original dervish wrote: Tue Feb 27, 2018 6:23 pm
So if your abt's ex married an Absame he would be cool with that?
of course, atleast you can trace his hisotryn and family if any issues and on top of it the kids from the new dad will atleast have the same ancestrial background.
what the hell does an Ogaden know about an abgal? consider this, OGadens border virtually every somali tribe from Djabouti till Dagodi in kenya, we dont border abgal, we dont know them, regardless, its better to keep it with in the same tribe.
can you imagine us going to war with mjs or mr or idoor and the step dad takes it out on the kids? somalis are ruthless, what if he decides to rape or pimp your daughters because he hates your tribe, and knowing women they are weak and soft and will let the husband get away with a lot, because its the nature of the female to not look at the bigger picture, no wisdom, if a somali woman married an adoon for exaple and her husband propsed the step daughters also marry an adoon jaiacan revert, just an example, she will be ok with, probaly to just get back at the husabnd, i have seen woman do this, this is why woman are not allowed to be a witness on their own in islam or become judges or leaders, waa short sighted,
and thus its the duty of everyman to make sure he either takes his kids or she marries someone as close to him as possible, why do you think islam allows duumaal, if you pass away islam encourages the woman marries your brother or cousin, because the kids will have similar sur name and race/tribe.
every single Ogadeni who has gone through divorce prefers she remarries an Absame just for the sake of his kids,
i once wanted to marry a majerteen, the family were very clear, there is a lot of jareer, guunimo and midgaans in their blood line, their sultan has a bantu mam, he looks like kibaki, thus my family vetoed 100%, i was told do not go near tribes we do not know their origin,
there was a mj who wanted to marry my aunty, in 98, my family were shocked anbd disappointed, grudginly, woman are woman, my fmaily had to send people to garoew to investigate his nasnimi, we were also shocked becasue his mum was idoor, its like seeing a mongalia marry a nigerian, very rare, we confirmed his nasab,
ironically my family said they will be ok if i married an idoor, since i am mohamed subeer from jubbaland, atleast idoorka and mohamed subeer from the Hawd marry each other, sure we hate each other like jews and muslims, but historically we did marry and at least idoor waa nasab, they dont allow midgaans to go near them unlike some somali tribes, still i will not give my sisters or daughters to an idoor, because of politics, i will rather let them marry a russian revert to islam, at least he will not poison my relatives. but idoor are like Ogaden, they do not let guun, pug nose adoons and midgaans claim them, most other somalis do, specially in bari and central somalia. i once saw an Mj guy who worked for Oagden guys in their restaurant in kismayo, he is their chef, he looked like Kibaki, i could not hold my self and said dude you dont even look somali, until i found out its an MJ culture in somalia to hit a bantu naag when they get horny for punani, they cannot control them self, hence my mother explained this is why they vetoed my marriage to an MJ chick in my younger days, oh the wisdom of elders, they protect you from horrible msitakes, listen to your parents kids, specially if you are in your early 20s. and control your hornyness, marry someone you know their background so she can have children you know their background and look like you.
PS: i have nothing against jareers and midgaans, they deserve rights, but in islam you are not allowed to lie about your ancestry and claim another tribe/surname/ ancestral background, you are supposed to be clear and honest specially when it comes to marriage about your heritage, but because so many Somalis lie nowa days in somali society its your right and duty to make sure you dont welcome them into your family. follw the ways of your forefathers, be racist and particular when it comes to marriage.
i was once called midgaan by an idoor guy in my abtis restaurant. i was eating kfc, never spoke to him, he kept moaning that this ajanabi should be kicked out (i am typical Ogaden, very soft hair, light skin and thus incredbly handsome masha Allah with model like features - an of course the Ogaden cagdheer height, woman of all races go gogogaga, somalis caledd me the original ogaden, tall and handsome, i used to call somali girls with my index finger when i wanted to talk to them at uni, as soon as i found out she is not Ogaden i used to walk away with a smil), anyways idoor assumed i was indian, then assumed i was somali cadcad, he abused him verbally and insulted me, simply because i was not eating rice but kfc, how dare i bring kfc t a somali restaunrt, i think he was high, UK still allowed chat then, i was a wee lad of 21 in 2010,
he called me midgaan, langaab cadcad, even told me his idoor ancestrs laved cadcads hundreds of years ago, typical idoor tribalist like khalid cali and aw rasta garac, i being a man of noble ropyal ancetrial background and knwing my abti owns the restuant in west london simply looked at him with that Ogadeni superior look that shows of my greecian features and Ogadenlandheernis, i simply said you are idoor, he was shcked, i said you should not be calling cadcads midgaans, i felt bad for them wallahi, i he took notice the way an idoor does when he knows he has met a superior landheer tribe, he asked me what i was, i said i am Ogaden Mohamed Subeer reer cabdule,
he jumped up with rice raining down from his rice coverd hand and said:
og my goodness, i am so sorry so sorry so sorry, Ugaas, you are Reer Cabdule, i am so sorry i am habaar yunis, please forgive me, he tried to shake my hand, i simply stood there like only a landheer knows how to stand, with a smeark, the poeple were shiocked, my abtis staff were laughing, he was informed this is his royal highness Teeri The 3rd of Mohamed Subeer Superior landdheernas,
the idoor kept apoligising, all i could think about was the difference between how he insulted me when he thought i was cadcad and how he apolgised after finding out i was Ogaden, i also remembered the cadcad lads in uni i played football with, i felt gulty and sorry on their behalf,
i stood up carefully and walked the way only a landdher blessed with land and great tribe can walk, Alhamdulilah, he washed his hand and wanted t shake my, i refused, for i usually only prefer to shakle hands with an Ogadeni/Absame as we are not genetically compatible with ajanabis/other races/tribes,
i smearked and walked away like a chap who just won the presidential election, i turtned back and said infront of everyone " be careful, your just an idoor" it hit ike a lighting bolt, he knew i meant you are langaab and he knew what it felt to be called langaab for once, he met his superior in the landheer department, somalis hate that, i gave him that line as an insult just the way my ancestors gave it many centuries ago, "waa un idoor", and i walked away, and he looked down like a defeated german in 1945,
the worst insult yuo can say to a somali is langaab, it hurts like nothing else, it hits so deep, its why many somalis will never allow one man one vote and its why they are saying only somalis from somalia can vote - even though there is no voting one man one vote- because they know the beesha blessed with numbers will easyly win the presdeincy everytime
oh and its nice being from the only tribe that can tell every other tribe you are langaab and you have less territory,
one day i want to have coffee with a langaab like xiimaan tuna boy and ask him what it feels....................
gorgouse drop dead beautiful idoor girl with sacad habar gidir mum in london, she looked like princess Diana somali version, most perfect nose and smile, golden skin, tall and slender like an Ogaden qalanjo, mashallah 