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hello hilib, I man helwa.........

hello mr hilip

haye maxaad ku baridey?

muqmad iyo laxoox?

misa

laxoox iyo shaah?


(am guessing the first option)

Horta i hate muqumad laakin subag with laxoox and malab waa eeshcala quraac

I agree with Screw. I know a few girls who talked about marriage to every guy they met which I was very suprised with. Then I realised they just wanted to get away from their family!

If a guy let's a girl rush him into marrying her he's a doqon. People should get married when they're ready.

Almost 4 years in a relationship and not married, that is what you call 'a sincere commitment'.

Plan was to get hitched this year but something more important came up and it wont happend. But all good. As long as its my call

Chicks rush though i concur but your the man, it has to be you that says when it so mate.

Women want to make sure that you're not just after sex, or a "f'uck buddy". For example, you're in a committed realtionship with a girl you've been sexing for a year or two, and then meet someone else who you'd much rather marry. Instantly, her integrity has been compromised, and she's the talk of the community. So it's a way for a chick to "feel a guy out" and see where his head's at.

^ "Fcuk buddy" is still popular, it be may a sensitive issue and people will obviously deny it but believe me, it DOES exist and it IS considered "hip".

[quote="michael_ital"]Women want to make sure that you're not just after sex, or a "f'uck buddy". For example, you're in a committed realtionship with a girl you've been sexing for a year or two, and then meet someone else who you'd much rather marry. Instantly, her integrity has been compromised, and she's the talk of the community. So it's a way for a chick to "feel a guy out" and see where his head's at.[/quote]

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A girl who sleeps with a man she isn't married to is a obviously a foolish tramp. Whether u are with someone for one week or 2 years it ain't acceptable. If he does go off and marry someone else once he's finished using the girl, serves her right. Keep ur legs closed is my moto!

Well She's not getting any younger Saxib.

I have yet to find a Somali woman that I dated who doesn't want to get married to me

I ask them why they would want to marry me since they hardly know me:

Responses;

1. You come from a good family.
2. You have a good job.
3. AW, you're a wonderful, sweet, sincere guy.
4. You're educated.

I reply ok, but how do u know that I am not an abusive, raging alcoholic ! Or a Wife beater ? Just cause I am from a good family doesn't mean I will be a good mate

^Bow Bow..Stop flattering yourself. Some guys are fullllllllllllllll of ittt! SubxanAllah.

[quote="MJ-Pride"]Hey FOLKS,
Recently, i noticed a trend thats becomming increasingly popular among Somali girls in the West. I told this to my friends the other day and they agreed with me. The trend is, shamelessly askin the guy questions about marriage;eventhough the relationship is young.What happened to the great tradition, in which girls wait for the guy? I swear I run 3 miles when a girl, who I just met a month ago, asks me about questions like, when are we gona get married, or giving hints like; I can imagine me and you having cute babies, blah, blah..I freakin' get suspicious and Honestly assume that the girl is bust down Is there any other reason For girls to rush the guy they just met? [/quote]

too rushy rushy miyaa....hadaba noo sheeg, how long do you want a xalimo to wait before she enquires about marraige?

ladies...u know how to make sure a farax is in the relationship to marry you...just tell him..waryaa i dhageeyso..nac nac kumasiineyo before aanan lugta kaaga xidhin ball and chain, candyshop is closed! fahamtu?...and we don't exactly have to get married soo soon if you don't wanna rush into it marka lets take our sweet time huuno.

hadaba waad wada og tihiin faraxs iney talada ka qaataan lataliyahooda hoose...marka u'd automatically know his intensions towards you.