if I didn't meet my hubby to be - I would marry him without second thought - but he is not typical older guy- he works out- and naturally good looking. I was always attracted to older guys - who wants little kid - wanting you to mother him. Saying that my fiance is only 3 years older than me :oops:
Seems like ur more into that guy than ur fiance lol.
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I am not a relationship person (I prefer solitude) so I don't know if marriage is in the cards for me, it's in God's hands. If were talking hypothetical scenarios I have a 5 year cut off (older). There is probably very little a younger man could do for me. The reason I avoided early marriage is to not plunge into unnecessary hardship i.e. poverty or dependence.
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:D there is this I know guy 12 years older than me - if I didn't meet my hubby to be - I would marry him without second thought - but he is not typical older guy- he works out- and naturally good looking. I was always attracted to older guys - who wants little kid - wanting you to mother him. Saying that my fiance is only 3 years older than me :oops:

Lol I don't think you are into him more than you are to your fiancé but, I think you are just lusting after that older guy :) I like a girl who is quite lecherous and runs away with her ideas.
I once knew this older girl, she told me she would let me do her on her wedding night while she was wearing her white taaj. I have never been the same eve since!
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AGENT447 wrote:
I once knew this older girl, she told me she would let me do her on her wedding night while she was wearing her white taaj. I have never been the same eve since!
Ku dhaaro sxb. The funny thing I won't even be even be surprised at all if true.
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Jugjugwacwac wrote:
AGENT447 wrote:
I once knew this older girl, she told me she would let me do her on her wedding night while she was wearing her white taaj. I have never been the same eve since!
Ku dhaaro sxb. The funny thing I won't even be even be surprised at all if true.
Ilaah igu ogyahay sxb :D
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AGENT447 wrote:
Jugjugwacwac wrote:
AGENT447 wrote:
I once knew this older girl, she told me she would let me do her on her wedding night while she was wearing her white taaj. I have never been the same eve since!
Ku dhaaro sxb. The funny thing I won't even be even be surprised at all if true.
Ilaah igu ogyahay sxb :D
Looooool.Waar dumarku waa caynkaas ninyahow. Men are divided into two groups for them. One group for sex and one group for provisioning (marriage). They'd love to marry the first group, which is the group they find hot, but those type of men don't commit easily. That's why women have sex with these badboys/hot guys throughout their teens and twenties and then settle with the miskeen guy with money, who they see as nothing more than an atm, when they're in their late twenties/early thirties. They have a dualistic sexual-mating strategy. It's just culture (social shame) and religion that restrains them from following their reptilian hind-brains. But now with the death of both culture and religion in the West, the fetters of social control have been cast off and the age of female empowerment has been ushered in. That's why the whore propositioning you on her wedding day didn't surprise me in the least. Women haven't changed, but the times have. It's a scary world out there sxb.
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Jugjugwacwac wrote:
Looooool.Waar dumarku waa caynkaas ninyahow. Men are divided into two groups for them. One group for sex and one group for provisioning (marriage). They'd love to marry the first group, which is the group they find hot, but those type of men don't commit easily. That's why women have sex with these badboys/hot guys throughout their teens and twenties and then settle with the miskeen guy with money, who they see as nothing more than an atm, when they're in their late twenties/early thirties. They have a dualistic sexual-mating strategy. It's just culture (social shame) and religion that restrains them from following their reptilian hind-brains. But now with the death of both culture and religion in the West, the fetters of social control have been cast off and the age of female empowerment has been ushered in. That's why the whore propositioning you on her wedding day didn't surprise me in the least. Women haven't changed, but the times have. It's a scary world out there sxb.
Looooool say no more Abti, that was an insightful and wicked take on the whole thing. :pac:
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Get yourself a young one if possible lads, if you're 25 aim for the 19-23 bracket
Sophisticate wrote:I am not a relationship person (I prefer solitude) so I don't know if marriage is in the cards for me, it's in God's hands. If were talking hypothetical scenarios I have a 5 year cut off (older). There is probably very little a younger man could do for me. The reason I avoided early marriage is to not plunge into unnecessary hardship i.e. poverty or dependence.
:dwill: Nonsense get yourself a good brother love
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