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[quote="Foxy22"]Ohh goodness me BR, this is what the man is talking about you just told him what's between your legs now.
Lacag, you old gag for the first time I hear you brah.
Reason why they talk about it some much is because I think they are told what they are missing out on... so I think is just anger and frustration. But then again, I can't help to think 'since they don't know the feeling on what they missing out on, how can they feel deprived of sexual joy?' Ohhh I got it .. I got it. It's the neighbors ... yeah I don't think in Somalia they used to hear you know that sound/scream... well now they came to the West and they keep hearing them noises. The first time Xalimo heard the noise, she thought 'Allah tii waa laceejin cawaa' and when she saw next morning the neighbors glow... well Xalimo started wondering till one cursed day she asked her neighbor… ‘xcuse me… xcuse me…you.. yeah you… why u scream every night?’ When Xalimo heard the answer she got pi$$ed and she wants that glow. Now we dealing with the consequences of them screams. Simple![/quote]
I dont agree with your statement about the scream part. Somali women do scream when they are having sex with addon men, but when they are doing it with skinny men with the ceeb size of a toddler dont feel nothing and therefore dont react, it dont matter wether they have their clit or not.
they have to, i mean its the harshest pain you get until labor, kinda gives you a head up on how painful labor will be, not to mention the first night, poor girls.
Why are you obssessed with Somali female issues? Where does that anger stem from? Are you angry with a private family matter? You are more obssessed with female issues than they are about FGM, would you like to trade places with them?
Gudniinka is a big business in many countries. There are several projects that are financed - and if there is no talking there is no money.
There are hundreds of organisations that are manned by thousands of people whose only task is to find issues that are viewed as barbaric in western societies but practised by poor people in the southern hemisphere and gudniinka is one such thing.
The problem as I see is that several projects (fighting disease, poverty and other issues) are unfunded.
Don't you think that FGM affects the western countries too? Many thousand's of migrants who reside in the west still believe in such barbaric acts. I Know of several Somali parents given the opportunity, they are willingly would spend 1000's of dollars to send their little girls to the butchers in overseas. Somali guys and guilt trip! Is it they hijacked the agenda?
Assalamu calaykum, The Law26, there is no doubt that FGM is an issue that needs to be adressed. It also against western societal norms.
But much of the fuzz is about talk with little action. There is a hidden agenda and that is to give the constituencies in the west a bad image. When I lived in Europe hardly a month went by without a somali woman being in print or on TV talking about FGM. She should adress somali men and women - and not western audiance.
FGM is on the decline in cities in Somalia. This has not being achieved by global feminist campaign but a process that involves sheikhs, intellectuals and waranles.
I am very angry at our public figures (like Weris) who instead of talking about the real problems in somalia, talk about her they were mutilated.
The only purpose they serve is constructing a false image of barbarism against us and other african societies.
The reason gudniinka comes upin every situation is the western world knows what is going on in that part of the world.They see somali models always talking about their struggle with gudniinka and so.This shouldnt be a big deal walaahi.I dont see other africans women complainting about gudniinka.
[quote="Caydid"]Assalamu calaykum, The Law26, there is no doubt that FGM is an issue that needs to be adressed. It also against western societal norms.
But much of the fuzz is about talk with little action. There is a hidden agenda and that is to give the constituencies in the west a bad image. When I lived in Europe hardly a month went by without a somali woman being in print or on TV talking about FGM. She should adress somali men and women - and not western audiance.
FGM is on the decline in cities in Somalia. This has not being achieved by global feminist campaign but a process that involves sheikhs, intellectuals and waranles.
I am very angry at our public figures (like Weris) who instead of talking about the real problems in somalia, talk about her they were mutilated.
The only purpose they serve is constructing a false image of barbarism against us and other african societies.[/quote]
Calleykuma Salaam Ceeydiid
Mate, 4 points for you.
No, FGM has not wanned in Somalia. Due to the civil war and the lack of educational programs for the majority of Somalis, who are the poor is non-existant. Those communities have more worries than FGM.
Second, I don't believe in political conspiracies, imagined facts.
Third, This Lacageey guy, most of his threads are about Somali female issues, and I don't mind if Somali girls debate in all angles of this issue and others that relate to them, but what is wrong with this Sijui guy?
Fourth, come on Ceeydiid, there are barbarism in all cultures, and what is more barbaric in the recent history of mankind than the killing, raping and destroying of a whole nation that we Somalis managed for a short period of time? Let us be real about cultures.
You seem to have an angry tone brother! We all know that somalis have more depressing issues that FGM. You did not respond to my points. Read them again. We are in agreement about the issue but we differ on how to approach it. Speaking on radio/TV or print press of western countries would never eradicate the problem. There are many who are fighting FGM at home.
Keep your daugthers uncircumcised and let them ehiopian and kenyan f1uck them where there Ali fanaax uu dharayriyo!!!!
Mine and my family’s daughters will carry on with our beloved dhaqaan which is with accordance in islam... Our beloved daughters and sisters will proudly be circumcised.
For once I agree with Qansa, If they really want to help/educate others then Somalia is the first and the right place to start. They say charity always start at home.
[quote="QansaGabeyle"]Going to every gaal and telling how mutilated your s!!l is will not solve anything. If you want to preach against FGM, go to somalia and educate the masses there. You are speaking tot he wrong people, or is your intention to capitalise on your mutilated vagina? I think the likes of Waris have no way of making money since her modeling career ended decades ago so going around the world and telling every gaal how every somali girl has a mutilated vagina is their only way of making a decent living.[/quote]