Would you do a background check on guy

[DisplacedDiraac]

When did I contradict myself?

[Alphanumeric]

When did I contradict myself?

It's wrong to let others know of your sins, yet we should ask questions as directly as possible.

How do the two views coincide?

[DisplacedDiraac]

Did I say I believe in that view?.. I only mentioned it because numerous people throw that view around when it suits them particularly when chatting to a potential.

The latter bit was regarding asking questions..

[Alphanumeric]

Sorry, the wording threw me off.

Yes, I agree with the latter. One should be as direct as possible, but as I said above, I'm not sure how I would react if she turned out to be lying, fraudulent, dirtbag

[DisplacedDiraac]

If she turned out to be lieing after you asked her a direct question? Like you said that's grounds for a divorce on the spot.. If someone will lie about one thing however small it is.. My mind runs wild. I cant stress honesty enough ruunti.

But it also depends on how the truth came to light IMO..

[Alphanumeric]

If she turned out to be lieing after you asked her a direct question? Like you said that's grounds for a divorce on the spot.. If someone will lies about one thing however small it is.. My mind runs wild. I cant stress honesty enough ruunti.

But it depends on how the truth came to light IMO..

A. He lied to you after being asked directly, but then told you out of guilt within a month or two of marriage.

B. He lied to you after being asked directly, and then a chick rings up your home months later throwing accusations/proofs he then confesses to.

How would you react to both?

[DisplacedDiraac]

A. That's a tricky one.. I would respect the fact he finally told me.. I guess I would let it slide, but it would take time to get over it..

B. Hit the road jack.. Straight up divorce no ifs or buts..

[SultanOrder]

alpha naagahan yaynu ku wereerinin They say one thing, but do another, always

[Alphanumeric]

^I know man, I know. *sigh*

[BlackVelvet]

alpha naagahan yaynu ku wereerinin They say one thing, but do another, always

You know when they talk about the blind leading the blind...

[Alphanumeric]

^Please.. women don't know what they want. I've gotten so many contradicting answers on varying topics, that it's not possible to take advice from anyone regarding anything.

Wing it.

[BlackVelvet]

It's not that complicated. Women know what they want: they want everything.


lol@ wing it.