Would you leave your spouse

Xplosive · Post by **Xplosive** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 12:54 pm

[quote]I have never seen a Pakistani, Bengali or Indonesian with two wives cajiib. [/quote]

Shocked

Sir-Luggoyo · Post by **Sir-Luggoyo** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 1:00 pm

Baxarow, bal horta iska warran saxib, salaantaba ma inagaa iska qaadnay xagged budhka iyo qaarta iigu sidataa?

Waar ninyahow waxaan sheegay see ilkana ku nabad galaan xeedhana lagu xagtaaye ma waxbaan dhimay. Hadday Xaliimadii buktayna aayar aqalkeeda iska joogto tu cusubina ka adeegto ma dhibaataa?

Xplosive

She means they are Muslims as well but confined to one Maharishtra

Ina Baxar · Post by **Ina Baxar** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 1:25 pm

Horta ha ila yaabin , ma anigoo taagan oo ninki la yiqiin ah{ self faan , Laughing

} baad basra oo aniga ii daba taagan , hadalka ku weecisay.
Abtiyoow , laga aqbalimaayo Laughing

Haddaad judha hore isha igu qabaan weydo, dabka iska qabo Laughing

{ ileen abtigey ma tihid marka }
Waan ku salaamey , Sir Lug .

LaDy-Qac · Post by **LaDy-Qac** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 2:34 pm

I' d be out seriously Laughing

kambuli · Post by **kambuli** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 2:37 pm

Lady,

Even if he was so nice to you in every way Sad

I am sure you are just kidding. We, women are always more kind then them(Men)...

Dhaga Bacayl · Post by **Dhaga Bacayl** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 2:40 pm

[quote="kambuli"]Lady,

Even if he was so nice to you in every way Sad

I am sure you are just kidding. We, women are always more kind then them(Men)...[/quote]

Really?

Mowhawk · Post by **Mowhawk** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 2:44 pm

If your life and thoughts revolves only arround shagging, then you will consider married life to be based only on the physicality aspect. I admire people who care and support for their spouses in tough times, and in reality, that is what marriage life should all be about.

LaDy-Qac · Post by **LaDy-Qac** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 2:47 pm

Kambuli,

men will only be nice 2 you if you are perfect in their eyes. If the slightest thing changes about you they are gone Laughing

so why should a young woman give up her whole life sitting beside a sick person when she can' t help him get better anyway and when it' s almost certain that if the same thing happened 2 her that guy would be gone in a blink of an eye Embarassed

kambuli · Post by **kambuli** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 3:25 pm

Lady,

I know what you are saying and I really heard you. Smile

When their wife passes away they search a wife from the women who came for the funereal. There is rarely a guy who even waits one yr to marry again. Also there was a time that guys used to go to Europe specially England and they leave behind a young wife of 16-18yrs old she waits and waits and waits and he comes back after 30yrs when she can't have a child then he marries a young wife.....Those guys were called Sea-man.. Sad

Poor women... But still... if your husband was nice to you and you loved him so much how can you let him down? How about your kids? Wouldn't you care about them..... I know they (men) deserve to be whipped but not all of them... still there are few that do not deserve the whipping Smile

Dhaga,

Mindhaa kuwa in la whip gareeyo u baahan baad ku jirtaa Laughing

(kaftan) Why would you surprised?

Dhaga Bacayl · Post by **Dhaga Bacayl** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 3:44 pm

Kambuli,

I don't think I need asz whipping per say but walaahi every time I go to Toronto, Ohio or Minnesota, I hear horror stories about people who get married few months and get divorced. Now the women is single mother chilling in her Section 8 house smoking BADEECAD and the dude moved back with his momma or his boys.

That is really scary situation and I blame the Somali chicks on this one.

You guys supposed to be the glue that keep the family together. Man is nothing without a good woman. What happened?

SoMaLiSiZz · Post by **SoMaLiSiZz** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 3:58 pm

[quote="Sir-Luggoyo"]if diagnosed with chronic disease?

When you get married, would you abandon your other half if stricken with a malady that confines their activities, let's say your woman suffered with a third degree facial burn and is disfigured, or suffered breast cancer and as a result lost one tit, or is confined to wheelchair and depends on you for the slightest motion required, or any other ailment that limits her limbs.

How much are you willing to sacrifice? I know Somali men are not known for their selflessness when it comes to their spouses. Would you look for a better Xalimo or settle and care for this one?[/quote]

Asalam Alaikom

What kind of Quizzes are these ? if Allah has tested anyone with this it is not for you to talk about be gratefull and say Allxamdulillah >>mala Gafo<< do you wish to have a wife that has been tested by Allah with this ? or you your self in this sate ?

if no then think about how lame this Topic is and say Astaqfur Allah and Allxamdulillah on how merciful Allah is to you ..

barak Allahuma feekom ..

Fe Aman Ellah

kambuli · Post by **kambuli** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 3:59 pm

Dahaga, quote "You guys supposed to the glue that keep the family together. Man is nothing without a good woman. What happened?"

Nothing happened walaal. Women are still the same Somali women. Only a little bit more income. Laughing

Which they never had... Usually men were the only bread winners...

This badeecad ( I call it sigaarka weyn) is a new problem... Let us call it a self distruction stuff.. But seriously it is men who are not responsible these days... My best friend just called me (few days ago) and she told me about this dude asking her " To make him a good guy who does not smoke, does not chew or drink" Laughing

Why would he want a girl to change him Shocked

Why can't he know the difference between wrong and right? Dee waxaan doonayaa gabadh, I hagaajisa ku ye Laughing

Walaahay adduunkan wax kasta la maqal Exclamation

Men are the ones who are destroying our culture, country and everything. Walaahay I swear to God just today I was talking to afriend who told me how Kat is distructing our country... All the money that goes to our country is going directly to Kenya and Ethiopia Crying or Very sad

Just imagine our men are even chewing kat in the west Evil or Very Mad

Walaahay inaad isku noqotaan ayaa idiin roon...

Post by **Nabeela** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 4:03 pm

"Men are the ones who are destroying our culture, country and everything. Walaahay I swear to God just today I was talking to afriend who told me how Kat is distructing our country... All the money that goes to our country is going directly to Kenya and Ethiopia Just imagine our men are even chewing kat in the west Walaahay inaad isku noqotaan ayaa idiin roon..."

ITA.

Ina Baxar · Post by **Ina Baxar** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 4:07 pm

Horta sheekadu sidey tahay , ha la gu celiyo.
Waa lady qacoow , kambuli wado Laughing

Waa Ina Baxarow, and then ??11
** Thinking** " war Gadas are fighting with good p***"

Okay ,

yasmin507 · Post by **yasmin507** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 4:11 pm

i would stay wit my spouse even if he got to accident and become crippled it is all bout faith Rolling Eyes

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