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[quote="Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE"]I will work and hire a babysitter for my kids Why I am atteding a university for four years if I am not going to use my degree? I will work untill I retired at 65 [/quote]

With little grasp of the english language ( as evident from your statement above) I would advice you to study untill you are 65


Ok...Kidding!

To the topic author

Whats wrong with being both? I know of many women who are lawyers,dentists and lab technicians who juggle between career and family and from what i have seen they are handling it superbly. Life is full of limitless choices. Dont restrict yourselves any more than necessary.


Peace & Caano

Yeah I left my first wife because she was constantly hurting my ego by flashing her masters degree in Womens Studies and her bachelors in Child Developement infront of me.

Miz Sydney habartaan fiiriya wali weey noshahay

what an objectionable day am having, your not someone anyone would be delighted to see around the forums

Qansa, Well don't make the same mistake twice. Next time ensure the wife is straight from Qooryooley and her only specialty is geel iyo Lo'o liisooh!

Demure, meekha sanaa jirtaa if you don't mind me asking?

[quote="1nemansquad"]Miz Sydney habartaan fiiriya wali weey noshahay

what an objectionable day am having, your not someone anyone would be delighted to see around the forums[/quote]

I see the old wounds havent healed yet Dont be in denial, i have heard you pray for my return! Now gather the townman and warn them about my hasty arrival, alas it would be very short visit but still...calls for a celebration and the slaughtering of the few geels u possess (if any)


why so bitter after all this years? acuudu Bilah,i admit i was harsh, just a little laakin to the extent where u hold grudges for over 2 years now, that itself is psychotic. Get over it

Having said all that, how have u been? Hows ur little athiest friend ( Law26) Oh how i have missed you guys

Hope all is forgiven

Old enough. why?

Your spouse should know whats best for her, a career or her marriage which will eventually add additional members to her family. It's quite simple which one she'll select.

Actaully Somalilight would not mind being housewife until my kids are at least 5 years old. If I can hold a flexible job on the side, i will, but i certainly don't mind taking afew years off, if we can afford it. I mean i have no insecurties about my capabilities in life, I am intellectually equal or smarter than most men anyway.

it must be the pollen season but I can't see how some of u r willing to ditch spinsterhood for housewife. The trade-off isn't beneficial.

[quote="Happy Desperado"]so after a hard earned eductaion, how willing are you to giving it up? and for the guys, would you ask your wife to quite her job once you tie the knot?[/quote]

6 months ayaad shaqaynee anigana sidoo kale, waan isku nasanaynaa nooh

lol@immigran career lady. Khatar walahi, waa naga horeysiin!

Back to the topic..abso-effing-lutely would I give up earning 6000 £/month..if my husband would be willing to pay the double (plus all the other costs, like allomony to my mom and so on)...but the problem is..I dont come across too many dudes like that ..so NO!

Hey I'm all for it. Why not.

[quote="Nabeela"]Hey I'm all for it. Why not.[/quote]

Thats perhaps why we need more Nabeela's around, She has accepted her motherhood and more willingly has given up her career for her bundles of joy.

^ That' s if you earn enough to pay for her basic upkeep . If my husband can spoil me and the kids than I'll be a housewife. If he can' t then I'll have to work and help the poor guy out