could u be friends with a member of the opposite sex

[Ghetto_Poetress]

No he wouldn't or would he

let's just say me and him have an agreement at the age of 24/25

[ill-seed]

^^^^^^ so why u pretending like you and him have a platonic relationship....

u'r not serious

thats what i mean with these mind games...

[Smokey....]

allow mind games ..

its all abt being straight forward .. there aint nuffin wrong wid tellin it how it is

[Ghetto_Poetress]

Lool that was a joke, eassy

[ill-seed]

so u gotta best friend who is a guy...how does it work

i mean to be best friends u have to have known homeboy for a while....how do u stay friends with a guy for this period of time...

i don't think its strange.... im just curious because i think it gets confusing when u have 'love' for a best friend who's a guy... i mean its different for the love u have 4 ur female 'best friend' right?

to chrissy

[tWiStED_aNgELL]

AMA GIVE U MA ANSWER....YH I KNOW DISS GUY SINCE SECONDARY SKOOL SO I OWNLY GOT HOMEY LOVE FOR HIM NOT FEELINGS OF ATTRACTION

[Smokey....]

i met my best friend yrs ago .. and from day 1 we are still da same. Of course i hav love for him, but from time i call him a best friend, he has to be very close to me. i talk to him as if hes my brother, if i need advice and he does da same.

there are different types of love which u mite kno, and da love u hav for a man which u look at romantically and a friend is different. My best friend is my brother and he respects me like im his sis.

In sum situations, this love turns into a deeper level but they say sooner or later sum1 will fall in "love" wid da other 1 but alxamdulilah dat hasnt happened coz theres nuffin worse than losing a good friend.

And yes it is different from a female, coz he/she can help u wid things ur other friends cant.

(sorry abt da essay) *********** ChrissY *************

[ill-seed]

u don't have nothing to apologise 4 sis...that was informative.


but don't u think u'r friendship could be disrupted if he gets married in away it couldn't happen with a female friend


twisted....u and homeboy sound like buddies...aquantances...not the kinda friendship thats as close as what am on about. but thanks 4 ur two cents.

[Smokey....]

i see ur point bro.. but i kno its rare to see da older somali generation who hav opposite genders as friends. its like its taboo which it shouldnt be.

i would love for my best friend to be friends wid me even wen im married but i cant predict da future, only allah (swt) knows.

but if ur partner knows abt da other person and they are also maybe friends, there shouldnt be a problem. theres only problems wen ppl keep secrets coz dat just makes it suspicious.

ill-seed, btw hav u got a close female friend and wat is da reason for these queries?

[tWiStED_aNgELL]

two cents

[fagash_killer]

simple. if that lady looks hot, i dont want to consider here as an homegyal , but if i see, see dont got any feelings for me, than not, than i want to considere her just as an homegyal, but if not and i think she likes me, than i go to here, than i try to talk with here, and i tell here he you look hot, and than i will see how she reacts, but i know for gurls isnt that easy.

[LaYdEe_LuXiOuX]

I Have Lots Of Friends That Are Boys..Heck My 4 Top Best Friends Are Boys..And NO..It Aint Got Nuffing To Do With looks...Its the Fact That I known Them Since We All Wore Diapers..So technically Its a Strictly Family Ting..Ya Dig

[wife]

To be honest, yes my best friend is a gurl (atleast that's what she thinks)


**********************ADVO*********************

[SLIM-THUG]

[quote="Smokey...."]abt im butters .. (highclass or slim i kno its either u 2)

not everythin is abt looks u twat [/quote]

IT AINT ME WALAHI....I WOULD NEVER SAY DA TO U......CHRISSY....

[GoodNews]

[quote="Khalid 5"]I am friends with one my spanish class mates i fantasyse sometimes but she thinks we just friends

eeh lolitia my best friend bonita[/quote]