Marrying from another qabiil.

[Gaashaanle1000]

All Somalis are the same qabiil, it is a shame that people on here do not realise this.

[Inaayah]

Thousands of people from the same deegan ba is guursaday, maanta na kala tagay. It means abosolutely nothing. Dadnimada wax walba ka qaalisan.

[BVSNet]

There are certain viewpoints that I can't stomach and in a lot of cases they are tied to qabiil so yes, I have a preference as a result

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

Let's just say that it was qadr that I married from my sub sub sub clan

of course it was qadr but you hoped so too

I will be honest here. I have always believed in no.2 as long as he is not 0.5.

i like ur honesty

Someone coming from the same clan or the same region as you won't save your marriage.
Hadu maanta nin tolka/from the same region i guursado ama mid 'shisheeya' i guursado and dhibaata dhexdeena timaada, may umadoo dhan isku imaadan and try inay na kala maslaxaan, hadu calafku dhamaaday, ama is nacnay cid aana Ilaahey ahayn ma badeli karaan.

isnt about saving the marriage sis, lets say, mid xamarawi ah ayaad guursatay hadii uu calafkiina kala dhamaado, isagu waxa uu raba in uu caruurta xamar gaysto adna hargeisa ayad rabtaa? ma ragta? xitaa hadii aydan kala tagin waxa laga yaaba inoo rabo inoo wadankii aad ku noqotaan dabcan xamar ayuu doorbidi doonaa adigu hargeisa, waa caqabadaha kuwaan ka hadlaayo.

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

There are certain viewpoints that I can't stomach and in a lot of cases they are tied to qabiil so yes, I have a preference as a result

like what? are you saying you wouldnt consider another xamarawi if he isnt hawiye?

[Vivacious]

There are certain viewpoints that I can't stomach and in a lot of cases they are tied to qabiil so yes, I have a preference as a result

like what? are you saying you wouldnt consider another xamarawi if he isnt hawiye?

The issue is not if he is xamarawi. Most of us are concerned about jareer iyo jileec nasab iyo boon. And this issue has driven lovers apart for so many years. It's just a somali thing

[Inaayah]

Cigaal- It's our dhaqan inay gabadhu degto ninka deegaankiisa (hadaanay wax kale ku heshiinin) so if I marry a man who his deegan is Xamar then I better be ready to live there aakhirka unless we both agree on otherwise.

Everything is about is fahanka. If you have that then everything else is workable. Waad heshiin doontaan.

And if worst comes to worst and a divorce takes place, then he can call his people and I'll call my people and we'll sit down and discuss it like grown folks.

[JSL3000]

Qabiil doesn't matter but I prefer someone from somaliland I could relate too.

[BVSNet]

There are certain viewpoints that I can't stomach and in a lot of cases they are tied to qabiil so yes, I have a preference as a result

like what? are you saying you wouldnt consider another xamarawi if he isnt hawiye?

Like believing he's from Arabia then no I wouldn't go there

[Tuushi]

Hardcore.

[KyrieJama]

As long as she is bow legged and wears her hair in a twist I'm good

[DucaaleBoqor]

Somaliland woman from my own Isaaq tribe or Warsengali...

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[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

There are certain viewpoints that I can't stomach and in a lot of cases they are tied to qabiil so yes, I have a preference as a result

like what? are you saying you wouldnt consider another xamarawi if he isnt hawiye?

The issue is not if he is xamarawi. Most of us are concerned about jareer iyo jileec nasab iyo boon. And this issue has driven lovers apart for so many years. It's just a somali thing

i understand that, but would you be ok if he isnt .5 and is from xamar? lets say he is mareexan who lived in xamar for all his life?

[kulmiye21]

Somaliland woman from my own Isaaq tribe or Warsengali...

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abgall warsengeli coz that looks like my sister

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

Cigaal- It's our dhaqan inay gabadhu degto ninka deegaankiisa (hadaanay wax kale ku heshiinin) so if I marry a man who his deegan is Xamar then I better be ready to live there aakhirka unless we both agree on otherwise.

Everything is about is fahanka. If you have that then everything else is workable. Waad heshiin doontaan.

And if worst comes to worst and a divorce takes place, then he can call his people and I'll call my people and we'll sit down and discuss it like grown folks.

then what happens if there's no agreement?

BV banu hashim