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Don't understand DS. I'm a natural at psychology. If I want I can control you.

Now first adivce to you is stop smiling at people when you feel like stabbing them. It takes a while so start yelling at the wall or generating that energy positively before you blow.

Ugaaska, maxaa ninkaan isku maagteen, mid kale, mid kaan waa ciyal, he needs to grow up.

Nabeela xaal qaado. I shouldnt have lowered your dismal standards with Unclebin..

Not all these behaviors describe my though.

There are certain behaviors that help identify passive-aggressive behavior. [2]

* Ambiguity
* Avoiding responsibility by claiming forgetfulness
* Blaming others <------- I never do that. I always take full responsiblity for my actions.
* Chronic lateness and forgetfulness <------ I have a good memory and I never forget anything
* Complaining <-----I don't complain wallahi
* Does not express hostility or anger openly
* Fear of authority <---- Only if it is the police man. I ain't trying to go to Jail. It is logical to fear prison.
* Fear of competition
* Fear of dependency <------ WTF! I have lived on my own since High School.
* Fear of intimacy <------ WTF again!
* Fosters chaos
* Intentional inefficiency
* Making excuses and lying <-------- I rarely lie.
* Obstructionism
* Procrastination <----- I always get my shiit done on time though.
* Resentment
* Resists suggestions from others
* Sarcasm <------- I am never sarcastic.
* Sullenness <-------- WTF!

[quote]Now first adivce to you is stop smiling at people when you feel like stabbing them.[/quote]

Why would you want someone to know you want to stab them?

Be real. If you feel like stabbing them than show it. I guarantee the individual will not keep doing what they did to bring that on but only if you be real. If you hide it than the individual will never know, continue annoying you, and you will descend more in mental instability by trying to deflect that situation rather than seeking a solution. Ultimately you will pay the price.

Actually this girl I'm friends with me told me I am passive-agressive and as usual I was curious and did not stop pestering her until she told me why she thought so. Well turns out she WISHES I was passive-aggressive because most of her friends think I am a bit blunt.

[quote]Well turns out she WISHES I was passive-aggressive because most of her friends think I am a bit blunt. [/quote]

Maybe it is because she cares about you and wants you to stop embarrasing the both of you all the time with your bluntness.

This should be interesting, how blunt are you dawlad?




Qosal baa idilay.

Judging from his behavior on SOmalinet, I would say he is very blunt.

Sadegirl always lectures me about when to let people get away with certain things to save them public embarrassment.

Recently I was getting my hair cut and I was waiting outside for the dude cuz I called him up in the morning and around there are alot of Somali businesses. There were alot of people chilling outside and this smart alack mid 30
s guy started lecturing me about wearing a good coat and I told him I was practically born here so it's no problem for me.

Dude looks around, grins to his friends and says i have been in cold all my life ma wax baad cabtaa and i smirked looked him right in the eye and said oo saaxiib waxaan la cabin ma cabee soomaalia qabow badnaydaa and the grin left his dorky face real quick my nigga



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[quote]i smirked, looked him right in the eye and said oo saaxiib waxaan la cabin ma cabee soomaalia qabow badnaydaa [/quote]

Maba fahmin wallahi. Personally I would not get mad at that at all.

You have to understand the word play.

That guy must have been really sensitive.

Nabeela I cannot continue watching you trying pick bone with my nigga dowlad, what's your xarash.

UD, I read it like 3 times.....I didnt understand it, although I have my thoughts....

That is because it does not make any sense saaxiboow.

waxaan la cabin ma cabee soomaalia qabow badnaydaa<---- How do you say this in English?