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Re: I don't want children.

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:lol:

All is well Soph, good to see you around here.
I cannot confirm or deny what Twist is saying. :Shrug:

@Twist, anaa ku cuno! :mad:
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gurey25 wrote:
HayWire wrote:Let me make a Ducaa for all of you who don't want to have children. May Allah bless you with 5 accidental kids each :D

By the way those of you who are against having Kids, can you support my new APP HSWS "Halal Shagging Without Shenanigans"
I know there is a demand for it. It is absolutely legal/Halal.

Sheikh Hyper can confirm, here is the ruling.

https://www.somalinet.com/forums/viewto ... 8&t=380228

Potential clients so far. Hyper, Tushi, Twist, Sophy, Lightatnight and openmindopenhert :eat:

hey man, thats copyright infringement.
I beat you to it, after the fatwa from shiekh hyper, i am looking investors.
Think of it as Halal Tinder, with your witnesses and a wadaad available live.
:lol:
Gurey sxb Masjiska ciyarta ka daa, I have done the marked research, I have sorted out the legality aspect of it, all I need is to put this into practice and sign up clients. I will see you in court :lol:
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Re: I don't want children.

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Sophisticate wrote:
Twist wrote:
Sophi, you don't know nothing, girl. Bella and I are in honeymoon in the Bahamas right now. Having the best time of our lives! I am your dumaashi now (or was it seedi?). :steviej:
Bella18 wrote:...
I need to hear her response to this. I'm waiting.... :lol:
Bella18 wrote::lol:

All is well Soph, good to see you around here.
I cannot confirm or deny what Twist is saying. :Shrug:

@Twist, anaa ku cuno! :mad:
Sorry, babe. Didn't mean to expose us. Just wanted to show off to Sophi and make her jelly af. :troll:
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Re: I don't want children.

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openmindopenheart wrote:
LightAtNight wrote:Since I was a kid, I've always imagined myself as becoming a father one day and having a lots of kids, but as time went by I changed my mind, am not sure I want to have kids anymore :(

What do you think changed your mind?
I changed my mind because of experiences I've had which made me reflect whether I really want to bring children into this world, I cant discuss them here, but I am not dead set, I might change my mind, Allah knows.

Sometimes I think shaytan whispers to people who would be excellent parents not to have children, because he knows they would raise good, strong and capable children, wallahualam, its just something that crossed my mind
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Re: I don't want children.

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Bella18 wrote::lol:

All is well Soph, good to see you around here.
I cannot confirm or deny what Twist is saying.
@Twist, anaa ku cuno!
Great to see you're in good spirits huno.
Twist wrote: Sorry, babe. Didn't mean to expose us. Just wanted to show off to Sophi and make her jelly af. :troll:
Twist,

I don't get jealous, it's a waste of emotion. I wish others will. The only thing I'm disappointed about is that I wasn't given an invite to the wedding.
:lol:
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Re: I don't want children.

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This thread was enjoyable.

My goal is to try to take one day at a time.

I want a husband and kids. Will that happen I don't know.

I do know that having kids and husband require time, love and attention.

Generally I find humans to be a lot work. But it's because I choose to make it that way. I worry about the current people in my life. I think I am concerned that if I were to introduce more people I might find it exhausting.
I think I am getting closer and closer to the idea of marriage. Only because I truly do want to marry someone and rock this life with them. I literally and figuratively want a canoe partner for life. I want to know the joy of that kind of love. I also believe if you meet the right person it can truly be extraordinary and relaxing. Marriage is not perfect but there is reason many pursue championship. I do not want to miss out.

As for kids, I always wanted kids but it doesn't appeal at this moment because again they require time, love and attention. If I do have kids I am getting a nanny and cook. That way I can take it easy. I don't think I want to get p regent. That doesn't sound appealing whats so ever.

Maybe I should get pet. I really do want to have cat and/ or dog.

If I want to have to child/children I can adopt. Then my nanny and cook can also help with that.

Again, I take one day at a time. At the moment no husband and no kids. and no pets. I am okay with that because that is what I can handle at this moment. I have other priority and goals at the moment

I will just take things as they come.
I am really looking forward to the future so many possibilities and options.

Live the life you want to live. And don't ever put yourself to conform to something that makes you feel uncomfortable.
Do you and make the best out of this life.
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Re: I don't want children.

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Sophisticate wrote:
Bella18 wrote::lol:

All is well Soph, good to see you around here.
I cannot confirm or deny what Twist is saying.
@Twist, anaa ku cuno!
Great to see you're in good spirits huno.
Twist wrote: Sorry, babe. Didn't mean to expose us. Just wanted to show off to Sophi and make her jelly af. :troll:
Twist,

I don't get jealous, it's a waste of emotion. I wish others will. The only thing I'm disappointed about is that I wasn't given an invite to the wedding.
:lol:
We're just messin' with ya, sis. ;)

Anyway, what a coincidence! I've just happened to be browsing the Daily Mail (I know. Ended up there from somewhere else) and one of their top read articles today is about a Facebook page created in 2012 re women who regretted having children. Check it here for yourselves:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/artic ... -born.html

And here is the FB page:

https://www.facebook.com/IRegretHavingChildren/?fref=ts
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