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Re: Is 18 too young to get married

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lifeisbloodyhard wrote:^ I know you should get married as early as possible but it's a bad idea to just do it for sex and disregard everything else? What about mental health issues? In and out of prison? Balwad? And all the other fucked up shit. A ciyaal won't understand the seriousness of marriage and they'll demand a divorce after the first argument. Broken families and single parent households are not something they should be running to. Masterbation is the answer if he wants to get married solely cos of kacsi.

I'm 24 and i'm a lot more mature than I was when I was 18. I've had a lot more life lessons. 20's is the time to get married - preferably >23 yrs.

I get what you're saying sis. I'm sure me at 18 wouldn't make a good wife & a was clueless about the whole thing. However, maybe the answer shouldn't be masturbation but empowering young boys and girls to be able to have marriage as a viable option.
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InaSamaale wrote:
lifeisbloodyhard wrote:^ I know you should get married as early as possible but it's a bad idea to just do it for sex and disregard everything else? What about mental health issues? In and out of prison? Balwad? And all the other fucked up shit. A ciyaal won't understand the seriousness of marriage and they'll demand a divorce after the first argument. Broken families and single parent households are not something they should be running to. Masterbation is the answer if he wants to get married solely cos of kacsi.

I'm 24 and i'm a lot more mature than I was when I was 18. I've had a lot more life lessons. 20's is the time to get married - preferably >23 yrs.

I get what you're saying sis. I'm sure me at 18 wouldn't make a good wife & a was clueless about the whole thing. However, maybe the answer shouldn't be masturbation but empowering young boys and girls to be able to have marriage as a viable option.
Yes but what are they gonna do while they wait? If I have kids in this country, I think i'd present masturbation as an option. I'd def have 'the talk' with them. Let's be real, when young people wanna get married , i'm talking 16-18, it's because of their sexual urges.
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Re: Is 18 too young to get married

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If you are in Africa its ok..since they have nothing do anyway.
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No it is not too young for either gender.

It depends on your upbringing and how mature you are for a western person (which is where I am assuming you live). 18 is considered a responsible adult in most countries, especially back home in Somalia. In fact people would laugh at you if you were to say that an 18 year old is a child. In western countries, people are kept immature and brainwashed, hooked on trivial things and churned out by an education system with a sinister agenda.
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way too young imo. sort your self out first career wise then do what ever you want afterwards.
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Re: Is 18 too young to get married

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Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE wrote:If you are in Africa its ok..since they have nothing do anyway.
.... except bang bang bang! :lol:
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Re: Is 18 too young to get married

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18 is too young to be getting married. How about you finish school, get a Job and some real world experience and then see if u are ready for marriage.

Don't rush into it. You don't live in a 3rd world country anymore. U live in the west.
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Maandhaya wrote:An 18 yr old born and raised in the West, ready for marriage? LOLLOLLOL!
Hahaha lol indeed :lol:
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GAMES wrote:18 is too young to be getting married. How about you finish school, get a Job and some real world experience and then see if u are ready for marriage.

Don't rush into it. You don't live in a 3rd world country anymore. U live in the west.
A fancy word for "To phuck around" ? :usure:
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AirBitaale wrote:
GAMES wrote:18 is too young to be getting married. How about you finish school, get a Job and some real world experience and then see if u are ready for marriage.

Don't rush into it. You don't live in a 3rd world country anymore. U live in the west.
A fancy word for "To phuck around" ? :usure:
:lol: :lol:
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Re: Is 18 too young to get married

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:lol: :lol:


Waan saxanahay soo maaha?
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Re: Is 18 too young to get married

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AirBitaale wrote::lol: :lol:


Waan saxanahay soo maaha?
Haa. Very much so!
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15 to 18 is the best the younger the tighter the seal, perfect time to elope and crack open that cantaloupe. :up:
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GubanOgoHawdJSL wrote:15 to 18 is the best the younger the tighter the seal, perfect time to elope and crack open that cantaloupe. :up:
The seal? Are you talking about what I think you're talking about? :shock:
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Re: Is 18 too young to get married

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lifeisbloodyhard wrote:
AirBitaale wrote::lol: :lol:


Waan saxanahay soo maaha?
Haa. Very much so!
Thanks.
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