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Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 6:54 pm
by DisplacedDiraac
When did I contradict myself? 
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 6:57 pm
by Alphanumeric
WestLdnShawty wrote:When did I contradict myself?
It's wrong to let others know of your sins, yet we should ask questions as directly as possible.
How do the two views coincide?
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 7:02 pm
by DisplacedDiraac
Did I say I believe in that view?.. I only mentioned it because numerous people throw that view around when it suits them particularly when chatting to a potential.
The latter bit was regarding asking questions.. 
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 7:11 pm
by Alphanumeric
Sorry, the wording threw me off.
Yes, I agree with the latter. One should be as direct as possible, but as I said above, I'm not sure how I would react if she turned out to be lying, fraudulent, dirtbag
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 7:28 pm
by DisplacedDiraac
If she turned out to be lieing after you asked her a direct question? Like you said that's grounds for a divorce on the spot.. If someone will lie about one thing however small it is.. My mind runs wild. I cant stress honesty enough ruunti.
But it also depends on how the truth came to light IMO..
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 7:32 pm
by Alphanumeric
WestLdnShawty wrote:If she turned out to be lieing after you asked her a direct question? Like you said that's grounds for a divorce on the spot.. If someone will lies about one thing however small it is.. My mind runs wild. I cant stress honesty enough ruunti.
But it depends on how the truth came to light IMO..
A. He lied to you after being asked directly, but then told you out of guilt within a month or two of marriage.
B. He lied to you after being asked directly, and then a chick rings up your home months later throwing accusations/proofs he then confesses to.
How would you react to both?
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 7:39 pm
by DisplacedDiraac
A. That's a tricky one.. I would respect the fact he finally told me.. I guess I would let it slide, but it would take time to get over it..
B. Hit the road jack.. Straight up divorce no ifs or buts..
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 2:04 am
by SultanOrder
alpha naagahan yaynu ku wereerinin
They say one thing, but do another, always
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 11:58 am
by Alphanumeric
^I know man, I know. *sigh*
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 12:29 pm
by BlackVelvet
Perfect_Order wrote:alpha naagahan yaynu ku wereerinin
They say one thing, but do another, always
You know when they talk about the blind leading the blind...
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 2:34 pm
by Alphanumeric
^Please.. women don't know what they want. I've gotten so many contradicting answers on varying topics, that it's not possible to take advice from anyone regarding anything.
Wing it.
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 6:50 am
by BlackVelvet
It's not that complicated. Women know what they want: they want everything.
lol@ wing it.