The sweetest life is wadaad life

[HooBariiska]

So true but I can't bring myself to pray.

How do you know it's true hadaa
And what's stopping you praying

Cos I used to pray on and off and it felt good. Used to wear a headscarf as well. Now the headscarf has come off, haven't prayed for a long time and started smoking. Don't kno what's stopping me. Shaitan? I'm going through a faith crisis. Pray for me.

interesting, what sortta stuff do you smoke?

my kinnda stuff or bit heavier?

[Susu000]

So true but I can't bring myself to pray.

I will give you a tip. Start with combining them into 2s. You pray duhur and asar at the same time then maqrib and isha at the same time. Then pray fajar when you wake up in the morning. Waa very easy. If you don't have time in duhur, push it back and pray with asar. If you don't have time for maqrib , push it back till isha and do at the same time. Do that till you nail it down and you can split them. It's Hadith sahih in bukhari to compine salah. I will add you in my prayers. Let me know when you start bro.

Saaxiib that's when you are a musaafir (travelling) you can't do that just because it's more convenient.

[Susu000]

So true but I can't bring myself to pray.

I will give you a tip. Start with combining them into 2s. You pray duhur and asar at the same time then maqrib and isha at the same time. Then pray fajar when you wake up in the morning. Waa very easy. If you don't have time in duhur, push it back and pray with asar. If you don't have time for maqrib , push it back till isha and do at the same time. Do that till you nail it down and you can split them. It's Hadith sahih in bukhari to compine salah. I will add you in my prayers. Let me know when you start bro.

You can combine them?!?!? Post the hadith please. Can you do that forever? I used to struggle with praying all of them and on time because of work etc.

And i'm a woman.

Sis, Sumu is right about that, you can combine salads and pray them dhuhur and sar together and Maghreb and isha together but that's is ONLY if you are travelling.

[InaSamaale]

@Sumu, walaal are you Shicah when you're combining your salahs? I've only seen them do that as a norm. Essentially, they only pray 3 times.

[Hyperactive]

@Sumu, walaal are you Shicah when you're combining your salahs? I've only seen them do that as a norm. Essentially, they only pray 3 times.

that hadeeth from ibn 3abaas, use shia to permit companing salats, though most shia prefer to pray seperately, when ever they can.

Also, we do not follow that hadeeth cause, we believe as ibn 3abas himself said in explanining when asked,"he didnt want put burden on muslims. so we believe only when there is excuses, that makes hard to keep it on time. so we only permit if there is excuse.

[Hyperactive]

ps; to make it clear, ibn 3abad didnt explain what was his excuse but the same guy narrowed said; he had meeting with new converted muslims.

[Django]

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[InaSamaale]

@Sumu, walaal are you Shicah when you're combining your salahs? I've only seen them do that as a norm. Essentially, they only pray 3 times.

that hadeeth from ibn 3abaas, use shia to permit companing salats, though most shia prefer to pray seperately, when ever they can.

Also, we do not follow that hadeeth cause, we believe as ibn 3abas himself said in explanining when asked,"he didnt want put burden on muslims. so we believe only when there is excuses, that makes hard to keep it on time. so we only permit if there is excuse.

I understand were allowed the concession in times of difficulty. The Shia I went to uni with all prayed 3 times - combining salahs. But maybe they saw praying at uni as difficult?

[ihatewritingessays]

I know personally a woman who wore niqaab for Allahs sake & she can't really find work to support herself. She's a co-wife "because polygamy is "our Prophet's way" & so she's miserable in marriage.
I've seen a lot of wadaad people who are unhappy in life.
Conversely, I've seen a lot of party people who are also unhappy in life. Lol both camps try to give each other the illusion that their life is better more fulfilled and etc.
I'm 21 and still trying to find out what it means to have fulfilment in life, & I know for sure Salah is a part of it, but not necessarily becoming ultra-religious.

[AnigaiyoAdiga]

I know personally a woman who wore niqaab for Allahs sake & she can't really find work to support herself. She's a co-wife "because polygamy is "our Prophet's way" & so she's miserable in marriage.
I've seen a lot of wadaad people who are unhappy in life.
Conversely, I've seen a lot of party people who are also unhappy in life. Lol both camps try to give each other the illusion that their life is better more fulfilled and etc.
I'm 21 and still trying to find out what it means to have fulfilment in life, & I know for sure Salah is a part of it, but not necessarily becoming ultra-religious.

Hear hear about the ultra religious thing. I think the middle path is the best.

Regarding polygamous marriage, I don't know how any woman can be happy in one. It's baffling to me laakin it's halal so I won't badmouth it.

[Sumubaridi]

@Sumu, walaal are you Shicah when you're combining your salahs? I've only seen them do that as a norm. Essentially, they only pray 3 times.

that hadeeth from ibn 3abaas, use shia to permit companing salats, though most shia prefer to pray seperately, when ever they can.

Also, we do not follow that hadeeth cause, we believe as ibn 3abas himself said in explanining when asked,"he didnt want put burden on muslims. so we believe only when there is excuses, that makes hard to keep it on time. so we only permit if there is excuse.

Hyper,

The hadith is meant to make salah easy for those who it would be difficult to perform it. This girl has that problem already because she does not pray. I think its permissible in her situation through this hadeeth because its so difficult for her to pray to the extent that, she has only 2 options. to combine the salah or Miss the salah? in the Asharu tharareyn fiqh, would she rather miss the salah or combine them. In her situation its better option for her is to combine it.

In another Scenario. If she combines it, atleast she has prayed 3 salah at their right time. As her imaan grows and she gets halawatul imaan, she will separate them. In now her weak imaan and shaytaan taking over her, she should combine them if that would make her closer to allah atleast sometime of the day. 3 salah is better than not praying. Marka let her take the combining option hada.

[Sumubaridi]

I know personally a woman who wore niqaab for Allahs sake & she can't really find work to support herself. She's a co-wife "because polygamy is "our Prophet's way" & so she's miserable in marriage.
I've seen a lot of wadaad people who are unhappy in life.
Conversely, I've seen a lot of party people who are also unhappy in life. Lol both camps try to give each other the illusion that their life is better more fulfilled and etc.
I'm 21 and still trying to find out what it means to have fulfilment in life, & I know for sure Salah is a part of it, but not necessarily becoming ultra-religious.

Hear hear about the ultra religious thing. I think the middle path is the best.

Regarding polygamous marriage, I don't know how any woman can be happy in one. It's baffling to me laakin it's halal so I won't badmouth it.

Anigaiyoadigan,

You can start combining the salah today. Remember you are not shortening it. You are praying the 2 salah at the same time. For example, You can pray Duhr and Asar together. You can either push the Duhr later and pray with Assar or bring the Assar forward and pray with Duhur. Do the same to Maqrib and Isha. Fajar is its own so you have to pray in the morning when you wake up.

Remember..... This is not lifetime. Just for the time being while you are trying to get stronger in your imaan and getting your work schedule together. Can you start today? Just incase you die later today or sometime tonight, atleast there is a hope for you in Jannah. If you are at home now and you have clean clothes, you can just take shower and wear them then katuur salaada. Let me know if you started.

[Hyperactive]

sumu, i do not make interp. but she knows her situation better than i am. so she can make that decition for her self.

salaat isnt hard if there is the will and iman there. i remember people who make salatul lail very hard make all the excuses "i work and go school, i only sleep couple hours...bla bla" once they put in their mind could do it easily.

remember, qofki Allah ka baqa, Allah will make way easy for them.

as science say; if you commit something 21 days, that is habit. you only need 21 days to loose bad habbit or gain good habbit.

[AnigaiyoAdiga]

I know personally a woman who wore niqaab for Allahs sake & she can't really find work to support herself. She's a co-wife "because polygamy is "our Prophet's way" & so she's miserable in marriage.
I've seen a lot of wadaad people who are unhappy in life.
Conversely, I've seen a lot of party people who are also unhappy in life. Lol both camps try to give each other the illusion that their life is better more fulfilled and etc.
I'm 21 and still trying to find out what it means to have fulfilment in life, & I know for sure Salah is a part of it, but not necessarily becoming ultra-religious.

Hear hear about the ultra religious thing. I think the middle path is the best.

Regarding polygamous marriage, I don't know how any woman can be happy in one. It's baffling to me laakin it's halal so I won't badmouth it.

Anigaiyoadigan,

You can start combining the salah today. Remember you are not shortening it. You are praying the 2 salah at the same time. For example, You can pray Duhr and Asar together. You can either push the Duhr later and pray with Assar or bring the Assar forward and pray with Duhur. Do the same to Maqrib and Isha. Fajar is its own so you have to pray in the morning when you wake up.

Remember..... This is not lifetime. Just for the time being while you are trying to get stronger in your imaan and getting your work schedule together. Can you start today? Just incase you die later today or sometime tonight, atleast there is a hope for you in Jannah. If you are at home now and you have clean clothes, you can just take shower and wear them then katuur salaada. Let me know if you started.

But everyones saying you're wrong.

Besides, i'm menstruating anyway so I can't.