Alxamdulillaah I am single at 40 and Childless

[Inaayah]

Good for you, been content is almost impossible endeavor. Somalis are still primitive when it comes to marriage, they are still driven by the animalistic instinct to breed and increase the herd. There is a huge lack of independent mature Somali marriage type females, either they are single mothers in their 20s with a brood of children or single and childish at heart living with mom and dad past age 30 or a dhoocil who act like a hood rat. I rarely seen a Somali single women with a job and apartment who is looking for a man, all of them are living with families like babies.

Don't worry about what Somali females be doing with noloshooda.

Just go find yourself a Ayan Hirsi and fuck off you ignoramus.

[X.Playa]

Ayan xirsi is a rare gem among Somali women, an author, a politician, a good career , independency and no fatherless children.

[mahoka]

LooooooooooL looks like X.Playa touched a nerve with Inaayah

[SahanGalbeed]

Honestly I would not say al xamdulilah . Although not having the responsibility , because it is truly a great responsibility to have children ,is somehow liberating , getting married and having kids is one of the greatest duty of mankind . I personally am not shamed to say that I have so far failed in that aspect

You have to have a plan for everything , so I'm thinking I am gonna freeze my sperm , put a nice picture of me , decline my lineage and nationality next to it . You know maybe in the future , some people will "shop" for such thing

[Sumubaridi]

Honestly I would not say al xamdulilah . Although not having the responsibility , because it is truly a great responsibility to have children ,is somehow liberating , getting married and having kids is one of the greatest duty of mankind . I personally am not shamed to say that I have so far failed in that aspect

Sahan,

Lets say you have children, they all turn out to be gansters and start using drugs and drinking. You become so depressed with them and even fail to pray salah. All that is Shar that you do not have it now. Allah knows what is in your best interest. If allah did not give you a wife and children, allah knows why. You use that time and energy that you would have spent on them on something more useful in life. For example, You can learn islam, you can help others, you can go to hajj, you can work and save. Marka what is important is, are you happy today in your life. Forget about tomorrow. Allah knows if you will reach tomorrow. If you are happy today and now, that is what is important. Alxamdulillaah I am so happy now. I am not so busy at work, Salah jumca is coming, I have about $1500 in my account, my car is working and alxamdulillaah my family back home is doing good. And I am very healthy today. That is all I have to be thankful to allah.

[Adali]

Dude are you still waking at 40?

[SahanGalbeed]

Sumubariidi , what region of Somalia do you come from ? In my region we have the old somalis . When you hit the 40s , if you're not still married they start to really become concerned about you . War ayaa habaarey ninka , aar tolow sidani maxay ku dhacday , bliblibli...blablabla. So then at that point , the guy who because of his "irresponsible " conduct /posture couldn't get a wife in his 20 and 30's will get one by pity in his 40 or 50's .May Allah swt on this day of the Lord bless my people ! Stay hopeful brother , what is written is written

[Sumubaridi]

Sumubariidi , what region of Somalia do you come from ? In my region we have the old somalis . When you hit the 40s , if you're not still married they start to really become concerned about you . War ayaa habaarey ninka , aar tolow sidani maxay ku dhacday , bliblibli...blablabla. So then at that point , the guy who because of his "irresponsible " conduct /posture couldn't get a wife in his 20 and 30's will get one by pity in his 40 or 50's .May Allah swt on this day of the Lord bless my people ! Stay hopeful brother , what is written is written

Sxb the most unhappiest people in the world are those who wake up in the morning thinking about how to please people and how to make others like him. If you only think about how you can please allah and make him happy, words from Aadane futo kuxaaraha ah will mean nothing to you. Anytime he says something about you, Just imaging him sitting in the Musqusha with some stinky and smelly Xaar coming from his futo. Instead of worrying about what he said, you should worry about whether he really cleaned his hands properly after Xaar. Also, think about dhuuso coming from his futo which is so smelly. Marka nin weyn oo xaar qurmoon ka imaado dhuuso qurmoona katimaado asagaa ubaahan in wax loosheego

[gegiroor]

Alhamdulillaah, I am happy, healthy, married, and have children. The only thing that worries me is hereafter. I pray to Allah that he guides me to the right path and that he takes me to Janatul Fardowsa. I pray to Allah that he alleviates the suffering of Muslims.


Amen

[Togdeer]

waryaadeheen gormay goblanimadu fashion noqotay?

[Sumubaridi]

Alhamdulillaah, I am happy, healthy, married, and have children. The only thing that worries me is hereafter. I pray to Allah that he guides me to the right path and that he takes me to Janatul Fardowsa. I pray to Allah that he alleviates the suffering of Muslims.


Amen

You forgot one thing. May allah makes the children good muslims who will pray for you when you die and may allah not make them fitnah for you. Amiin.

[gegiroor]

Alhamdulillaah, I am happy, healthy, married, and have children. The only thing that worries me is hereafter. I pray to Allah that he guides me to the right path and that he takes me to Janatul Fardowsa. I pray to Allah that he alleviates the suffering of Muslims.


Amen

You forgot one thing. May allah makes the children good muslims who will pray for you when you die and may allah not make them fitnah for you. Amiin.

Amen.

Thanks Sumu.

[Sumubaridi]

waryaadeheen gormay goblanimadu fashion noqotay?

Saa yaa Gablan ah marka? Ilaa uu qofku kadhimanaayo Gablan maaha. Waxaa macquul ah in uu cunug kudhalo 85 jir markuu dhiman rabo lama maalmood kahor

[Timiro1999]

Maasha Allah, hadii aad ku shukriyeysid wixii illaahay ku siiyey.
Waxa jira dad badan oo wax kasta haysta hadana aan ku shukriyin nimcada illaahay swt siiyey.
Nebi Maxamed scw wuxuu yidhi "markuu qof guursado, diintiisa kala badh buu fuliyey"
Guurka waa in laysku dhiiri geliyaa oo dadka muslimka ahi rag iyo dumar ba inay guursadan ku dadaalan
Caruurna hadii illaahay ku siiyo waa hadiyada ugu qaalisan ee aduunka.
Dad baa waxa jirey markay is guursado aan waxba haysan lkn illaahay isku risiqaa oo caruur iyo xoolo siiyaa.
Waxkastaana waa qoraal illahay lkn adigaa dedaal lagaa rabaa.
Lacag ka fikirku waa camalka gaalada, muslinku waxay aaminsan yihiin in illaahay risiqo oo qof walba arsaaqdisu qoran tahay.
Caruurta xaga xun haka eegine armuu illaahay swt caruur wanaagsan ku siiyaa oo ku adeecda oo quraan kuu soo akhriya markaad dhimatid.
Ha dhegaysan kuwa aduunyada laga raacay ee Ayaan Xirsi u qushuucsan subxaanaka yaa cadiim.

[Hyperactive]

everything from God is khair. you are very greatful human. mashallah. do whatever pleases you. you do not have to answer to no one except God.

ps; what happened with the woman you wanted to marry? blanti ma ka ba7day?