[quote="Wareer"]Salaam!
What if one of your kids decided to go out with someone who is not Somali? Right now we can still talk about how good/bad it is for Somali girls to be going out with foreigners. But what about the upcoming generations? Will they even have the same strong feelings as you do?
I thought Somalis would be able to adapt to a new society without ever having to lose their identity. We seem to have become the typical Black/Nigga family wherever in the diaspora we live in. The number of single mothers raising their kids alone is staggering. The majority of men seek solace in "qat" (the Somali crack) is heartbreaking. Somalis live in ghettos because the low cost of subsidized housing appeals to them. But we do not bother to protect our children from the evils lurking in those neighbourhoods.
And in the process we still want to teach our kids about Islam and Somali culture when most parents rarely set a good example for their kids. A lot of single moms who have thrown out the famous "bac madow" for their ex-husbands still need to have sex and often times invite a long list of "abtis" to their homes to spend the night.
I don't think we should care about a young girl who wants to find out if the Nigga really has a bigger d.i.c.k than the Somali man. Anytime you see a Somali girl with a foreigner 9 times out of 10 she is not a virgin. She wants to experiment further.
What should really bother Somalis is the decay within their own neighborhoods and families. The kids that are now in elementary school with careless parents are the ones most at risk.
As for Somali men and women who are bothered by Somali chicks and dudes going out with foreigners, are you not bothered when they go out with Somalis? Are they not doing the same thing? Is it not all frowned upon and xaraam?
Either fear Allah and it must show in all your actions or leave people alone because ultimately there will be a Day of Reckoning. And on that DAY when there will be no shade other than Allah's, may we all be granted mercy by the All Powerful and be granted Jannah. Amiin.
Wareer
Wareeray waa wareeray!!![/quote]

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