Educated Somali men going overseas to marry

[AbdiWahab252]

So accordding to Marax and thedepressedone, these educated fellas don't have game when it comes to pulling Somali women?

It just comes down to the fact that you have to climb a mount Killomanjaro for some of them and quite frankly it is tiredsome, so faarax ventures to elsewhere.

If you want to have a successful relationship with a Somali woman you have to be the Alpha from the start. You must dominate and take charge. Like a wild horse you need to break her in using treats and lashes. But these young Farah's of your generation want to be nice and considerate which only confuses this beast of burden who is used to being dominated by all the male figures in her life from her daddy to her brothers.

[Asharite]

I've seen many women say things like: "I need a real man to handle me." Or "Only a real man can take care of me."

I often ask the question: Are women wild animals that need to be tamed? Are they like a biological germ warfare chemical experiment that needs to be 'handled with care or risk life threatening injuries/conditions'?

Somali women in their quest to African Americanize themselves have utilised ebonics in the most ugly way. I tell them, uplift yourselves, if you want honour and prestige, look upto whites and compete with the best, rather than the failures of society. Everyone in this world wants to compete with the whites except Zoomalians. They want to compete with Blacks in the lowest and most menial endeavours. WTH is there to compete with? A wild hyena could come to America tomorrow and surpass African Americans in a day. If the women continue on this path they will be the least desirable women in the world after black Americans.

[FarhanYare]

So accordding to Marax and thedepressedone, these educated fellas don't have game when it comes to pulling Somali women?

It just comes down to the fact that you have to climb a mount Killomanjaro for some of them and quite frankly it is tiredsome, so faarax ventures to elsewhere.

If you want to have a successful relationship with a Somali woman you have to be the Alpha from the start. You must dominate and take charge. Like a wild horse you need to break her in using treats and lashes. But these young Farah's of your generation want to be nice and considerate which only confuses this beast of burden who is used to being dominated by all the male figures in her life from her daddy to her brothers.

I will take your advice of being aggressive/abusive and see if it improves my prospects of settling down before late twenties hit. I will keep you posted on how that went.

[AbdiWahab252]

Farhan adeer I don't literally mean to Karabash her but to be strong and tough

[Saar]

So accordding to Marax and thedepressedone, these educated fellas don't have game when it comes to pulling Somali women?

It just comes down to the fact that you have to climb a mount Killomanjaro for some of them and quite frankly it is tiredsome, so faarax ventures to elsewhere.

If you want to have a successful relationship with a Somali woman you have to be the Alpha from the start. You must dominate and take charge. Like a wild horse you need to break her in using treats and lashes. But these young Farah's of your generation want to be nice and considerate which only confuses this beast of burden who is used to being dominated by all the male figures in her life from her daddy to her brothers.

you sound like a chronically single farax in the twilight of his years

Truth is all women want a man and are willing to compromise who they are for that man. No need for karbassh or buck breaking.

Look at somali men..not aphas and they can marry up to 4 desperate halimos that they couldn't suppport if they wanted. Dont be fooled by empty feminist rhetoric by teenage halimos..you betas are basically worshiped by them.

[Saar]

I've seen many women say things like: "I need a real man to handle me." Or "Only a real man can take care of me."

I often ask the question: Are women wild animals that need to be tamed? Are they like a biological germ warfare chemical experiment that needs to be 'handled with care or risk life threatening injuries/conditions'?

Somali women in their quest to African Americanize themselves have utilised ebonics in the most ugly way. I tell them, uplift yourselves, if you want honour and prestige, look upto whites and compete with the best, rather than the failures of society. Everyone in this world wants to compete with the whites except Zoomalians. They want to compete with Blacks in the lowest and most menial endeavours. WTH is there to compete with? A wild hyena could come to America tomorrow and surpass African Americans in a day. If the women continue on this path they will be the least desirable women in the world after black Americans.

you a sound like an ugly daaqan ceelis who recently learned his culture,...with a severe inferiority complex. Just because all you wanna do is juggle the balls of whites doesnt mean we are being african americanised

somali women are more educated than somali men in the west and have access to a lot more opportunities than most of you farax. Keep hating tho. Half of you are in jail and the rest of you are aspiring terrorists with dirty beards...the 2 remaining decent faraxs are cocky. This is has been the case for decades, Shut up loser.

[OmarMahamoud]

I've seen many women say things like: "I need a real man to handle me." Or "Only a real man can take care of me."

I often ask the question: Are women wild animals that need to be tamed? Are they like a biological germ warfare chemical experiment that needs to be 'handled with care or risk life threatening injuries/conditions'?

Somali women in their quest to African Americanize themselves have utilised ebonics in the most ugly way. I tell them, uplift yourselves, if you want honour and prestige, look upto whites and compete with the best, rather than the failures of society. Everyone in this world wants to compete with the whites except Zoomalians. They want to compete with Blacks in the lowest and most menial endeavours. WTH is there to compete with? A wild hyena could come to America tomorrow and surpass African Americans in a day. If the women continue on this path they will be the least desirable women in the world after black Americans.

you a sound like an ugly daaqan ceelis who recently learned his culture,...with a severe inferiority complex. Just because all you wanna do is juggle the balls of whites doesnt mean we are being african americanised

somali women are more educated than somali men in the west and have access to a lot more opportunities than most of you farax. Keep hating tho. Half of you are in jail and the rest of you are aspiring terrorists with dirty beards...the 2 remaining decent faraxs are cocky. This is has been the case for decades, Shut up loser.

[Saar]

I've seen many women say things like: "I need a real man to handle me." Or "Only a real man can take care of me."

I often ask the question: Are women wild animals that need to be tamed? Are they like a biological germ warfare chemical experiment that needs to be 'handled with care or risk life threatening injuries/conditions'?

Somali women in their quest to African Americanize themselves have utilised ebonics in the most ugly way. I tell them, uplift yourselves, if you want honour and prestige, look upto whites and compete with the best, rather than the failures of society. Everyone in this world wants to compete with the whites except Zoomalians. They want to compete with Blacks in the lowest and most menial endeavours. WTH is there to compete with? A wild hyena could come to America tomorrow and surpass African Americans in a day. If the women continue on this path they will be the least desirable women in the world after black Americans.

you a sound like an ugly daaqan ceelis who recently learned his culture,...with a severe inferiority complex. Just because all you wanna do is juggle the balls of whites doesnt mean we are being african americanised

somali women are more educated than somali men in the west and have access to a lot more opportunities than most of you farax. Keep hating tho. Half of you are in jail and the rest of you are aspiring terrorists with dirty beards...the 2 remaining decent faraxs are cocky. This is has been the case for decades, Shut up loser.

[gurey25]

i know a lot of well off and highly educated Faraxs. The marriage challenge is that the Xalimo's are confused about their role. They want to be Western (sharing chores and family duties) or Traditional when it suits them (paying bills- it's a Faraxs job though she earns the same or more than him, wants the dahab set, large meher, expensive aroos). Its a parasitic relationship with no major upside. I'd rather go Ajnabi with Amber who is western but not Asha who has a schizophrenic cultural identity.


Murax have you gone to those Muslim singles events?

apti have you tied the knot yet...
im glad i got out of the game...
alxamdulilah

[AbdiWahab252]

Gurey abti I have tied and untied the knot several times. The most recent was stubborn Xalimo who got confused about who was the boss. She got enraged and asked me to untie the knot. I begged her to calm down and consider it once more but I know her no good sisters were egging her on. I give it her and she runs off to her moms house. Days later after she doesn't hear from me as she had been told that I would be doing so but she & her family forgot I am an OG from the HG fam. Her family sent emmissaries trying to make peace but I spurned the talks like my name was Mohamed Farah Aideed.

Now I am back in the game. I however plan to settle again next year


How is married life treating you? Did you marry a Northerner or southerner?

[gurey25]

Gurey abti I have tied and untied the knot several times. The most recent was stubborn Xalimo who got confused about who was the boss. She got enraged and asked me to untie the knot. I begged her to calm down and consider it once more but I know her no good sisters were egging her on. I give it her and she runs off to her moms house. Days later after she doesn't hear from me as she had been told that I would be doing so but she & her family forgot I am an OG from the HG fam. Her family sent emmissaries trying to make peace but I spurned the talks like my name was Mohamed Farah Aideed.

Now I am back in the game. I however plan to settle again next year


How is married life treating you? Did you marry a Northerner or southerner?

damn thats tough, may allah bless you with a good one.
still married alxamdulilah northerner too, cant believe its 7 years now.
i dodged a few bullets with the previous ones i was courting.

[Asharite]

you a sound like an ugly daaqan ceelis who recently learned his culture,...with a severe inferiority complex. Just because all you wanna do is juggle the balls of whites doesnt mean we are being african americanised

somali women are more educated than somali men in the west and have access to a lot more opportunities than most of you farax. Keep hating tho. Half of you are in jail and the rest of you are aspiring terrorists with dirty beards...the 2 remaining decent faraxs are cocky. This is has been the case for decades, Shut up loser.

You said in the other thread that African Americans/Blacks have been done hard by the system due to design. Which would mean why they have an extremely high incarceration rate. Why do you blame Somali men for being in jail? Surely it is by design right? Or are Somalis not black?

Your a walking contradiction. Estranged was right about you.

[TheMightyNomad]

i know a lot of well off and highly educated Faraxs. The marriage challenge is that the Xalimo's are confused about their role. They want to be Western (sharing chores and family duties) or Traditional when it suits them (paying bills- it's a Faraxs job though she earns the same or more than him, wants the dahab set, large meher, expensive aroos). Its a parasitic relationship with no major upside. I'd rather go Ajnabi with Amber who is western but not Asha who has a schizophrenic cultural identity.


Murax have you gone to those Muslim singles events?

This!! you hit the nail on the head.

Plus most Xalimos in the west are ghettoized, liberalized & feminized and frankly it is as i've said in another thread.

Your "credentials" don't attract Somali men! Just because you feel that you are successful, independent, professional and educated doesn’t mean that’s you are attractive to Somali men, or even datable for that matter. It it is your EXTERIOR that gets a Somali man's attention (smile, look, personality, non-bitchy attitude, confidence and overall attractiveness) and your INTERIOR (your love for Allah, family, friends, being honest, supportive, respectful, emotionally stable, goal-oriented) that keeps a Somali man coming back for more.

Thats why you see most highly educated and sucessful Somali men in the western diaspora do not marry equally educated westernized Somali women. Most marry either from back home, middle east or marry some humble religious family oriented woman regardless of her educational attainment. Some go the extra mile and marry out to ajnabis. These are dudes who are doctors, engineers,professionals and many of them have jobs at companies like microsoft, google etc. You rarely see them marry from the western diaspora.

Hence why today you see a lot of Xalimo's complaining. ''I got my degree, education why is it so hard to find an educated Somali man''. ''Why do educated Somali men marry uneducated women''.

It's because Somali men are not looking for the so called strong, independent, ''i don't need a man, i can take care of myself'' westernized Somali woman who would ask for a divorce just so she can focus on her career(self) and only wants to compete with him.

[InaSamaale]

If you want to have a successful relationship with a Somali woman you have to be the Alpha from the start. You must dominate and take charge. Like a wild horse you need to break her in using treats and lashes. But these young Farah's of your generation want to be nice and considerate which only confuses this beast of burden who is used to being dominated by all the male figures in her life from her daddy to her brothers.

I agree partially with this. I don't think being 'alpha' is the right word for it though. A man should be able to display leadership. A good leader inspires his teammates and brings the best out of them. At the end of the day, we are all individuals. Its up to the husband to analyse what works and doesn't work with his wife and vice-versa.

Is that bolded part really true of *most* Somali females? I was under the impression, a significant amount of us were raised with strong matriarchs. Thus the idea of a man leading, could be rather foreign.

[MujahidAishah]

Gurey abti I have tied and untied the knot several times. The most recent was stubborn Xalimo who got confused about who was the boss. She got enraged and asked me to untie the knot. I begged her to calm down and consider it once more but I know her no good sisters were egging her on. I give it her and she runs off to her moms house. Days later after she doesn't hear from me as she had been told that I would be doing so but she & her family forgot I am an OG from the HG fam. Her family sent emmissaries trying to make peace but I spurned the talks like my name was Mohamed Farah Aideed.

Now I am back in the game. I however plan to settle again next year


How is married life treating you? Did you marry a Northerner or southerner?

AW the eternal bachelor.. every get married then divorce. What happened to breeeding her abti