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[quote="Basra-"]Go....Kill yourself--- at least they will say...."Aaah she loved him'!!!! Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes[/quote]

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Rolling Eyes This is not Romeo and Juliet girl so bounce Rolling Eyes
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Aristocrat-1 first u have to claim to be reer erigavo or else I won’t except ur hand in marriage
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Post by Nassab »

blessing



there is a reason why midgaans are midgaans and nassabs are nassabs. he may look smart, intelligent and all that, but at the end of the day, he will still be a midgan no matter what you try to make out of him. stay away from him and look for someone your level.

kamal

this is a somali thang and you can't relate to it so i suggest you take your kafir ass to kafir affairs you dumbfock
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Blue Rush@lool But u gotta admit it--- Romeo & Juliet would be a good style to make a point huh??? Can't a girl dream?? Laughing Laughing Laughing
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nassab, what makes midgaan below any other tribe in somalia, because some old man said so

do u know how midgaans got that name?

somalis we need to quite this racism agains ourselves, that is why the world hates, if you hate ur selve how will any one else?
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[quote="Gacalisa"]nassab, what makes midgaan below any other tribe in somalia, because some old man said so

do u know how midgaans got that name?

somalis we need to quite this racism agains ourselves, that is why the world hates, if you hate ur selve how will any one else?[/quote]

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What' s wrong with Midgaans Shocked
Walahi, if you ask me they are the best of people. And they look hot too especially the men Smile.

Blessing, you are in an unfortunate situation but your parents are the ones you have to listen to as long as there advise or their decisions don' t harm you. You should obey them. Good luck sis!.
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Post by Nassab »

gacalisa


i don't hate midgans and i don't wanna get associated with them either, simple. i don't care how they became midgans and i don't give a rats ass if they wanna emancipate themselves, that's their call not mine. but one thing i can tell you is, there is a reason for everything and there is a reason why they got named midgaan

would you marry a midgaan? honestly?
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Blue Rush


Cadubillahi-- u are a dull, life sukiing Vampire then! Who doesn't like HAPPY ENDING??? Oh my god!!! I think i will cry & die with pain if someone tricked me to watch a movie that ended in sadness & no happy ending. It happened to me once.The Julia robert movie -- my best friends wedding. Julia was in love with her best friend who comes with his new fiancee---played by Cameron diaz.I thought in the end she will get him.She did not----i was on the sick bed for weeks. I didnt go to school either.

And also in Elementary school--when my lit class forced me to read Emily brontes "Wuthering Heights"



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Nassab, why are so resentfull of them if you don' t hate them?. Their ancestors once ate a dead animal. Big fukkin deal Laughing
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Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing No, films like that make me sad Crying or Very sad
I really loved run away bride I loved when she ran Laughing Laughing
but films like maid in mantan, and wedding planner.. ok basically ever jlo film I hate it when she get the man. Mad

I felt really sad when romeo kills himself then his girly does the same and she sees him die
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honestly,i would marry any one my heart desires, from midgaan, to marexan, to chinese, any one that is true to the religion and will be teaching my kids good.

and how can you justify someone and dont want to associate with them, if you dont know the history of why that person is so despised? like i said because some old man and woman say so?
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Post by michael_ital »

At one time I would've agreed with Kamal, (and in principle I still do) but through experience I know the stigma that Somali kids (especially the females) experience with being "disowned." It would be a tramautic experience being ostracized by a whole community.
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Post by THE ARABIAN MAN »

Blessing, tell us your clan before we give a good advice.In Islam, there is something that is called "kuf" which means that a person can only marry another person who is on the same level as his/hers.
If this man your talking about is honest about your love, how come he fall in love with a woman who he knows wont be given to him in marriege?.Does he just want to erase the Somali tradition which makes his people seperate from other clans when it comes to marriege?. Confused Razz Razz
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Walaal I don't understand you Confused , you're saying you love this guy and at the same time your calling him a midgaan Confused , first of all darling midgaan is not a tribe it's an insult, which means greedy

The tribes name is madhibaan, I have homegirls who are madhibaan and they are one of the most sweetest, smartest people I have ever met, there's even a member in here who's that (and she's proud and repping it Smile

anywhooo back to the topic, if i was you i would choose my family, because no guy is worth losing your beloved family over it. Remember men come and go (good, decent guys are hard to find) But your family will always be there for you no matter what Smile
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Post by Cawar »

Blessing,

Why come here looking for an advice for something as serious as marriage??? I think your'e lying and you just want to engage the forumers into your boring life....why dot you post with your usual nick if you were honest??


All of this is BS.
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